Reignite the Flame

[leggysman]

For me, licking my wife after she's been fucking someone else isn't submissive at all.

It's insanely hot when I know she's been a bad girl. I want to lick her 'dirty' naughty pussy while she tells me about her date. I want to taste and smell the evidence of her having sex with another man. I think she loves it for the same reasons I do.

[Wifesharing]

For me, licking my wife after she's been fucking someone else isn't submissive at all.

It's insanely hot when I know she's been a bad girl. I want to lick her 'dirty' naughty pussy while she tells me about her date. I want to taste and smell the evidence of her having sex with another man. I think she loves it for the same reasons I do.

This is is 100% don’t find this act submissive at all just something I find hot as hell.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

For me, licking my wife after she's been fucking someone else isn't submissive at all.

It's insanely hot when I know she's been a bad girl. I want to lick her 'dirty' naughty pussy while she tells me about her date. I want to taste and smell the evidence of her having sex with another man. I think she loves it for the same reasons I do.

This is is 100% don’t find this act submissive at all just something I find hot as hell.

I am completely opposite- I think it's 'dirty', it's 'nasty, and it's 'wrong'. But I find it hot as hell too...to have to do it anyway.

[Wifesharing]

For me, licking my wife after she's been fucking someone else isn't submissive at all.

It's insanely hot when I know she's been a bad girl. I want to lick her 'dirty' naughty pussy while she tells me about her date. I want to taste and smell the evidence of her having sex with another man. I think she loves it for the same reasons I do.

This is is 100% don’t find this act submissive at all just something I find hot as hell.

I am completely opposite- I think it's 'dirty', it's 'nasty, and it's 'wrong'. But I find it hot as hell too...to have to do it anyway.

I think it’s that word you put in there “have” to do it. I and my wife both enjoy or love it but I never felt I was made to it or have to. I want to and would feel a giant loss if it was not part of it.


I do understand your view and how you see it that way.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

I think it’s that word you put in there “have” to do it.

Yeah, that's my perverse little kink- being forced to perform/participate in/be subjected to sexual/fetish acts, even if (especially if) I don't want to, makes my pecker hard. I don't quite understand it, but that's the way it is.

My wife *loves* having her cum-filled pussy licked, and loves to make me do it- she thinks it's 'nasty' too, but it turns her on to *make* me do it. I hate doing it (humiliating, tastes disgusting to me), but I love the fact that she likes it and likes to *force* me to do it anyway, it's incredibly arousing. All she has to do is tie me up and tell me it's going to happen, and it's instant erection. Perfect match, I guess?

[Wifesharing]

I think it’s that word you put in there “have” to do it.

Yeah, that's my perverse little kink- being forced to perform/participate in/be subjected to sexual/fetish acts, even if (especially if) I don't want to, makes my pecker hard. I don't quite understand it, but that's the way it is.

My wife *loves* having her cum-filled pussy licked, and loves to make me do it- she thinks it's 'nasty' too, but it turns her on to *make* me do it. I hate doing it (humiliating, tastes disgusting to me), but I love the fact that she likes it and likes to *force* me to do it anyway, it's incredibly arousing. All she has to do is tie me up and tell me it's going to happen, and it's instant erection. Perfect match, I guess?

While we get pleasures from doing this in different ways I totally understand your point of view and I can see how being forced to it is hot and if you don't want to then yeah it is just what you think it is. My wife likes to demand I do it or tell me to it but I mean I am diving in regardless so yes same pleasure for different reason's.

[BallSpanking]

Any updates on your gorgeous wife?
Is she still texting the mover boys?
Maybe she should send them some sexy pics ... as encouragement ...

[QuietHope]

Any updates on your gorgeous wife?
Is she still texting the mover boys?
Maybe she should send them some sexy pics ... as encouragement ...

Ballspanking, you seem to have an intuition about when I'm getting ready to post an update.


Well, she had an interesting confession last night although not the one I’d been hoping for. You may recall a night a while back when these guys in a bar got her to create an online dating profile. On the ride home, she deleted it. Or so she told me. Tonight she confessed that she had only paused it and on occasion, when she’s been “bored”, she’s gone “live” again.

I asked her if she’s trying to meet someone and she was adamant that she was not. She just thought it was fun, like a game, but something happened which prompted her confession. She said she was carelessly swiping one evening when she matched with a boy who lives nearby, someone we know well. Aaron. We’re good friends with his parents and we get together occasionally. He’s going to college in a few days, he’s 18 and we’ve known him since he was a little boy. He used to play in our yard, at our pool, with our own kids. He’s taken care of our dog when we’re on trips. Sophia always liked him because he was smart, studious, and for years, in her after school daily carpool, he would sit up front and was the only kid who would talk to her. He’d tell her about what they were studying and learning at school. He was genuinely excited about learning, especially the sciences. No surprise, he’s going to a famously good school this fall. In recent years, he’s grown more quiet, almost sullen when we get together with his parents but no more so than a lot of kids his age.

