Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

[bighelmet]

I'd be silly to think that I'd be her biggest. after 12 years together I'm sure she would have said something if I was LOL

[Howiwish]

I've been following this forum for a number of years now and have been very open with my wife about my fantasy of seeing her getting fucked, not necessarily by a huge cock (mines a decent size and she likes it). We've been together over 25 years and in my view would be the most incredible hotwife, her figure, shapely legs and ass, great tits but she's ultra conservative in the bedroom. There was a time, before kids, where she indulged my fantasy talk in bed and actively participated in the sexy talk. By far this was the wettest and horniest I've ever seen her get to the point after one particular session she exclaimed that we should actually try it out for real. It never happened and I don't know if it ever will. Recent years have seen life, family etc take priority over sex between us and I miss it badly.
I don't have a huge requirement to think about her taking a much larger cock, if she did, I wouldn't be complaining but I so would love to see her taking any cock that she hasn't had before. She claims that I'm the only one she's ever had ( I've my doubts) and always says the usual that she doesn't need to experience another cock but if she doesn't know what she's missing out on then there's no way she imagine what she could experience.
My fantasy doesn't come from a selfish place, my desire is to see her let herself go, watch her face and mouth as another man's cock spreads her pussy and watch her deepest desires come to the surface safe in the knowledge that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing would confirm my love and feeling for this beautiful woman that her submitting to deep desires and letting orgasms flow freely.
It's a frustrating period of time for me, wanting her to experience this but also trying to be sensible about it, knowing that if it's not something she's open to trying then I can't push it

[bighelmet]

I've been following this forum for a number of years now and have been very open with my wife about my fantasy of seeing her getting fucked, not necessarily by a huge cock (mines a decent size and she likes it). We've been together over 25 years and in my view would be the most incredible hotwife, her figure, shapely legs and ass, great tits but she's ultra conservative in the bedroom. There was a time, before kids, where she indulged my fantasy talk in bed and actively participated in the sexy talk. By far this was the wettest and horniest I've ever seen her get to the point after one particular session she exclaimed that we should actually try it out for real. It never happened and I don't know if it ever will. Recent years have seen life, family etc take priority over sex between us and I miss it badly.
I don't have a huge requirement to think about her taking a much larger cock, if she did, I wouldn't be complaining but I so would love to see her taking any cock that she hasn't had before. She claims that I'm the only one she's ever had ( I've my doubts) and always says the usual that she doesn't need to experience another cock but if she doesn't know what she's missing out on then there's no way she imagine what she could experience.
My fantasy doesn't come from a selfish place, my desire is to see her let herself go, watch her face and mouth as another man's cock spreads her pussy and watch her deepest desires come to the surface safe in the knowledge that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing would confirm my love and feeling for this beautiful woman that her submitting to deep desires and letting orgasms flow freely.
It's a frustrating period of time for me, wanting her to experience this but also trying to be sensible about it, knowing that if it's not something she's open to trying then I can't push it

Thanks for sharing. I totally get where you're coming from. It's a weird feeling, wanting your wife to explore something new, especially when she's so conservative. Life and family priorities can really put a damper on things, can't they?

For me, it's all about the fantasy of youth and size. The thought of her with someone much younger and bigger is... intense. It's not just about the size; it's about the power dynamic, the idea of her being stretched and filled in a way she hasn't been before. You're right that she might not know what she's missing.

It's a lot to process, and I respect that you're trying to be patient and understanding. It's a tough spot to be in, wanting something but also wanting to respect your partner's feelings.

Keep your chin up, man. You're not alone in this.

[Howiwish]

Thanks I appreciate your words. As I said I'm careful not to push it but can't help feeling, when I read about other wives who have finally taken the plunge, that she would wonder why she hadn't explored this much earlier.

