Hoften do you masturbate thinking about it?

[Wasacuc]

All the time. Becoming a cuc again and watching her in action.

[xforfun]

I find a similar thing with wife...I have admitted to her it is my hottest fantasy and what I usually masturbate to...

I think she is a bit concerned I may be obsessed but also lets me be. I think she doesn't want to know most times but knows. I keep it to myself as much as possible unless asked directly.

She was definitely fed up last year and that is why she fake cucked me. I now kinda say it's not as big a deal anymore but that really just means I'll keep it to myself more.

When you say she is ok with it now...to what extent is she ok with it?

She doesn't feel that's the only reason I'm with her. She was beginning to think that and want me to want her and not want me to want others to have her. But thankfully we're past that now and she accepts me and my desires. I've been constantly showering her with compliments and telling her how beautiful she looks and also saying how much I love her. So she's been reciprocating and in return as she knows how much it pleases me to hear her say things like "I'm your hotwife" etc. She also is beginning to find the idea exciting. Although I'm not going on about it in every conversation probably mention something share related once a day. So we're on a good path now.

In the past I tried to repress my feelings and I know how immensely frustrating it can be and also destructive as a little resentment can build. All of which were selfish. I found that the more I told her I loved her and how gorgeous she is the better she was towards the more she would open up by herself. All nice surprises to our goal.

[Mr Kook]

In mathematical terms let's go with n+1. No matter how many times you do it, soon enough you always crave one more.

[wulfenus]

How true!

In mathematical terms let's go with n+1. No matter how many times you do it, soon enough you always crave one more.

[JustWantToWatch]

At least twice a day. I cannot stop thinking about it.

[Igotsoul]

Never! I am forbidden from touching myself unless I am given permission for being a good boy.
When she gets back from she is going to inspect her house and make sure that I have done everything she asked for and to the best standard. If she's pleased then she is going to give me a treat.
It's one of those I can't wait for her to get back but also getting the jobs done in time

[VanEd]

Often. I found I get harder and have a better orgasm fantasizing about her with another man than when we are actually having sex. I often imagine that I am getting seconds and the other guy is watching us ready to take over when I’m done

[pixwellguy]

At least twice a day. I cannot stop thinking about it.

I'm like you...at least twice a day, often more.

[Terrycart79]

I masturbate about 5 times a week, and most of the time I think about my wife getting fucked by another man. Sometimes it's an unknown person, other times it's her ex or one of my old friends.

My fantasies started about 13-14 years ago when my wife was pregnant with our first child. She started to fantasize about "cheating" on me but with my knowledge and permission. She developed a desire to have a friend with benefits. She said it would be fun to just have a friend she could have sex with. That was music to my ears. I thought I died and went to heaven. Things got pretty hot and intense between us as we talked about it and considered our options, but nothing ever happened. She did hang out with her ex a couple times but she chickened out when the opportunity for sex presented itself. She couldn't go through with it. She felt like a bad person even though we both wanted it. Fast forward to today, she won't even consider it at all.

I also fantasize about my wife having pubic hair and hairy armpits. That's a fetish of mine. Not out of control hair but groomed and sexy. She lets her armpit hair grow for up to a week at a time during the cold months, but nobody really gets to see them except for me. I LOVE it. One of my fantasies is for her to let her guard down and let someone see the hair, even if it seems innocent and accidental. Like if we were at the store and she wore a tank top and she had to "fix her hair" and people were walking by.

[mick mature]

I'm like the majority on here I wank every day thinking about her being seduced, teased, licked, fingered and fucked. It has become an obsession, its all I think about especially during sex. My wife has a high sex drive, I just cant understand why she is reluctant to find another man to help out to reduce her frustration which I know she has.

[jjlooking4fun]

Everyday. Think of her being used and having her after she been freshly fucked.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum jjlooking4fun.

[2inUPMichigan]

I'm like the majority on here I wank every day thinking about her being seduced, teased, licked, fingered and fucked. It has become an obsession, its all I think about especially during sex. My wife has a high sex drive, I just cant understand why she is reluctant to find another man to help out to reduce her frustration which I know she has.

Becoming a hotwife is a much more complicated decision than just "do I want to have sex with someone else?"
I have a high sex drive too but it took me some time to work things through in my mind before I came here to start looking for help to find out if this option was the right choice for the two of us.
What objections/road blocks has she mentioned?

[mick mature]

Becoming a hotwife is a much more complicated decision than just "do I want to have sex with someone else?"
I have a high sex drive too but it took me some time to work things through in my mind before I came here to start looking for help to find out if this option was the right choice for the two of us.
What objections/road blocks has she mentioned?
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The main objections I get (suspect most of us experience) is. I’m satisfied with your cock, I’m not attractive to other men, I’m too old, I couldn’t go through with it etc.

[jjlooking4fun]

Welcome to the forum jjlooking4fun.