Anyway, she didn’t recognize him at first when they matched. She showed me the text of their conversation. The kid was extremely excited. Even though he’s become a quiet guy in person, he was downright chatty online. He asked what she was doing on the app and she said she was just fooling around. He asked if I knew and she said no and please don’t tell. He talked about his own experiences or rather frustrations with the app, having never actually met anyone in person. Then, he confessed that he was excited to match with her because he’s always had a crush on her. It was kind of an abrupt confession and she was polite and said he was sweet and she was flattered. Then, he went farther. He said he used to sit up front in the carpool so he could check her out every day. He would fantasize about her. In fact, she has been his favorite fantasy.

I was so fucking hard reading this. He was pretty much saying that he regularly jacked off about my wife. He’s been too young for me to want anything to have happened but damn, I liked the idea of him thinking about her. I asked her if she had known and she said that she thought he might have had a crush but she always saw it pretty innocently. I admit that I have no memory of seeing him check her out and I’m always on the look out and would never forget.

She was telling me all this because she was afraid that he might tell someone that he saw her on the app and it might somehow get back to me. I told her I meant it when I said she had no restrictions aside from being honest and sharing events with me. He begged her to meet him, even suggesting a midnight meet up. I said she should go for it and she said she couldn’t, he’s like a nephew. I said aunt-nephew fantasies are a thing. She said I was incorrigible. After she turned him down, he asked her to sext and she again said no, saying that she’s never done that before anyway. I told her this could be her opportunity to try. She just shook her head at me.

[CandA]

Wow QuietHope!

I can imagine that was an amazingly erotic experience just having that conversation, and knowing she has been getting hot playing with the idea in her head!

She shakes her head at you, but you know she’s “feeling the heat” too!

She is so incredibly hot I’m sure she has been habitually turning away from men who present opportunities for all her life.. but her wrestling with this herself is a sweet thing to know and share!

I can’t imagine that this kid or anybody else would look at her and not think she is at once in a lifetime opportunity.


Because of the history and their relationship, I think this truly is an extraordinary opportunity for both of them to enrich their lives, and it is really quite rare.

Hope it comes together for you all!

[BallSpanking]

I think Sophia has a level head and a good grasp of the potential risks involved, and was right to turn him down and tell you so.
I also think that the risk of exposure so close to home would not be something she would consider, and in fact might already feel spooked by that risk.
However, the fact that she continued toying with the dating app was no inadvertent lapse on her part, she knows the implications and possibilities that could derive therefrom, so, her texts and chatting are potential fertile means that could lead to her adventures.
I suggest you continue to encourage her to text the mover guys, particularly if you foster an exchange of pictures that become gradually more sexy and suggestive. In fact you could encourage that dynamic by offering to take sexy pics of Sophia for you and her to keep private, or potentially for her to exchange with the buffed mover guys.

[QuietHope]

extraordinary opportunity for both of them to enrich their lives

Thinking more about it, I think hell yes!

I think Sophia has a level head and a good grasp of the potential risks involved, and was right to turn him down and tell you so.
I also think that the risk of exposure so close to home would not be something she would consider, and in fact might already feel spooked by that risk.
However, the fact that she continued toying with the dating app was no inadvertent lapse on her part, she knows the implications and possibilities that could derive therefrom, so, her texts and chatting are potential fertile means that could lead to her adventures.
I suggest you continue to encourage her to text the mover guys, particularly if you foster an exchange of pictures that become gradually more sexy and suggestive. In fact you could encourage that dynamic by offering to take sexy pics of Sophia for you and her to keep private, or potentially for her to exchange with the buffed mover guys.

Maybe the risk is a turn on for me but I'd love to see her go for it. She said no but I sense she's more tempted that I would have initially guessed. I think you are 100% right that toying with the dating app is a very strong signal. And both her initial deceit and subsequent disclosure separately have possible good implications.

[BallSpanking]

It's too bad you've decided to let your thread languish ...

[QuietHope]

Sophia went out with the girls last night to celebrate a friend’s birthday. Fancy dinner and then a cocktail bar. She looked fantastic in a white dress reminiscent of the classic Marilyn Monroe style. Lots of photos of her and her friends drinking and yes, apparently with some guys, near our age, in the bar who bought drinks. I asked if there had been anything flirtatious and she said no.

