I’m MrMtl, 55 y/o from Montreal Canada region. My future wife is 42. We have been together for the past 7 years. I might do some mistake here in my spelling because English is not my primary language so sorry for that.
I found this site in 2019 and since, I’m practically every day reading different couple in many section. I found this site while I was on a business trip after a sexy FaceTime call with the live of my life. Let’s call her here MissMtl. We are very close and I we frequently say that we are soulmates and love each other very very much.
Our call was very sexual, like we are. She was using her dildo while watching her so far away. It trigger something that night, something that I found very erotic and sexual. I was so excited seeing her having pleasure from another cock. We are very open especially her on domination. We have many toys to play with. We are kinda switch in that domains. But I prefer submitting myself to her.
I read here that it’s sometimes preferable bringing this subject very slowly to your wife and that’s what I did. When i first told her that I found a page where real couple we telling there stories and explaining what it did to them, she said that she prefer herself exclusive to me and it’s kinda dangerous for the couple. She’s absolutely right on that, but many couples with a excellent communication between them have it worked out and found a new thing very exciting together.
After that conversation, I tough about it more and she’s right. Having someone else in your couple can conflicts many things.
I tried avoiding the subject will making love but I found that I was more excited while imagining my wife with another persons. Man or woman. Yes a woman because she openly said one time that she wish try having sex with a woman.
I’m trying giving you guys a better understanding of where we are here because I think that I will not stay long in the wannabe section
So since that first night, I bring the subject more often during sex and it gradually found it’s way to excited her very much. She never said that she wish that it will append one day until three weeks ago. What happened 3 weeks ago, well she was telling me about a guy who she’s working with who she finds him very good looking and it could be the one who she could be willing to try it. Then she look at me and said, (we never know) ! I was like (What did you just say !!!) she saw my jaw dropped and she kiss me. That’s where I said oookkkay maybe we should talk about it. She was going to fast now. While reading many stories here, many couples write down some rules for them to prevent any derailment.
If we embarked this lifestyle, I want it that we do it together and have fun together and being truthful to eachother. No secrets.
I’m creating this topics here because I hope to received different advice so we will be able to found our way. Also because I think it will happens soon. She bought me a cage two years ago and when I put it on, she became excited immediately. She never thought that it was gonna do that to her. We are not playing much with it but last night, she told me that next week November 24, she might ask me to put it on, I told her why the 24 ? She told me that it’s her Christmas party on that day where she work. I became hard immediately and she felt it and told me, (I new it).
That’s about it for now. Sorry it maybe a long post but I felt it might be better giving you first a little bit about us.
