Reignite the Flame

[AZguy425]

You have a great journey underway and many of us can't wait for updates.

To not seem too pushy but still letting your wife subtly know you're into it I think you've gotten great suggestions! You have the perfect avenue here as she's going to an opera which is generally more of a dress up affair. I'd guess her date will be a little more dressed up and it would be totally expected to wear a dress and heels to that. You only need to suggest she wear sexy panties or none, or thigh highs with the stocking tops hidden by the dress, or whatever lingerie underneath makes her feel a sexy and risqué.

If she thinks it's just feeding into your desires she might do it for you AND it has the added bonus of making her feel sexy and desired which might lead to a little pushing of the envelope!!

Very exciting!

[QuietHope]

Nothing new to report...I feel bad surreptitiously checking her text messages with JJ. Clearly a breech of trust on my part. Sadly, nothing spicy in their conversation. Just about logistics like pick up time, dinner, underwear preferences (haha I wish!). The positive is that they are texting daily about the restaurant menu and opera's music etc. I don't sense any sexual tension but they're excited about their date.

I don't know JJ that well but I can see that back in day, he could have been a player. He married late in life to a much younger woman (not to be mean but she doesn't hold a candle to Sophia) and started a family. He was single into his 40s living in big cities. He has to be excited about having Sophia on his arm for the evening.

There's an evil little meddler in me that wants to use her phone and start sending him racy texts. Haha, don't worry, I'm not that much of an idiot.

[AZguy425]

Her dressing for the date should help. It sounds like it's doubtful anything would happen but encouraging her to an elegant and sexy dress and heels for an opera is totally appropriate.

You know she'll be watching the opera and he'll be watching her legs, the hem of her dress or skirt hoping it'll ride up a little, her chest, her neckline. Even if she has no intention she'll still feel his eyes on her and not the opera.

I know the feeling with my wife and she's actually mine!! Watching to see if I can catch a glimpse of her stocking tops or if she'll be a little too nonchalant standing up and I catch a glimpse of her panties. I KNOW what she's wearing and I still watch her and not the show.

[Alcepsya]

I'm sure that I'm not the only one who would welcome seeing some photos of Sophia dressed for her evening at the opera.

[Long Lurker 34]

I'm sure that I'm not the only one who would welcome seeing some photos of Sophia dressed for her evening at the opera.

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- I always enjoy seeing what any HW is wearing heading off on a date. So seconded! :

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

And here is your third yes. Love to see her opera attire.

[QuietHope]

So we were in our closet yesterday evening-I was packing for a business trip and she was picking out her outfit for the opera. The outfit she's chosen is a little disappointing compared to my visions but she looks great. Three-quarter pants, not a dress or skirt, although the curve of her ass looks great, and a sleeveless blouse (a blood scarlet shade) with a bit of a scoop front, over which she will have a thin open sweater. She looks classy, elegant and appropriate for the opera on a night when the weather will be cool. Add some jewelry and make up and she will look sexy as well. I asked about bra and panty and I got an eyeroll but she did let me pick out a black lacy pair for her. Hope JJ likes!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

What a great adventure, QH! I just started reading this thread last night and finished it this morning over coffee. I wish you and S the best. Both of you sound like terrific people on the cusp of a life-changing experience. I think my wife and I are in a somewhat similar position, although our evolution is a bit different than yours. I have been writing about our evolution in the Wannabe forum under the title, “Getting Close?” Our wives wrestle to restrain their deep-seated animalistic desires in the face of enormous cultural pressure to remain monogamous. So, what is the tipping point - the event or series of events that ultimately prompts them to ignore the cultural pressure and just enjoy themselves? I am not sure of the answer, but I suspect it may be allowing them to feel that they can remain devoted to us and our marriages while satisfying their sexual desires in an open and honest way. It is like we are all redefining monogamy to be faithfulness to the marital relationship, not sexual exclusivity. Now, as to why you, me and other men on this site get so excited about hotwifing, etc., I’ll be damned if I can explain that! In any event, best wishes to both of you.

