Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

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Wanttobeil
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Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by Wanttobeil » Sat Jul 05, 2025 3:50 am

Hi everyone,
I'm just starting to explore this world and I'm curious how to gently introduce it to my wife. I don’t want to suggest right away that she sleep with other men I'd prefer for the idea to come from her, if it ever does.
What’s a good way to slowly open the conversation and let her discover this world at her own pace?
Thanks in advance for your advice

bbarnsworth
Experienced
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Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by bbarnsworth » Sat Jul 05, 2025 10:19 am

Welcome!

You've just taken a step towards this dream :)

I recently made post elsewhere on the forum that I think is appropriate to your question.

viewtopic.php?f=48&t=76299&p=1564035#p1564035

Each situation is different though; if you have more questions, please ask! We're happy to help!

Wantsomefunto
Pervert
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Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by Wantsomefunto » Sat Jul 05, 2025 7:12 pm

What is she like? Does she go out for drinks any? Does she like toys? Those two things can help break the ice

Cuckcuckgoose1
Player
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Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by Cuckcuckgoose1 » Sun Jul 06, 2025 9:19 am

Do you guys watch porn together? If so....adjust your viewing preferences to hotwife or cuckold porn and watch her reaction.

Dream Weaver
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Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by Dream Weaver » Mon Jul 07, 2025 5:31 pm

Wanttobeil wrote:
Sat Jul 05, 2025 3:50 am
Hi everyone,
I'm just starting to explore this world and I'm curious how to gently introduce it to my wife. I don’t want to suggest right away that she sleep with other men I'd prefer for the idea to come from her, if it ever does.
What’s a good way to slowly open the conversation and let her discover this world at her own pace?
Thanks in advance for your advice
Around here I’ve seen the “I had this wild dream” tactic used with some success.

bbarnsworth
Experienced
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Joined: Wed Mar 27, 2024 4:18 pm

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by bbarnsworth » Mon Jul 07, 2025 6:07 pm

Dream Weaver wrote:
Mon Jul 07, 2025 5:31 pm
Around here I’ve seen the “I had this wild dream” tactic used with some success.
Meh. Transparent has hell!

Dream Weaver
Player
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Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Unread post by Dream Weaver » Mon Jul 07, 2025 10:26 pm

bbarnsworth wrote:
Mon Jul 07, 2025 6:07 pm
Dream Weaver wrote:
Mon Jul 07, 2025 5:31 pm
Around here I’ve seen the “I had this wild dream” tactic used with some success.
Meh. Transparent has hell!
Isn't that the point?

People who play ESP games go nowhere.

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