Thank you

[Mysecret]

How often do think about her getting fucked, what’s your go-to fantasy?

p.s. I’m a chronic masturbater

Daily.....particularly after I told her about my fantasy. She was non judgemental and ok with it. She unfortunately is not willing yet but does role play during sex. Not everytime but a few times a month. When we go out in public she will dress sexy, making sure her ass is visible and will check out guys and talk about them when we fool around that night. It's super hot.....but not as hot as it actually happening.

[Mysecret]

Daily…I sometimes go on whisper and show her pic off and get hard to the comments

I have shared a few photos on this site with some and fine it very exotic to get his responses. When I log onto the site and see the icon on the top right in red....I almost cum immediately

[Mysecret]

Almost everyday

Pretty much this. It’s kinda taking over

I do really need to make the move to discuss with my wife

You really should my man! It's very liberating once you do. Be totally honest and assure her it's not just an excuse for.you to fuck someone else

[HopefulCuckold619]

Every time I jerk off or have sex with my wife. I try to watch porn with Latina BBW's with black studs and I imagine it's my wife cheating on me. I practically have to force myself to shut up during sex because whenever I'm close to cumming I want to ask my wife to talk dirty about BBC but she hates my fantasy so I just keep it up myself and imagine...

[Mysecret]

Every time I jerk off or have sex with my wife. I try to watch porn with Latina BBW's with black studs and I imagine it's my wife cheating on me. I practically have to force myself to shut up during sex because whenever I'm close to cumming I want to ask my wife to talk dirty about BBC but she hates my fantasy so I just keep it up myself and imagine...

Perhaps rather than BBC talk to her about which kind of men she finds attractive. My Indian wife says she would.prefer white men. When we are out at places like the beach I ask her to keep a wandering eye. I am not pushy bit sometimes she sees someone attractive. When we foreplay I ask her to describe him and if she finds him more attractive than me. It took her some time but last time she admitted that rhe other guy was more attractive. She even admitted that if she was single she would want him to fuck her over me.....it was hot as hell

[jwill71]

Often. I found I get harder and have a better orgasm fantasizing about her with another man than when we are actually having sex. I often imagine that I am getting seconds and the other guy is watching us ready to take over when I’m done

I get harder and have a better orgasm when I fantasize than I do from actual fucking too. Although I haven't fucked in quite a while so it maybe I'm just more familiar with one. Not sure but I know that every time I masturbate is to her with another man.

[Mitchemr74]

It seems I can only orgasm thinking about her doing something erotic with another man. I don’t know why, I used to find many other things erotic but now this seems to be the only thing that makes me orgasm. I often think of her dating and just becoming sexual with a man she is attracted to. The idea of her giving in and enjoying it, orgasming through penetration. I think she would with the right guy. Then coming home and telling me about it and letting me reclaim her or even going down on her. But the idea of her craving it and enjoying it to orgasm…and wanting to see him again…that does it.

[Terrycart79]

I'm with you guys. My wife has become so disinterested in sex since having kids, that she doesn't even desire sex. So when we do it, she's quiet and not engaging at all. The only way I can orgasm is to fantasize about her enjoying other men. It's either that, or she sometimes let's her armpit hair grow for a few days and that drives me wild, so I will look at them while doing the deed. Weird I know, but my sex life is so bad that I have become weirder as time goes on.

[BBCfan]

I find a similar thing with wife...I have admitted to her it is my hottest fantasy and what I usually masturbate to...

I think she is a bit concerned I may be obsessed but also lets me be. I think she doesn't want to know most times but knows. I keep it to myself as much as possible unless asked directly.

She was definitely fed up last year and that is why she fake cucked me. I now kinda say it's not as big a deal anymore but that really just means I'll keep it to myself more.

When you say she is ok with it now...to what extent is she ok with it?

She doesn't feel that's the only reason I'm with her. She was beginning to think that and want me to want her and not want me to want others to have her. But thankfully we're past that now and she accepts me and my desires. I've been constantly showering her with compliments and telling her how beautiful she looks and also saying how much I love her. So she's been reciprocating and in return as she knows how much it pleases me to hear her say things like "I'm your hotwife" etc. She also is beginning to find the idea exciting. Although I'm not going on about it in every conversation probably mention something share related once a day. So we're on a good path now.

In the past I tried to repress my feelings and I know how immensely frustrating it can be and also destructive as a little resentment can build. All of which were selfish. I found that the more I told her I loved her and how gorgeous she is the better she was towards the more she would open up by herself. All nice surprises to our goal.

That's a great approach to focus on her and show your desire and appreciation and spur her confidence. I could learn from that a bit for sure.

[BBCfan]

At least twice a day. I cannot stop thinking about it.

I'm like you...at least twice a day, often more.

This is what surprises me about this kink...I've always been a once a day masturbater...sometimes twice. Even when fucking I have a hard time orgasming more than 3 times a day. I've always needed a bit of recovery time too.

Since becoming bitten by the cuck bug, I can sometime jerk off 4 times a day thinking about and that's in my 50's. I didn't do that in my teens!!!

I can come and be hard again in minutes. It's an excitment that somhow causes an elevated libido in me just through my thoughts. The intensity of the orgasms while I think about it is next level too.