Hello from a Berkshire, UK based couple

[Open-uk-couple]

Hi to all Brits out there from a Berkshire, UK based Stag/Vixen hotwife couple. We’re both mid 40’s and have been together for 25+ years.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Open-uk-couple.

[Trevose]

Hi, and welcome from a fellow Southerner. A little further south on the Hampshire coast.

[Open-uk-couple]

Hi Trevose, nice to meet you.

[Bogdan]

Welcome uk couple

[sandjlondon]

Hi - from a Surrey 40's couple here!

[Open-uk-couple]

What works best for you for finding a longer term man for your wife? We've been active on Fabswingers for about a year, with lots of fun experiences but not many of the people we've met get the dynamic we're after.

[McrBull]

What works best for you for finding a longer term man for your wife? We've been active on Fabswingers for about a year, with lots of fun experiences but not many of the people we've met get the dynamic we're after.

I've found that Fab is very hard to get what I want.

What type of dynamic is it you guys are looking for?

[BritishBull2k25]

From what I've heard from couples on Fab, men on there are generally on there for one-offs and occasional meets, unfortunately.

Also, welcome aboard!

[Open-uk-couple]

Hi BritishBull2k25, yes that’s exactly what we’ve found too.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum McrBull.

[Open-uk-couple]

I've found that Fab is very hard to get what I want.

What type of dynamic is it you guys are looking for?

We’re looking for long term relationships. For us, feelings make things much more intense so perhaps we’re a little Poly. I'm not into humiliation but love sharing her and seeing the pleasure she experiences with another man or woman. She enjoys sometimes sharing me with another woman.

We usually play together in a threesome, but she does sometimes play solo with a man once she knows him well. I've played solo with a woman a few times which was exciting but I feel more joy when she’s involved.

She's generally dominant in her day to day life, especially at work, but has started to explore being submissive sexually and found that she really enjoys it. This is something she would like to explore further with the right man.

[McrBull]

I've found that Fab is very hard to get what I want.

What type of dynamic is it you guys are looking for?

We’re looking for long term relationships. For us, feelings make things much more intense so perhaps we’re a little Poly. I'm not into humiliation but love sharing her and seeing the pleasure she experiences with another man or woman. She enjoys sometimes sharing me with another woman.

We usually play together in a threesome, but she does sometimes play solo with a man once she knows him well. I've played solo with a woman a few times which was exciting but I feel more joy when she’s involved.

She's generally dominant in her day to day life, especially at work, but has started to explore being submissive sexually and found that she really enjoys it. This is something she would like to explore further with the right man.

Yes, that's pretty much what I want, and have always required of my couples.

I'm not looking for a quick wham bam thank you ma'am leg over.. I prefer to build the relationship organically.. We go on dates, the 3 of us, sometimes 2 of us.. get to know each other outside of the bedroom, before inside.. I find that when we go on this path, the connection we all have is so much more powerful..

My very 1st couple, I was seeing them for 5 years, and only stopped due to the Vixens illness.. And subsequent relationships, I have demanded the same..

[mattyg_2671]

South East England here too, close to Berks actually. Same here, it makes the experience so much more intense when there is great chemistry, connection and communication between all 3 as well as just physical attraction. One difference : we’re into the humiliation