[John Ryan]

I've been following this forum for a number of years now and have been very open with my wife about my fantasy of seeing her getting fucked, not necessarily by a huge cock (mines a decent size and she likes it). We've been together over 25 years and in my view would be the most incredible hotwife, her figure, shapely legs and ass, great tits but she's ultra conservative in the bedroom. There was a time, before kids, where she indulged my fantasy talk in bed and actively participated in the sexy talk. By far this was the wettest and horniest I've ever seen her get to the point after one particular session she exclaimed that we should actually try it out for real. It never happened and I don't know if it ever will. Recent years have seen life, family etc take priority over sex between us and I miss it badly.
I don't have a huge requirement to think about her taking a much larger cock, if she did, I wouldn't be complaining but I so would love to see her taking any cock that she hasn't had before. She claims that I'm the only one she's ever had ( I've my doubts) and always says the usual that she doesn't need to experience another cock but if she doesn't know what she's missing out on then there's no way she imagine what she could experience.
My fantasy doesn't come from a selfish place, my desire is to see her let herself go, watch her face and mouth as another man's cock spreads her pussy and watch her deepest desires come to the surface safe in the knowledge that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing would confirm my love and feeling for this beautiful woman that her submitting to deep desires and letting orgasms flow freely.
It's a frustrating period of time for me, wanting her to experience this but also trying to be sensible about it, knowing that if it's not something she's open to trying then I can't push it

Thanks for sharing. I totally get where you're coming from. It's a weird feeling, wanting your wife to explore something new, especially when she's so conservative. Life and family priorities can really put a damper on things, can't they?

For me, it's all about the fantasy of youth and size. The thought of her with someone much younger and bigger is... intense. It's not just about the size; it's about the power dynamic, the idea of her being stretched and filled in a way she hasn't been before. You're right that she might not know what she's missing.

It's a lot to process, and I respect that you're trying to be patient and understanding. It's a tough spot to be in, wanting something but also wanting to respect your partner's feelings.

Keep your chin up, man. You're not alone in

I'm average nothing to write home about. But we got the job done. The larger cock was my idea and she agreed. She was 5-9 36C size 14. Long legs short hair. An equestrian with many bisexual friends, male and female. So there was no shortage of large heads. We found the right man to try it out. He was about 2 inches larger than me with a little more girth. My saving grace to compete was a large head. She did enjoy him immensely. He then ask me if he do me.

[Xty1971]

I want see her pussy getting stretched out as I watch and wank

[ferrisandrews]

Does it matter?

Do you ask why you enjoy chocolate cake? If you did research, you'd learn about the areas of the tongue and what they are most sensitive to. You'd learn about what locale you were born and raised, and whether environment played a role. You'd learn about hereditary traits and how the chemistries of sugar and the cocoa plant combine to form ...

Really, does it matter? We don't pick our desires, they pick us. We are assigned desire, it's not sitting on a shelf waiting for us to pick it. Desire influences our daily lives and contradicts every ideal we can think up for ourselves, from political, religious and moral ideals, etc. We literally have to try something first to know whether we like it. Because we need to be told by our bodies whether we receive a pleasure response.

What's important to know is that you do like it, so find a way to communicate that to others so they can help you experience pleasure, just like you help them find pleasure in their desires.

Getting to know our partners on a much deeper level is the true magic of this lifestyle, and much more potent and powerful (and valuable) than any flimsy ideal will ever deliver.

[BBCfan]

I want see her pussy getting stretched out as I watch and wank

That is a super hot thought. I remember once I showed my wife a clip of a guy doing that and she couldn't understand, she was like why wouldn't you just wanna be the guy fucking me?

I tried to explain the whole compersion type thing, seeing her with a bigger guy and getting more pleasure etc.
She said something like, "you satisfy me enough" but I have seen her when I put on a sheath and She gets cock Drunk from the Big ones. Haha.

[bighelmet]

I want see her pussy getting stretched out as I watch and wank

That is a super hot thought. I remember once I showed my wife a clip of a guy doing that and she couldn't understand, she was like why wouldn't you just wanna be the guy fucking me?

I tried to explain the whole compersion type thing, seeing her with a bigger guy and getting more pleasure etc.
She said something like, "you satisfy me enough" but I have seen her when I put on a sheath and She gets cock Drunk from the Big ones. Haha.

she for sure likes the big ones - perhaps a closet size queen??

[stag2beFL]

I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

A few months ago we bought a girthy dildo and we use it a lot. My wife came hard and fast the first time we used it and I've been hooked ever since then. I love watching it go inside her. I love asking her if she wants to fuck her "boyfriend" and hearing her say she wants to get fucked by big cock.

I know the big cock thing tends to be a bigger deal for the husbands rather than the wives and I'm trying to figure out why. I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?

