The importance of her orgasms when you are a Wannabe

[BD8280]

Something which I have been thinking about for a long time , and wanted to share with all the wannabe cucks out there. My wife isn’t a hotwife (yet) but I want to share something which I think has had a huge impact on my wife changing the way she feels about becoming a hotwife.

If you want your wife to do something you need tell her while she is having an orgasm.

Okay, so it might not be quite as simple as that but that is the idea. In the past I have learned a lot about relationship therapy and relationship dynamics and I was always fascinated by how important orgams are in a relationship (for a female). Its a time when they are at their most vulnerable, malleable and willing to give in to anything (as well as lots of other things)
I’m not saying it’s a fast process or anything or that it’s easy but the single biggest change I saw in my wife is when she learned that I was very happy when she was orgasming for another guy. For this We used a dildo and other toys.
For us the dildo is always another man… I use this with the toys to get her to orgasm as hard as possible (and I mean hard) all the time telling her I love it and I love her I love how she is orgasming with another guy, how I wish it would never end etc etc. This has had a profound effect on her psychologically. I told my wife for years that I wanted her to sleep with another man but it seemed to have little effect, until I actually showed her that she could and how amazing it could be. Telling your wife something and telling your wife something while she is having an orgasm are two completely different things.

I hope this just might help some wanna be cucks to move forward with their situations like it did for me.

Of course it might not work for everyone and I’m happy for people to respond with their opinions on this .
Thanks everyone

[DripDripDaCuckMayne]

As a wannabe that has made extreme progress to the point that she actively discusses finding a fuck buddy and having a threesome with me, I agree with your strategy wholeheartedly. The same thing has worked for me over the years. I added some modifiers, as well. One being progressively stepping up the dildo size to what many folks would consider extreme (although the hardcore would laugh). I also began suggesting some bits of denial play and my use of a strap-on.

After about a year and a half of that sort of play, I get to fuck her to climax about once a month on average, with the VAST majority of our sex sessions being me fucking her with strapped on dildos or our fuck machine. She'll usually completely ignore my cock, but occasionally will let me open her up initially for a couple of minutes if I wear a condom. Yeah, I'm sacrificing climaxing and immediate pleasure, but I have found the delayed gratification and pure, simple eroticism of being denied to make for better orgasms--with the very real added benefit of denying her my dick and training her pussy and brain to accept bigger dicks from other men as necessary to maximize her orgasms. And she DOES orgasm better on the dildos. By the end, she has gushed 20-30 times, her hole is stretched, and she can't feel me if she lets me fuck her--which is perfect, because if she says it, I immediately cum giving her 30-60 seconds of pointless sex (for her).

[BBCfan]

I like this idea and have somewhat tried to incorporate that at times.

At this point I'm really trying to let her initiate the Fantasy talk about her taking Jeffrey's huge cock again so I haven't whispered anything in her ear as she's orgasming in quite sometime.

I think I will take a chance and incorporate it again next time the opportunity arises.
She always had a hard time orgasming during intercourse before we met, And so we've developed a position which allows her quite easily do it if I'm patient and can last long enough.

It's something she says she hasn't experienced with Jeffrey in the past other than one time during a marathon session when the bed got soaked but she didn't remember it happening as she was in and out of a blissful sex sleep she'll go into at times during long sessions.

I know she's super intrigued by the idea of that happening again... so I think I will whisper that if it was Jeffrey's massive thick cock that she's orgasming on instead of mine it might make her squirt again from the sensations of being so filled by him again. That might be a good scenario to plant a seed of further fantasy for her to ponder.

[Treat yourself girl]

Damn right. This is how I really convinced Amy I was okay with her fucking other guys.

She already knew I was turned on whenever other guys hit on her. I'd always tell her... he wants you. She'd laugh knowingly and I'd tell her to go enjoy herself. She never did, just flirted with them and prick teased. But it was always during sex when I'd work at it. Once aroused all her inhibitions disappear. I'd mention guys I knew wanted her, and I'd ask her if she'd fuck them given the chance. She if I mentioned a name she had the hots for she'd say yes, then I'd ask her to show me how. Man I got some amazing fucks. She'd ride me like she was in the Kentucky Derby. Sit on my face... suck my cock... talk filthy to me... demand it in every position... she'd say things like, it's okay, my boyfriend likes me to fuck other guys... and I'd always have to finish with her bent over pumping her hard from behind. (Now she's a Hotwife this is how she likes her bucks to finish.)

After the orgasms the good girl returned, but I'd tease her by mentioning how she fucked her boyfriends. Eventually she had no doubts whatsoever that she had my full permission to play. Her flirting became more outrageous until the glorious moment when she rode my buddy's cock in the back of my Cadillac as I drove us home. Deathbed memory... he was sat there, Amy straddled across him, her tight white mini skirt up around her waist, her orange vest top up under her armpits, sliding slowly up and down on his hard cock, while his hands are running all over her hot, smooth, slim, white body. Amy groaning with pleasure as she rode him faster and faster.

Yes... keep talking to her during the orgasms. The real woman is exposed at that moment.