Our Hotwives

Hey Everyone,
Glad to be a part of this group. Not easy to find people to chat with about encouraging the wives to be a Hotwife.
My wife is a tall, beautiful, brunette, with a great curvy body that is built for sex. She is also multi-orgasmic and truly enjoys giving oral sex, and prefers Bull personalities.
I am a tall, good looking, above average, fit alpha male with great sexual stamina.

We are a swinger couple who has somewhat recently started enjoying the Stagg / Vixen Hotwife aspect.
Started when I realized that I was spending quite a bit of time, while swapping with another couple, watching my wife being enjoyed by the other man.
MFM is our preference. She enjoys the pleasure brought from two men, and I enjoy watching / hearing her being enjoyed by her Bull.

It has been a long journey to get her comfortable talking with me about what she enjoys from a hotwife perspective. She still does not feel very comfortable dirty talking about it while we have sex.

I am looking forward to chatting with others who are on this journey, talking about the turn on's, fantasies, and sharing some detail about what our hotwives have enjoyed doing with other men.

Also interested in chatting about navigating Bulls. Our recent, regular, Bull who happened to be black with the biggest cock my wife has ever seen or enjoyed. She loved our times with him and would describe having sex with him as a spiritual awakening. He recently tried to dominate me, via text, right before he was set to come over. Being an Alpha personality I abruptly put an end to that which she supported.

Last night my wife mentioned she could see him coming back around at some point, basically letting me know she wants him again.

Not sure how to deal with this one so I would like to chat with anyone with similar experiences. Its important to note that I am not jealous nor do I feel that the fact of her really enjoying him sexually adds any risk to our relationship.
Thanks for reading!

Welcome to the forum stag12345.

I'm also Alpha and have shut things down because of guys trying to dominate me or thinking I'm a cuck. My wife is always supportive of my actions. Just because you want to share doesn't mean you're submissive or a cuck.

Great start, look forward to hearing more about you and her

As a long term hubby of a hotwife and former extra male to couples.
I have seen a few guys try to dominate me or humiliate me when watching them with the wife (to get with the wife alone, only after we trusted the guy), so always watched each time till that trust either developed of simply moved on from the guy. The two times I remember it happened I got up from chair where I was watching and held put my hand to my wife and took her off bed and told the to leave and not come back or contact us again.
One guy my wife really enjoyed and told her IF he contacts and dull apologies he possibly could get to see her again, but I would never agree to one on one with her and never trust. You MUST stand your ground with these guys. I never disrespected a couple or hubby unless he specifically requested such play. Even then after play, I never stayed in that mode. That is rude.