Who would you choose to be her first and what is your fantasy of how it would happen?

[MatureCouple]

Do you have someone in mind to fuck your wife or girlfriend? Why him? What makes him so special?

Do you have a fantasy of how this would happen? Please share it!

[Jonjones1529]

I always pictured it being my college roommate, he dated and hooked up with all the girls I had liked. Not to be a jerk or anything just that's how things turned out.

My fantasy at that time was that my girlfriend and I would be partying with him at our apartment. I'd have him give her a massage (he was always giving them out) while she was being massaged I'd find an excuse to walk to the corner store. When I returned they'd be on the couch or in the room and she would be riding him with her back to me. She looks back and sees me but turns around and continues. They switch positions at which time he notices me but I signal that it's okay. While they're switching I notice he's not wearing a condom and they continue to fuck. He fucks her doggy stile pulling her hair driving her into him. He eventually comes in her.

After that they develop a strictly sexual relationship where when she comes over to hang out she goes to his room first to have sex. I bring some friends home one day and they see her coming out of his room nude, exposing our secret.

Fantasy peaks with her eventually getting pregnant and not knowing which of us is the father, I marry her not ever finding out if it was me or him.

[wulfenus]

I always pictured it being my college roommate, he dated and hooked up with all the girls I had liked. Not to be a jerk or anything just that's how things turned out.

Hot story ! and not without premise. My best buddy in college, Bob, had a worldly roommate Teep, who could get into any girls panties. He was a little older than us 25, clean-cut and was always planning a big party or something social.

Bob was hot for a girl in his apt building. a fantastic brunette who'd lay out in the sun, I thought she was sexy. Teep fucked her and told Bob about it. Bob didnt pursue her anymore.

Teep had another buddy make out with his gf on the living room floor, stripping her down. Teep was hiding in the kitchen taking photos. After a while, He slipped up to her and when she felt 2 pairs of hands she opened her eyes surprised. She didnt want to continue and they were real nice to her saying they just wanted to see if she wanted to try something different.

My gf was only around him at parties when I was there, but like you later I thought about if he really made any passes at her? or what would
happen if he did?

So there's guys out there like that !

[Massage4Wife72]

I don’t want it to be anyone I know personally. For whatever reason.
My wife had a FB who was 10 years younger than her before we meet. She has told me several stories over the years. No dating, no friendship just call one another up and get to fucking. Purely sexual. That’s gotta be the thing that turns me on the most! If I had my choice it would be him or someone younger to give her the experience I never could. It’s all about her enjoyment for me.

[Marksmall5]

She’d meet someone from her work. I’d notice a male name started coming up in conversations about work. A work conference comes up and later on l realise some sort of affair had started. I’d pretend l wasn’t aware and this would become the normal. She’d start being less clandestine about it until we had “a talk”. From here it’s accepted she had a boyfriend. I’d be heavily masturbating through this whole experience. Preferably he’d be bigger, hairy, stronger, richer, better looking and a different race to us.

[oldhat877]

It would be some rando for me. Not some guy off the street, but somebody we meet while at a campground for a week. They'd basically be flirting with her, and she'd have had a few drinks. Then I'd mention "things" and push it along. Normally, sober her would be a hell no, but if some good looking guy was coming on to her and I was ok with it, I think she'd give it a go. I wouldn't need a fuckfest, just some kissing and exploration would be good for me. ......to start.

[patmoll]

I have given this a lot of thought over the years and it is an easy answer for me - my best friend.

I have wanted my wife to become a hotwife for most of our 20+ years together and I told her so about 10 years ago. Then about 5 years ago I told her that I thought that she fancied my best friend and she admitted she did. I asked her if she would fuck him if the opportunity arose and she admitted that she would. Since then I have been considering setting something up and while I am still on the fence about whether it is a good idea or not, I am 100% certain that I want it to happen.

I have also thought about how to set it up. My wife is turning 40 this year and I want this to be her birthday present:

I book a hotel for a weekend away. I bring her to a spa day and then shopping for a full new outfit, including lingerie, that makes her feel super sexy. I then take her out for a meal and drinks and then back to the hotel room. I put on some music and start dancing with her and tell her that I have one more surprise for her that I must just step out and get. I tell her to sit in the corner chair and wait. I go outside and my best friend is waiting there and we both go back into the room.

