Our Hotwives

Hello everyone. Happy to join the community. I hope to be able to add to and learn from the experience of the board.

How my wife of over 20 years and I got here:
I was in the Navy for 20 years. It is common to talk to couples in the military who participate in the lifestyle. Often during a deployment, a couple will switch to an open relationship. To be honest, at the beginning of my career I couldn't even consider the idea of my wife having sex with another person. It would be more than I could handle. As the years and the deployments came and went, my opinion began to change.

As we hit our 30s and her libido climbed, our good sex life became great. We explored each other and our fantasies. As things became more adventurous, boundaries were pushed.

It was me who first brought up the idea of her having a lover while I was on deployment. She considered but never took advantage. Between taking care of our child, our home, and her career while I was gone, she never had the energy or time.

When the deployments were over and my career was ending, we discussed swinging. Our discussions were detailed and deep, including our desires and limits. We agreed that she would have sex with someone and I would only have sex with her. My idea initially was to get her into the idea of swinging. My ultimate goal at the time was to eventually reach wife swapping once she was comfortable with the having sex with others. We attended a club twice and enjoyed the atmosphere of open sexuality and the people we met. However, she could not bring herself to go through with it. We did have some absolutely great sex at the hotel after the club though. The idea really got her going, we just were not ready. Soon, between life and everything that was the year 2020, I thought we had left all of it behind. The idea was a distant memory. A fantasy never to be realized. I had assumed we would never consider it again.

Now in a new city and a new career, years later, seemingly out of nowhere, she asked a question. "Do you remember when we talked about having a 3 way with another man?" Of course I had remembered but hadn't given it a serious thought in years. It was just this past summer. She started talking about Hot Wife and swinger sites and ENM and having 2 or more men at a time. She had been doing some real research and she was ready.

The discussions began. The rules, the feelings, what to do if it all went wrong. We tried to leave no stone unturned. We were excited, but you never know how a thing will be until you have done it.

It didn’t take long after we got serious about it. From the very first encounter with our first third, we were hooked. It has been 5 months since the first one, and we have no intension on stopping or even slowing. Hotels, the backseat of the car, a single guy's house, and a couple of sex clubs. We have been having a lot of sex with and without thirds. When she is done having sex with another guy or with me and another guy, she just wants even more.

Conclusion:
We love Hot Wiving. She loves being spit roasted. I love watching her fuck.

Hope you guys enjoy our origin story. I would be happy to share what we have experienced so far and to continue to share our adventures in the future.

Cheers

Welcome to the forum Entropy.

Hi I’m the Mrs. Nice post Babe! Pretty much sums it up.

Definitely looking forward to learning and chatting here on the forums.

Welcome to the forum 1FoxxyCajun.

Entropy
Great intro to how you got to where you are. Please continue with what all has happened and all the details

Thanks for the welcome armyguy the wife and I are digging the info on the site.
Wantsomefunto, Let me know if this is what you are looking for. There is more if people like.

Here are the events of our first meet up with our first 3rd.

Once we decided we were doing this, there was a lot of excitement. We had dipped our toes into the pool years ago but now we were ready jump in. Step one, make an SLS account.

After creating the account, we set to task of filling out our profile with a picture of her and a list of what we thought we wanted. It did not take long before the guys started sending messages. The search was on for someone who had at least read our profile. Many sent the one or two word message. “Hey” or “Whats up” or maybe just a picture of their cock. We checked out the profiles of guys that had more to say. Bonus points for those who made comments that proved they read the profile. Eventually she found someone interesting. Contact was made through SLS and we were on our way to the next step. The meet up.

Since SLS is not the easiest to use for making arrangements, we switched to SnapChat. There was some flirting and further discussion with our new friend. We had scoped out a place in a suburb we did not live in. A nice bar that was not too loud or too quiet with booths that allowed for some intimacy. Now date, time, and place were set for our first meet.

We met up on a Saturday night. She has a no sex on the first date rule. The rule is flexible but mostly we stick to it. We got to the bar first. We claimed a spot and got some drinks. She looked amazing in a skin tight dress that showed a healthy amount of cleavage. He showed up shortly afterwards. Some conversation happened and things started to get hot. I asked them to kiss. It was the first time she had kissed a man other than me in a very long time. At first a peck and then more. As they got more comfortable, I got more excited. Both of us were stroking her thighs, touching her body, and kissing her. Fingers went up her dress to find she was as wet as her face let on. We were still at the bar. We were pushing our luck. It was time to move on to somewhere more private.

I pulled the car around and the both of them got in the back. I pulled away from the curb and they were all over each other. I could see she was straddling him in the back seat. At a stop light I took the opportunity to feel her. We kissed deep and passionately. The light turned green and her attention went back to him.

I found a parking lot of a business that was off the main strip and occupied with empty cars even though the business was closed. I parked and joined them in the back seat. His cock was out, she was stroking it. She pulled my cock out and started sucking it immediately. We took turns kissing her. He and I had our hands all over her body, rubbing her. The moans of pleasure from her were intoxicating. She started sucking his cock while I fingered her wet pussy. Things continued to escalate. We got into some very interesting positions in the back seat of that car that night. By the time we were done the car windows were fogged up, it was hot as hell, and her face and sexy dress were covered in cum.

We went a little further than we expected, but it turned out to be a good night.
Cheers

I also encourage 1FoxxyCajun to be a part of the dialogue. The woman's viewpoints, attitudes and assessments of the lifestyle experiences are a key part of the overall picture. Having "two sides of the story" is inevitably more enlightening than just one.

Sounds like a good time was had by all.

Well you have my attention.
Thank you and welcome.

Thanks guys. I do hope everyone is enjoying us sharing. She does proofread these, but her point of view and memory is unique from mine. She is enjoying reading my version of what happened as much as you guys are.

I am sure she will add in when she is ready. She is looking forward to getting into the women only part of the forum to share and learn there. I do think that is one of the great things that drew us to the site.

We have had some other fun adventures in the last couple of months, and we are looking to make some more hot memories before we are done.
I love sharing my wife and the wonderful effect it has had on our social and sex life.

Hi everyone! Thanks for responding to hubby's post. It's fun reading his account of things we've done and the way he remembers it all. I forget some things because of being caught up in the moment. I mostly remember the way I felt: horny, naughty, and nervous. I probably had too much to drink but it was our first meetup and we didn't know what to expect. We had been monogamous for over 20 years. My husband is my everything and my best friend.

I went through some weird feelings the next couple days, battling the societal views put upon me since childhood that this is wrong. It didn't feel wrong however, just something fun we did together and not that big of a deal. We played with that third a few more times, he was a good introduction to the LS for us.

Nice telling of a very cool story.

Kudos to 1FoxxyCajun for choosing such an awesome and auspicious forum name.

And thank you to Entropy for his naval service.

You sound like lovely people, and I hope you've found a home here and a fun place to share your adventure.

Since you've already begun to tell your history, I'd suggest you ask the moderators to move this thread to the Hotwife section. It's the best place for an on-going narrative. Good to have all of it in one place. You'll get more reads and comments there, too.



Thanks to both of you for sharing. Best wishes!

I would not be opposed to moving the thread and continuing to add stories from our adventures so far as well as future endeavors. As long as everyone is enjoying the content.