Hotwife Wannabe

[JalapenoPantz22]

Hey Everyone, husband wannabe here looking to join the hotwifing community. My wife and I are college sweethearts and have been married for 12 years. 2 years ago I told her I'd love to share her with other men and she was supportive of my fantasy but not really into doing it for real. Since thing I respectfully let things be and she let me keep having the fantasy. I started buying her some sexier clothing and she's been enjoying wearing them and getting some extra attention here and there. For the time being I'm just here to chat with other about the lifestyle and try my best to enjoy this awesome kink. cheers!

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum JalapenoPantz22.

[LVyoung]

Welcome to the forum! Give it some time. Good luck! If you ever want to talk with a single guy, let me know!

[Wantsomefunto]

Great start on the HW journey. Sometimes tell her you want it is the hardest step.

[Wantsomefunto]

Great start on the HW journey. Sometimes tell her you want it is the hardest step.

[JalapenoPantz22]

Thanks for the welcome! Excited to chat and continue the journey!

[Restarting]

Definitely a great idea to buy sexier clothes! You can support her by always telling her how hot she looks.
The extra attention she enjoys validates your view. You've got the ball rolling, now she can imagine what it might be like.
No need to push.

[Wantsomefunto]

Not sure how big you are, but getting a lifelike dildo much bigger than you can help open her mind to fucking other cocks

[JohnnieW995]

For me and my start last year it was sort of a combination of her knowing for a while, many talks and the right opportunity coming along.

Perhaps roleplay with her that she's cucking you, could be a good way to gauge what or if she gets something from it and how you feel as well. That's what worked for us!