Tom & Kitty Katz — Back After 20 Years, Ready to Reconnect and Explore Again
Posted: Thu Oct 16, 2025 9:38 pm
Posted by Tom (for both of us)
This post is written by Tom, but it speaks for both of us — everything here reflects how we feel and what we’re looking for together. Kitty and I talked through every word of it, so while I’m the one typing, the message comes from both of us.
We’re Kitty Katz and Tom Katz — a happily married couple from Texas in our early and late 50s (Tom’s the older one). We were active on this forum about twenty years ago and are happy to be back. Back then, we shared a couple of wonderful adventures; the second one ended a little awkwardly when the other man’s wife turned out not to be as comfortable as she first thought. We’ll be reposting those old stories soon.
When we first explored this, Kitty had never been with anyone but Tom. She was a virgin when we met, and Tom wanted her to have the chance to experience what it would be like to be with another man — openly, honestly, and with his full support. After those two encounters, Kitty discovered both what she’d been curious about and how much she enjoyed it. But because the second situation caused strain in the other couple’s marriage, she made a firm promise never to be part of that kind of hurt again.
Life moved on — kids, work, everything else — and that side of us went quiet. Now, years later, with Tom facing some ED challenges, he encouraged revisiting that spark we once shared. He’s never forgotten how beautiful it was to see Kitty so fulfilled and how much joy and excitement it brought both of us.
We’re a stag-and-vixen pair in a loving, open marriage on Kitty’s side only, with Tom’s full knowledge and support. We’re looking for one kind, emotionally mature, non-smoking man for a genuine, long-term, exclusive, and safe bareback connection with Kitty — something built on mutual trust, chemistry, and communication.
When it comes to kink, we’ve dabbled a little but never gone too deep into it. Kitty isn’t heavily into BDSM, though there are certain aspects she enjoys. It’s not something we rule out — more something to talk about together and decide if and how it fits. We’re open to ideas and thoughtful suggestions from the right person.
Kitty tends to connect best with men in their 40s to 50s who are grounded, respectful, and comfortable with this kind of open yet faithful arrangement. She enjoys gaming on PS5 and PC, and together we love VR, board, and card games. Movies, good food, and genuine conversation are big parts of our downtime.
We’re not looking to juggle multiple people — just one steady, uncomplicated bond that feels good for everyone involved.
Discretion, respect, and authenticity are essential.
– Tom & Kitty Katz
Texas
This post is written by Tom, but it speaks for both of us — everything here reflects how we feel and what we’re looking for together. Kitty and I talked through every word of it, so while I’m the one typing, the message comes from both of us.
We’re Kitty Katz and Tom Katz — a happily married couple from Texas in our early and late 50s (Tom’s the older one). We were active on this forum about twenty years ago and are happy to be back. Back then, we shared a couple of wonderful adventures; the second one ended a little awkwardly when the other man’s wife turned out not to be as comfortable as she first thought. We’ll be reposting those old stories soon.
When we first explored this, Kitty had never been with anyone but Tom. She was a virgin when we met, and Tom wanted her to have the chance to experience what it would be like to be with another man — openly, honestly, and with his full support. After those two encounters, Kitty discovered both what she’d been curious about and how much she enjoyed it. But because the second situation caused strain in the other couple’s marriage, she made a firm promise never to be part of that kind of hurt again.
Life moved on — kids, work, everything else — and that side of us went quiet. Now, years later, with Tom facing some ED challenges, he encouraged revisiting that spark we once shared. He’s never forgotten how beautiful it was to see Kitty so fulfilled and how much joy and excitement it brought both of us.
We’re a stag-and-vixen pair in a loving, open marriage on Kitty’s side only, with Tom’s full knowledge and support. We’re looking for one kind, emotionally mature, non-smoking man for a genuine, long-term, exclusive, and safe bareback connection with Kitty — something built on mutual trust, chemistry, and communication.
When it comes to kink, we’ve dabbled a little but never gone too deep into it. Kitty isn’t heavily into BDSM, though there are certain aspects she enjoys. It’s not something we rule out — more something to talk about together and decide if and how it fits. We’re open to ideas and thoughtful suggestions from the right person.
Kitty tends to connect best with men in their 40s to 50s who are grounded, respectful, and comfortable with this kind of open yet faithful arrangement. She enjoys gaming on PS5 and PC, and together we love VR, board, and card games. Movies, good food, and genuine conversation are big parts of our downtime.
We’re not looking to juggle multiple people — just one steady, uncomplicated bond that feels good for everyone involved.
Discretion, respect, and authenticity are essential.
– Tom & Kitty Katz
Texas