But later, in bed, she indicated that she wanted me to go down on her which I would never say no to. While I was doing my thing, she started saying the name “Ben” with her eyes closed. She was massaging her breasts when she came and moaned his name loudly. After things calmed, I asked her who Ben was. She admitted it was one of the guys at the bar but he was the son of one of the other guys. Ben is in his 20s and she said she only spoke to him a little but thought he was hot. I told her she could have had him. She said I was ridiculous.

[BallSpanking]

I think she wouldn't mind engaging more actively in her fantasy ... After all, she seems perfectly comfortable to do so in bed with you. Maybe you could be more vocal and engage in a story that has Sophia at center of attention from young endowed men ... I think perhaps she'd be happy to play along.
The more she becomes accustomed to this kind of thinking, the more normal it will be for her.

[Florgasm]

She does seem to have a thing for younger studs, if those data points are indicative of her long term interests. Bar hopping towards that age group may trigger and enhance her curiosity. For some housewives, age is a particular strong driver. Test her with young bull pics and you maybe able to further narrow down her types.

[zorro]

I hear her testing you to see if you can actually take the brave talk you are putting forth. Testing the waters, and I don't mean the ones under your kayaks.

She sounds interested but wary perhaps because she doesn't want to upset you. And verbal reassurances are not going to mean much until she can see the flirting and near encounters actually sit well with you.

Tiny steps, albeit in a boat!

The seed has definitely been planted and is struggling to burst forth into the sunshine when it is safe to do so.
You will know if my observations are correct when she takes the next step towards greater contact and closeness with whomever the next cute guy is.
This is, I suspect, part of a process, bit by cautious bit, towards something very good.

Keep us informed. Very interested!

[silky nylons]

Sophia went out with the girls last night to celebrate a friend’s birthday. Fancy dinner and then a cocktail bar. She looked fantastic in a white dress reminiscent of the classic Marilyn Monroe style. Lots of photos of her and her friends drinking and yes, apparently with some guys, near our age, in the bar who bought drinks. I asked if there had been anything flirtatious and she said no.

But later, in bed, she indicated that she wanted me to go down on her which I would never say no to. While I was doing my thing, she started saying the name “Ben” with her eyes closed. She was massaging her breasts when she came and moaned his name loudly. After things calmed, I asked her who Ben was. She admitted it was one of the guys at the bar but he was the son of one of the other guys. Ben is in his 20s and she said she only spoke to him a little but thought he was hot. I told her she could have had him. She said I was ridiculous.

Whoa that is extremely sexy! She knows the stamina and lust a young man will have for a very sexy mature woman I’m sure your wife knows she is. There no denying her beauty and sensuality. Sounds deliciously like she is in the hotwife frame of mind.

Thank you for the update. I’m following your adventure and I’m hopeful for you both. Be patient and not smothering. She’ll make her move when she’s ready so be supportive.

[Long Lurker 34]

Sophia went out with the girls last night to celebrate a friend’s birthday. Fancy dinner and then a cocktail bar. She looked fantastic in a white dress reminiscent of the classic Marilyn Monroe style. Lots of photos of her and her friends drinking and yes, apparently with some guys, near our age, in the bar who bought drinks. I asked if there had been anything flirtatious and she said no.

But later, in bed, she indicated that she wanted me to go down on her which I would never say no to. While I was doing my thing, she started saying the name “Ben” with her eyes closed. She was massaging her breasts when she came and moaned his name loudly. After things calmed, I asked her who Ben was. She admitted it was one of the guys at the bar but he was the son of one of the other guys. Ben is in his 20s and she said she only spoke to him a little but thought he was hot. I told her she could have had him. She said I was ridiculous.

QH
- You should have said "You should have asked for his number."

[QuietHope]

The more she becomes accustomed to this kind of thinking, the more normal it will be for her.

Yes. Normalize.

She does seem to have a thing for younger studs, if those data points are indicative of her long term interests. Bar hopping towards that age group may trigger and enhance her curiosity. For some housewives, age is a particular strong driver. Test her with young bull pics and you maybe able to further narrow down her types.

More bar hopping sounds like a no lose plan

I hear her testing you to see if you can actually take the brave talk you are putting forth. Testing the waters, and I don't mean the ones under your kayaks.

She sounds interested but wary perhaps because she doesn't want to upset you. And verbal reassurances are not going to mean much until she can see the flirting and near encounters actually sit well with you.

Tiny steps, albeit in a boat!

The seed has definitely been planted and is struggling to burst forth into the sunshine when it is safe to do so.
You will know if my observations are correct when she takes the next step towards greater contact and closeness with whomever the next cute guy is.
This is, I suspect, part of a process, bit by cautious bit, towards something very good.

