Our Hotwives

Hello! Almost 59-year-old married to still lovely 55-year-old. I've been interested in this stuff since running across it on the old Tumblr a decade ago(?). Actually, I think some hints were there before, but in our conservative part of the country (USA) I was unaware of anything other than swinging. Or threesomes. Swinging never particularly interested me, but threesomes certainly do.

It will probably never happen, but enjoy reading about it and seeing others enjoy the lifestyle. However, I recently said something about if we had a pool we’d have to have a pool boy. She excitedly said “Yes!” Then she said it would have to be a pool boy, not a pool man. A pool man would have a pot belly and be balding. So, perhaps there is hope.

More into hotwife/wifesharing than cucking, but in the last year I've got Peyronie's and lost an inch, which I really didn't have to lose. So now I'm at 4 1/2 inches (11.5 cm) and would like to hear my wife talk about how a larger man feel in her. She is small, and wouldn't want a very large guy, like maybe 6 or 6 1/2 inches would be all she's want. We did get some girth enhancers, but she didn't like either of the ones we tried.

I don't know what else to say right now.

Have you considered just coming right out and suggesting she try another cock and mentioning how much you’d enjoy it as well?

Hello and thanks for site manager. New to site and fairly new to lifestyle, it looks like a very educational and interesting site..
Like Great Plains, we are rural and finding our way in this.
Married, fit and attractive middle income couple.

milehinbi wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 9:07 am

Have you considered just coming right out and suggesting she try another cock and mentioning how much you’d enjoy it as well?

I am working up to it. I have a list of "100 date night questions" and one or two have to do with sexual fantasies, so I am going to bring it up then. Of course you can't do 100 in one night, but we will get to it eventually.

wetriedit3 wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 12:03 pm

Hello and thanks for site manager. New to site and fairly new to lifestyle, it looks like a very educational and interesting site..
Like Great Plains, we are rural and finding our way in this.
Married, fit and attractive middle income couple.

Being in a small town does present other challenges if this were to become reality. Most likely have to travel some for any meetups.

We are actually rural and well known. We figure we have to travel at least 500 miles to play. Vegas and Palm Springs give us some freedom. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas is really a help also. It may be an advertising gimic but it makes a difference to her.

500 miles! Wow. I figure a couple of hours away should do it, depending on which direction. Of course we have friends and family scattered all about. Vegas is a good idea, they have cheap flights into there.

Good luck, and keep us up to date. We're hoping that you & your wife have success.

Thanks. I'll keep posting as things progress.