Ideads for wives who don't like bars and clubs

[JalapenoPantz22]

My wife of 12 years has never liked bars, concerts, or clubs. Right now we're at a point where we're just fantasizing about hotwifing but not actually doing it. I read a lot about how to roleplay without actually adding a thrid to our relationship and a lot of people enjoying going to the bars or clubs to get lots of flirty action. My wife however has never been a night person, she's usutally in bed by 9 and has no energy at night lol. I am wondering what others in this situation enjoy doing. It's quite a shame as she would look so good in clubbing clothing or bar style clothing.

[Scud Farcus]

We're homebodies as well. My wife doesn't care for nightlife. Im anxious to hear suggestions as well.

[Wantsomefunto]

There is always casinos that she can dress slutty at during the early afternoon. Or you can use online apps to search for guys,

A lot of couples start with someone they know she is attracted to and have her dress sexy and flirt at home with him

[Synergy1995]

How about a dance class during the afternoon? That way she would be able to mingle and even dance closely with other men in a very PG rated setting. Plus you get to watch! Then take her out to dinner after and discuss highlights over a drink or two.

[JalapenoPantz22]

Nice, thanks for all the ideas. I was thinking wineries for flirting , dance lessons for the innocent touching, museums for casual. Lots of fun stuff to do during the day so I'll probably look for fun day events and things too.

[Dream Weaver]

Nice, thanks for all the ideas. I was thinking wineries for flirting , dance lessons for the innocent touching, museums for casual. Lots of fun stuff to do during the day so I'll probably look for fun day events and things too.

My recently divorced (year ago final) friend has been doing a ton of "Meet Ups" and found somebody he's now dating. meetup dot com You put in your zip code and interests and it shows you what groups are offering what. You can kind of make a profile too. Not sure how big your area is, but the idea is you meet up with others for whatever the theme is. Lots are in bars (at normal times, not super late), where they will all congregate in their own space and have a drink and just get to know each other. Some are for hikers. You get the idea. Website is meetups.com and it might give you ideas. Sure, she might be "technically" married, but you two play it by ear.

Who knows, she may Meet Up with Mr. Right. You asked for it....