I change the music and me and my best friend start to do a full striptease for her. I get her to stand up and we both dance close to her. We are now naked and she is still fully dressed. I remove her dress from her and she is now in her lingerie. I have her stand in front of my best friend and I stand behind her. She is looking him in the eyes as I remove her bra. I then tell him to pull her knickers down. We are all now naked and I bring out the baby oil and squirt in on his chest and tell her to rub it into his chest, not using her hands, but using her tits to rub the oil into him. I tell them to dance like that and I tell him to remember that it is her birthday and he should give her a birthday kiss.

As they are passionately embracing I begin to kiss the back of her neck and down her back. I pull her towards me and whisper in her ear - "I got you want you really wanted for your birthday, enjoy it" and I lay her on her back on the bed as me and my best friend lay down either side of her. We both begin kissing her body and I go down and start kissing her pussy. I ask her if she is ready for her birthday present and she nods. I ask her to tell us what she wants and she looks at me, then at him and then says those magic words to him- "I want you to fuck me". I move out of the way and he places his cock against her dripping pussy and I look her in her eyes as he pushes his cock into her married pussy - a pussy that has not felt another cock for over 20 years. I watch as her eyes roll back in her head and she leaves out a little groan of pleasure.

This is the moment I have been waiting 18 years to see as I watch her face as he picks up speed, fucking her harder and harder. Her little groans of pleasure are getting louder as she wraps her legs around his waist. I sit back and watch my wife getting fucked in front of me, the woman I love groaning in pleasure to the rhythm of another mans cock. My fantasy finally coming true as she fucks the man she has dreamt about fucking for years. I can tell she is getting close to orgasm, I would recognise that face and those sounds anywhere. I tell him to roll her over onto her stomach and fuck her from behind - her favourite position and the position she gets her biggest orgasms from. Within minutes a powerful orgasm takes over her body and her moans are now loud and unashamed as she asks him to fuck her harder until he can give no more and with both of them now spent from fucking, he rolls off her and lays on the bed. I move close to her and she smiles at me as I kiss her on her lips and whisper "happy 40th".

[tony090909]

Like others I have thought a lot about this, but there is more than one scenario. The one I favor most is the least likely one to happen, as my wife has said that in the unlikely event that she accepted another man, she would not be willing for me to do anything with his wife. Nevertheless:-

1. We are on holiday and become friendly with another couple. We share a day out and a few meals. He pays my wife a few compliments which make it clear that he finds her attractive. At the same time his wife is mildly flirtatious with me. My wife makes a disapproving remark to me, but it feels half-hearted and it’s clear she is enjoying the attention of this rather handsome man. On the last evening but one we go out for a meal with them and more wine than usual is drunk. We go up to their rooftop suite for a nightcap. He puts some music on and we share a smoochy number with each other’s partner. He kisses my wife and his hands soon start to stray. I am surprised when she allows him to unbutton her blouse. We soon move to the bedroom and he fucks my wife while I fuck his. The next morning I fuck my wife while she tells me what it felt like to have another cock inside her.

2. We have a weekend away at an upmarket hotel. On the first evening my wife has a friendly conversation with a rather handsome man who is there on business. I sense an attraction between them and my wife admits that he is “seriously attractive”. We end up chatting with him in the bar on the Saturday evening. Later when he is at the bar I ask my wife if she would be willing to have sex with him and she hesitantly says yes. While she pops to the toilet, I agree the ground rules with him and we go up to our room where he fucks her. He leaves and I reclaim her.

3. I know there is one of my friends who my wife finds attractive, but his wife definitely wouldn’t be up for anything. Fortunately it wouldn’t be difficult to invite just him over for a night or two. I explain the situation to him and that night my wife goes to his room. I’m not allowed to watch, but I can hear the sounds of their lovemaking. She returns to me and I reclaim her.

I should add that it’s important to me that in every scenario the sex is bareback and that he cums in my wife’s pussy. Ideally I would then reclaim her and add my sperm to the load already inside her.

[rubitin]

As my wife and I were about to have sex in order to try to have a baby, our fat arrogant neighbor who we both hate would burst in our house (he would’ve overheard my wife telling her sister of our planned encounter that night). He’d make me put on her pink lacy bra and pantyhose (he does intimidate me, so no doubt I’d comply), then plunge his huge cock into her, as her screams of protest turned to moans of pleasure; followed by pleas to “knock me up!” After unloading in my wife, he’d order me to my knees and demand that I “worship the cock that stole your wife from you”. I’d submissively comply, kissing and licking his sweaty balls and cock before taking as much of that giant dick in my mouth so he could fuck my throat and fill me with another huge load of cum, completing his emasculation of me and his sexual ownership of my wife, the mother of his future child.

