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Hi from SoCal
Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2025 9:33 pm
by BiSubHusband
Hi, my name is Jay, wife is Samantha. I am 49 she is 44 and we live in California. She has never actually been with another guy while married, but she did let me set her up with a guy online. They talked for a few months and she started to really catch feelings. Started out emailing then led to txts and calls. I told him I would fly him out to meet her in person and he just ghosted us. She was upset, cried a lot. Guess I'm just looking for new opportunities for her.
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2025 6:02 am
by armyguyot1
Welcome to the forum BiSubHusband.
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2025 8:15 am
by arkansascuck
sorry that happened to you...
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2025 8:29 am
by unclecuck
This happens a lot more than you think, specially when trying to find a connection on line. Too many creeps and fakes in line.
There are much better ways to find what you trying too achieve.
Uncle
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2025 8:36 am
by BiSubHusband
Yeah online has been REALLY hit or miss. I think she likes the idea of getting to know the guy from a distance, but you can't really vet a person like that.
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2025 9:29 am
by FollowMy Lead
His behavior is childish and and I am sorry you went looking for a man and found a boy.
It happens too often and it makes it a bigger challenge for the next gentleman who may catch her eye. I have been the 'next guy' and had to overcome the sour taste left by someone else. I am in SoCal and you may want to look locally so that you can vet much sooner and avoid repeating the situation. Meeting in person before it gets too deep can prevent disappointment later. I hope you let her know it was not her, and it probably would end this way with anyone this guy was leading on. There are more good guys out there and plenty in your backyard and SoCal.
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2025 11:01 am
by Bogdan
Sorry to hear that but welcome to this forum anyway
Re: Hi from SoCal
Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2025 5:05 pm
by Socalfunguy99
BiSubHusband wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 9:33 pm
Hi, my name is Jay, wife is Samantha. I am 49 she is 44 and we live in California. She has never actually been with another guy while married, but she did let me set her up with a guy online. They talked for a few months and she started to really catch feelings. Started out emailing then led to txts and calls. I told him I would fly him out to meet her in person and he just ghosted us. She was upset, cried a lot. Guess I'm just looking for new opportunities for her.
I'm already in socal. No need to fly me anywhere. Would love to learn more about Samantha