[vb23456]

Hope there is some excitement for you tonight.

[QuietHope]

I'm not expecting anything at all but I'm enjoying being so close. I'm at a bar near my hotel and I keep checking her "find me" on the phone. She's been where I expected. The restaurant and now the performance. It's strange to get a little 'twitch' of excitement from looking at a map.

[QuietHope]

I'm not expecting anything at all but I'm enjoying being so close. I'm at a bar near my hotel and I keep checking her "find me" on the phone. She's been where I expected. The restaurant and now the performance. It's strange to get a little 'twitch' of excitement from looking at a map.

[QuietHope]

Show ended....but it seems like they're at a bar now...

[Dream Weaver]

Show ended....but it seems like they're at a bar now...

I’m on vacation in the UK and woke up to this…. I KNOW it’s not going to be anything too crazy, but 100% appreciate the “thrill” of waiting and not knowing that you feel.

[QuietHope]

Her phone is off...

[playwifeplease]

Her phone is off...

Sounds like she doesn't want to be dsiturbed and/or doesn't want you to see where she's heading?

Either way, pretty exciting?

[SweDic]

Her phone is off...

Still?

[BallSpanking]

Her phone is off...

She was at the restaurant one hour earlier, and her phone was on.
Why did she purposely turn it off?

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

The plot thickens....da da da dun....

[QuietHope]

Sorry for the late response…was a while before I was able to speak with her. She said she had a wonderful time.

Phone was off simply due to a dead end of the day battery.

They did get a drink after the performance. Prior to that, JJ behaved totally as a friend. After he had a martini, he sat closer to her and his hand strayed to her knee. But he was a gentleman, nothing more than that.

He drove her home and stopped in front of our house, which is at the end of a dead end road. So quiet area. He told her that he had a wonderful evening and he'd love to take her out again someday. She thanked him for a wonderful evening.

Then, she opened the car door but then turned back, leaned over and gave him a quick kiss goodnight on the mouth. He was very surprised but he then leaned towards her for a second small kiss. Then she smiled and left.

I asked about the quality of the kiss, like how romantic or sensual? She said you would never kiss your sister like that but it was quick, no tongue, and probably not enough that anyone would call it "cheating".

I masturbated several times last night thinking about it. I'm wondering if that kiss blew up Jjs mind.

[vb23456]

Have to wait and see if he asks for another date and will she go?

[AZguy425]

Honestly, this couldn't go much better for you. It sounds like your wife did sow a little intrigue with the kiss which he then reciprocated. It may embolden him to try and go further and I'm not sure your wife sounds like age would initiate more on her own.

[leggysman]

That's a very good result. Step by step!

I think your focus should be encouraging her to get out and enjoy herself more often (subtext: more dates!)

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

This is a good start/continuation. One step at a time. She seems to be into it. JJ could be a lucky man soon.

[Alcepsya]

Hearing how Sophia responds sexually with you the next time that you have playtime would be interesting, especially if you discuss her date, suggesting possible future steps, and that gets her and your motors running. How receptive to that discussion will she be will be interesting.

[sharedfantasy]

Oh...as I was typing, she turned on the soundtrack of the opera they're going to! Which is a normal thing to do. But now the passion of that music is filling my home. I feel like I'm in a movie set.

Well then, the smart move would be some surprise pussy licking while the opera track plays. Sexy innuendos about her date at your discretion

Oh..I like that

While I'm thinking about the subject, for anyone who hasn't done this much:

A guerilla pussy licking campaign is most effective (and enjoyable) when she knows that these sneak attacks are no-strings; that it's not just foreplay; that you don't have any expectations of more sex - it's just pussy licking, because you want to. For her.

When you surprise her like this, it's much easier to get her into it - and her panties on the floor - if she knows that when she taps out, you'll let her get on with whatever she was doing. She'll love this quickie, bonus sexytime.

I mean, you'd enjoy that too, right? Who wouldn't?

This is a phenomenal idea!
Thanks for the suggestion