[bigheez]

Like others I have thought a lot about this, but there is more than one scenario. The one I favor most is the least likely one to happen, as my wife has said that in the unlikely event that she accepted another man, she would not be willing for me to do anything with his wife. Nevertheless:-

1. We are on holiday and become friendly with another couple. We share a day out and a few meals. He pays my wife a few compliments which make it clear that he finds her attractive. At the same time his wife is mildly flirtatious with me. My wife makes a disapproving remark to me, but it feels half-hearted and it’s clear she is enjoying the attention of this rather handsome man. On the last evening but one we go out for a meal with them and more wine than usual is drunk. We go up to their rooftop suite for a nightcap. He puts some music on and we share a smoochy number with each other’s partner. He kisses my wife and his hands soon start to stray. I am surprised when she allows him to unbutton her blouse. We soon move to the bedroom and he fucks my wife while I fuck his. The next morning I fuck my wife while she tells me what it felt like to have another cock inside her.

2. We have a weekend away at an upmarket hotel. On the first evening my wife has a friendly conversation with a rather handsome man who is there on business. I sense an attraction between them and my wife admits that he is “seriously attractive”. We end up chatting with him in the bar on the Saturday evening. Later when he is at the bar I ask my wife if she would be willing to have sex with him and she hesitantly says yes. While she pops to the toilet, I agree the ground rules with him and we go up to our room where he fucks her. He leaves and I reclaim her.

3. I know there is one of my friends who my wife finds attractive, but his wife definitely wouldn’t be up for anything. Fortunately it wouldn’t be difficult to invite just him over for a night or two. I explain the situation to him and that night my wife goes to his room. I’m not allowed to watch, but I can hear the sounds of their lovemaking. She returns to me and I reclaim her.

I should add that it’s important to me that in every scenario the sex is bareback and that he cums in my wife’s pussy. Ideally I would then reclaim her and add my sperm to the load already inside her.

Well, we have gone past "her first" but if I could roll back time it would definitely be Option 1.

But the other couple would be my wife's sister and her husband.

Why? Because my sister in law is seriously hot and a major fantasy of mine for years. And her husband has flirted with my wife enough that I know he would love to get intimate with her.

So yeah, him kissing my wife, his hands straying......would love that.

[Flint]

I would choose the young Indian guy my wife works with. She stopped all activity with me a long time ago, but I like the thought of her being seduced by him and regaining the sexual enthusiasm she had when we were younger.
I imagine that after he had reawakened her lust, she might then start responding to my own advances. I eventually find out about her affair and she thinks she will have to end it, but after discussing cuckolding with her, I manage to convince her that this can be a way forward for us. The fantasy continues with him eventually taking her regularly in our marital bed with me there purely as her cuckold slave. In the fantasy he has a much thicker cock, but she gets her greatest orgasms when grinding on my face feeding me his young potent seed.

[albs19922]

My fantasy for the first time would be that we find an older, mature, experienced bull that we both click with and with whom she has mutual attraction- she’s expressed interest in older men before. I like the idea of sending them on a few dates before we decide to take the big step. I would pay for a luxurious hotel suite with a king-sized bed and hot tub for the weekend, the bed primarily being for them, but I’d be allowed to join in here and there.

[nks]

In my case, no matter who I want, it would be my wife who choses. She has an independent, hot personality and I know she would choose someone who I might get pretty nervous about, but I would have to accept her choice. She mentioned some coworkers she found attractive and has some ex crushes she keeps in contact with. Having to accept her choice is something that might be difficult but also very hot…

[King_Mr]

I’ve posted in another forum about a cocky friend at high school who made me feel submissive in the mens bathroom. Basically, I was peeing in a cubicle one day and he felt this wasn’t manly. He then proceeded to pee at a urinal facing me whilst I was at the sink, obviously hoping I’d get a view of his cock. He also muttered something about peeing at the urinal being a more manly way of doing it. I felt so dominated in the moment, and have often fantasised about him fucking my girlfriends.

My ex also kept in touch with her ex, who ended up being some rich corporate type in SE Asia. I’d have loved to have encouraged her to sleep with him again. I’d have enjoyed feeling submissive to him.

[sixpack]

My wife worked with a young black man named Chris and she lit up when she talked about him. I would like if her and Chris dated regularly and he satisfied her with his charm and BBC.