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New to the site, not to Hotwifing
Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2025 4:54 am
by oklacuck1972
My wife (50) and I (52) have been married 25 yrs and have 3 grown children. We have been in the Hotwife lifestyle for the last 16 yrs and love it more than ever. My wife's confidence has exploded and we feel that our relationship is so much better. We both get to enjoy the things we enjoy without worrying about being judged.
Donna has been with 37 different men in the last 16 yrs and definitely has a type, she enjoys a masculine take charge type man that is usually younger than us. She likes them in good shape & well hung. She seems to prefer black Bulls, but still enjoys other races occasionally. She prefers long term relationships, not one and dones (but has done a few of those on vacation ).
I love to chat about our experiences and getting to know others in the lifestyle. No way we could ever go back to a vanilla marriage! Feel free to message us.
Re: New to the site, not to Hotwifing
Posted: Wed Sep 17, 2025 7:00 am
by armyguyot1
Welcome to the forum oklacuck.
Re: New to the site, not to Hotwifing
Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2025 8:48 am
by oklacuck1972
Thanks armyguyot1!
Re: New to the site, not to Hotwifing
Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2025 9:48 am
by Reno1
Hello Oklacuck,
Like you I started Hotwifing on my own, but much further in the past. I had never heard of Hotwifing, cuckolding or any of the currently known ways of recognizing that marital sex needs variety and freshness to remain enjoyable and support a happy marriage.
In the 1960s my Mormon girlfriend, both of us virgins, went out with a girl friend in high school, were picked up by a couple of guys, and she fucked one of the guys twice.
When she called me the next day she had huge difficulty getting up the courage to tell me that she lost her virginity and taken her first two loads of cum from a stranger who picked her up, gave her some beer, and spent the night fucking her.
I was outraged, humiliated, destroyed……land then strangely, incredibly horny.
I told her the I forgave her for her spending her legs for a hornier guy, and we got married. She was pregnant at the time, and I have never even to try to find out who got her pregnant.
About two years after we were married she confessed again that she was fucking two other guys.
That made me so horny that I had to tell her I wanted her to fuck other guys, it was the thing that made me incredibly aroused. It was clumsy and stupid but I got it out of my mouth. She said no at first but soon was ready, I made little comments during sex.
And that has always been the way of sex for me and my wife.
Re: New to the site, not to Hotwifing
Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2025 12:07 pm
by oklacuck1972
Reno1 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 18, 2025 9:48 am
Hello Oklacuck,
Like you I started Hotwifing on my own, but much further in the past. I had never heard of Hotwifing, cuckolding or any of the currently known ways of recognizing that marital sex needs variety and freshness to remain enjoyable and support a happy marriage.
In the 1960s my Mormon girlfriend, both of us virgins, went out with a girl friend in high school, were picked up by a couple of guys, and she fucked one of the guys twice.
When she called me the next day she had huge difficulty getting up the courage to tell me that she lost her virginity and taken her first two loads of cum from a stranger who picked her up, gave her some beer, and spent the night fucking her.
I was outraged, humiliated, destroyed……land then strangely, incredibly horny.
I told her the I forgave her for her spending her legs for a hornier guy, and we got married. She was pregnant at the time, and I have never even to try to find out who got her pregnant.
About two years after we were married she confessed again that she was fucking two other guys.
That made me so horny that I had to tell her I wanted her to fuck other guys, it was the thing that made me incredibly aroused. It was clumsy and stupid but I got it out of my mouth. She said no at first but soon was ready, I made little comments during sex.
And that has always been the way of sex for me and my wife.
Congratulations! At least you had the nerve to tell her what you wanted and needed!!
Re: New to the site, not to Hotwifing
Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2025 4:40 pm
by jamesandk
New to site also ,not yet sure how to contact you but we have very similar histories. We posted in new intros a short while ago and in "how many men have had your wife" in hotwife forum.
JandK.