wife surprised me with something

[Jujube]

As far as religion goes, King Solomon had 700 wives and twice as many concubines! One of Jesus’ best friends was the “harlot” Mary Magdalene. The seventh commandment about adultery seems obviated if both parties agree to it. I think both of you need to relax and see what happens. Do you two role-play in bed? I think that’s a harmless little game that might get her going in the right direction.

[Jujube]

As far as religion goes, King Solomon had 700 wives and twice as many concubines! One of Jesus’ best friends was the “harlot” Mary Magdalene. The seventh commandment about adultery seems obviated if both parties agree to it. I think both of you need to relax and see what happens. Do you two role-play in bed? I think that’s a harmless little game that might get her going in the right direction.

[philxxo]

We don't role play in bed. She doesn't want to think of anyone else while we have sex. It detracts from us in her mind. I've tried doing it especially when I use a dildo on her as if its another guy and she gets mad saying she isn't going to do it.

[philxxo]

So I had the conversation with my wife. I basically said that it appeared to me that she was more excited about it than she would admit to me. When I first told her she was joking around about having a BF. She asked me what my plan was to make it happen etc. She said she could have sex with a stranger and was OK being watched. Then turned it all off with the religion card. She told me essentially that she was just being a good wife and was trying to do something that I wanted, it wasn't her own interest. She says she can't fit it into being OK with religion. I am just going to shelve this and not worry about it anymore. I suppose if I become totally impotent one day she might reconsider. Who knows.

[Small]

Yeah, not all women are cut out for this and that's totally fine, even if you off course would have preferred she was. I do, however,find it interesting that she said she would be OK with having sex with a stranger in front of you, but because of religion she can't. It indicates at least that the idea in itself isn't a turn-off for her, so who knows, maybe given the right circumstances, she could change her mind sometime in the future.

[philxxo]

Well it didn't take long. A few nights ago after a few drinks, wife wanted me to explain why she needed another cock besides mine. I explained to her that it would be the ride of her life. There are some better cocks out there attached to young good looking men who are much more capable than me. She tried to keep telling me that mine was just fine. LOL

[Small]

Yes - she is absolutely still thinking about it, even if she keeps saying that it won't happen. It sounds to me like she is clearly intrigued by it but has the typical reservations against it that all "good girls/women" have. It can definitely happen one day.

[RuleEmAll]

It seems to me that the seed you planted is slowly starting to grow.... She's totally into it, otherwise she wouldn't bring it up again. She's playing the religion card to soothe her inner Madonna/whore complex. I think as long as you stay honest with her about your intentions and don't push her in one way or the other, she'll might surprise you.