Same here. After I told my wife about my 3some fantasy with her and another guy, we talked a lot about it and eventually decided to buy a realistic dildo. During our conversations I got her to admit that thicker would be better for her pleasure. She was resistant at first.. saying.. but your size is perfect. I knew she was just protecting my ego. After I convinced her there would be no hurt egos, she agreed and bought one that is thicker than me. 3 years later, it is the toy we use the most.

Watching her cum on that cock is by far the hottest thing. I love watching that big head push against her lips... seeing it push inside... watching and hearing her reactions as she slowly adjusts to a bigger cock. Her orgasms are intense every time, and that's what it's all about for me. She's also opened up with the dirty talk, which took awhile. It was usually just me and her responding "yess" or "mhmm"... but now she's starting to spontaneously say things like "fuck he feels so good".

[bighelmet]

I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

A few months ago we bought a girthy dildo and we use it a lot. My wife came hard and fast the first time we used it and I've been hooked ever since then. I love watching it go inside her. I love asking her if she wants to fuck her "boyfriend" and hearing her say she wants to get fucked by big cock.

I know the big cock thing tends to be a bigger deal for the husbands rather than the wives and I'm trying to figure out why. I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?

Same here. After I told my wife about my 3some fantasy with her and another guy, we talked a lot about it and eventually decided to buy a realistic dildo. During our conversations I got her to admit that thicker would be better for her pleasure. She was resistant at first.. saying.. but your size is perfect. I knew she was just protecting my ego. After I convinced her there would be no hurt egos, she agreed and bought one that is thicker than me. 3 years later, it is the toy we use the most.

Watching her cum on that cock is by far the hottest thing. I love watching that big head push against her lips... seeing it push inside... watching and hearing her reactions as she slowly adjusts to a bigger cock. Her orgasms are intense every time, and that's what it's all about for me. She's also opened up with the dirty talk, which took awhile. It was usually just me and her responding "yess" or "mhmm"... but now she's starting to spontaneously say things like "fuck he feels so good".

that all sounds amazing... my wife is more into clit stimulation and the idea of a massive dildo doesnt appeal to her (so she says!) but I'd love to see her try it!

[stag2beFL]

My wife detailed the differences between her gspot orgasms and her clitoral orgasms. They're both amazing, but different. The larger dildo presses and rubs that gspot differently than I can. We tried another dildo that was bigger, and she didnt like it.. too big and uncomfortable. Maybe try one that's bigger and thicker than you, but not by a lot.

[Heathenix]

Hi wannabe looking into HW here,
From SE Asia region, but we lived in Australia and Canada for many years, but now back in home region,
Wife had an affair a long while back, although she confessed rather than me finding out, it was still devastating, but we more or less worked it out and moved on,
Her affair involved seeing 2 guys during the same period, so kinda main and side affair,
She told me the guys were larger, however I’m quite decent sized myself (I think ) so not really intimidated by that, I still get the job done,
I guess its the thought of having your supposedly faithful/modest wife wanting more? Or perhaps seeing her being conflicted, haplessly losing to her craving for bigger cock? I guess its too complex for my rather mediocre English, but I hope I get the message across haha

[John Ryan]

My wife detailed the differences between her gspot orgasms and her clitoral orgasms. They're both amazing, but different. The larger dildo presses and rubs that gspot differently than I can. We tried another dildo that was bigger, and she didnt like it.. too big and uncomfortable. Maybe try one that's bigger and thicker than you, but not by a lot.

Humans are enamored with all things "large" including cocks. Just look at all the Couples looking for BBC/BWC.

[BBCfan]

I want see her pussy getting stretched out as I watch and wank

That is a super hot thought. I remember once I showed my wife a clip of a guy doing that and she couldn't understand, she was like why wouldn't you just wanna be the guy fucking me?

I tried to explain the whole compersion type thing, seeing her with a bigger guy and getting more pleasure etc.
She said something like, "you satisfy me enough" but I have seen her when I put on a sheath and She gets cock Drunk from the Big ones. Haha.

she for sure likes the big ones - perhaps a closet size queen??

Haha, she absolutely is but not so much in closet.
She will sometimes say "did you see that guy's bulge?" when we're out in public. Usually it's a hot black guy. She's obviously always checking out hot guys packages. Pretty hot to know.