Weird Situation

[RoyEllas]

Thought I’d introduce myself and where I’m at in the lifestyle.
I’m in a weird situation. I’m between a cuck and a stag. I met this girl a while ago, we “dated” for a bit. I put it quotes because I didn’t know we weren’t exclusive. At some point she had met another guy and was spending less time with me. When I asked she was honest with me, telling me that she never stopped going on dates and seeing other guys. I didn’t know how to take it. On one hand, I was extremely turned on but I had decided to move on from that “lifestyle” and wanted to something more vanilla I guess. I was 33 at the time, i had been in relationships where i was stag, encouraging my partners to flirt and sleep with other men. I pushed the limits with taboo at times, I felt that I have my fun and needed to change. I ended the relationship. I started seeing other people and ended up always in my old ways. I don’t know why but 9 years later and I still can’t stop thinking about this girl. Amazing body, funny, and the sex was incredible. So reach out to her and we start talking and it doesn’t take long before we start flirting and start talking about all the great sex we had, at one point admitting that I was turned on knowing that she was fucking other guys while we were seeing each other. She confessed to have had her share of guys, always being a flirt, she was proud of being a slut. She also had given me the news that she had met a nice guy and that she had been faithful ever since and she even married him. She has kept me a secret from her husband since. She is 10 years younger than me and loves calling me daddy. She loves being controlled by me. She’s back to her old slutty ways but will now ask for my permission and will ask to pick her outfits when she goes on a date. It goes as far as me denying her husband of sex because I prefer her having sex with another guy.

Anyone else in a weird relationship? Sorry for being all over the place, I’m sure I left out some details. Questions and comments are welcome. Looking forward to sharing my previous experience with being a blend of a stag and cuck

-RoyEllas

[arkansascuck]

it sounds like a relationship that would certainly arouse your cuckold desires, but it lacks the real relationship that you would need, besides that she is married. I wonder if you had ever done anything to make her 'your girl', did you ever ask her for exclusivity?

It could be she didn't want that kind of relationship.

Sometimes girls will start to drift if they want that but aren't ever given that opportunity.

It's a weird relationship, but i don't think there is much you can do with her anymore.

[RoyEllas]

it sounds like a relationship that would certainly arouse your cuckold desires, but it lacks the real relationship that you would need, besides that she is married. I wonder if you had ever done anything to make her 'your girl', did you ever ask her for exclusivity?

It could be she didn't want that kind of relationship.

Sometimes girls will start to drift if they want that but aren't ever given that opportunity.

It's a weird relationship, but i don't think there is much you can do with her anymore.

We’ve talked about her leaving her husband and about her moving in with me. I guess I should just accept that this is me! There’s something about letting other guys have their way with my girlfriend. What makes it worse is that we both come from very conservative backgrounds and our social circles would not agree with our lifestyle. Her getting married made things worse because divorce is still a taboo. Like I said it’s complicated!