Keep us informed. Very interested!

I think you nailed it. She's testing me. She could have thought about Ben without saying his name. She was dropping that so I'd react. Glad I showed enthusiasm.

Whoa that is extremely sexy! She knows the stamina and lust a young man will have for a very sexy mature woman I’m sure your wife knows she is. There no denying her beauty and sensuality. Sounds deliciously like she is in the hotwife frame of mind.

Thank you for the update. I’m following your adventure and I’m hopeful for you both. Be patient and not smothering. She’ll make her move when she’s ready so be supportive.

Thank you for the support. Patience. Yes

[patw3268]

The most common mistake we make as men is pushing too hard but I actually think you are not pushing enough now’s haha.
Talk dirty things about Ben when she says his name. Post nut you also need to tough it out and reinforce the Ben idea. Make her feel desired.

[QuietHope]

The most common mistake we make as men is pushing too hard but I actually think you are not pushing enough now’s haha.
Talk dirty things about Ben when she says his name. Post nut you also need to tough it out and reinforce the Ben idea. Make her feel desired.

I don't know. I've been on the learning side of her anger when I've pushed before. But maybe you're right. Sometimes it takes a dozen of great male minds to try to understand the whims of a beautiful woman.

[silky nylons]

The most common mistake we make as men is pushing too hard but I actually think you are not pushing enough now’s haha.
Talk dirty things about Ben when she says his name. Post nut you also need to tough it out and reinforce the Ben idea. Make her feel desired.

I don't know. I've been on the learning side of her anger when I've pushed before. But maybe you're right. Sometimes it takes a dozen of great male minds to try to understand the whims of a beautiful woman.

What would happen if instead of using words to encourage her use actions...like...buy her a classy sexy dress that's a little bit more revealing of her breasts or her legs (her legs are phenomenal from what I can see in her pics). Beautiful under things...silky sheer hose, sheer bra/panty set. And try to time it somehow where she would wear the sexy things with the young Ben at these occasions...Just a thought.

[Dream Weaver]

The most common mistake we make as men is pushing too hard but I actually think you are not pushing enough now’s haha.
Talk dirty things about Ben when she says his name. Post nut you also need to tough it out and reinforce the Ben idea. Make her feel desired.

I don't know. I've been on the learning side of her anger when I've pushed before. But maybe you're right. Sometimes it takes a dozen of great male minds to try to understand the whims of a beautiful woman.

To make it a simpler view: If she brings it up, run with it.

[QuietHope]

I needed to be in Palo Alto for an event last night and she came along to shop and have dinner out together. Walking around town afterwards, we walked into a sex shop. A small place, brightly lit and I think woman friendly but there was a dude in there definitely checking her out as we looked at different dildos and toys. We bought a very large one that vibrates. Black. I loved seeing the dude watch as she handled the different ones.

When we got home, we put it to use right away. She used both of her big dildo toys. Inside her and in her mouth. I helped out by kissing and licking her body and humping her leg. She was really getting into whatever she was imagining when she directed me to her mouth. She went back and forth between me and the toy. She looked so incredibly sexy like that. This is as close to my dream as I’ve ever been. She’s absolutely imagining herself being gangbanged and loving it. I came and she directed it to go across her face while she kept sucking the toy for another few minutes when she came.

Afterwards, I asked if she was thinking of any guys specifically and she said yes and no. She said several different guys ran through her mind. A guy she works with. The mover boys. A coworker of mine. Even the guy from the store. And then just faceless bodies. When she listed them like that, I got hard again and barely touched myself and came again. She laughed and said that she thinks I’m enjoying her dirty fantasies more than she is.

[silky nylons]

I needed to be in Palo Alto for an event last night and she came along to shop and have dinner out together. Walking around town afterwards, we walked into a sex shop. A small place, brightly lit and I think woman friendly but there was a dude in there definitely checking her out as we looked at different dildos and toys. We bought a very large one that vibrates. Black. I loved seeing the dude watch as she handled the different ones.

When we got home, we put it to use right away. She used both of her big dildo toys. Inside her and in her mouth. I helped out by kissing and licking her body and humping her leg. She was really getting into whatever she was imagining when she directed me to her mouth. She went back and forth between me and the toy. She looked so incredibly sexy like that. This is as close to my dream as I’ve ever been. She’s absolutely imagining herself being gangbanged and loving it. I came and she directed it to go across her face while she kept sucking the toy for another few minutes when she came.

Afterwards, I asked if she was thinking of any guys specifically and she said yes and no. She said several different guys ran through her mind. A guy she works with. The mover boys. A coworker of mine. Even the guy from the store. And then just faceless bodies. When she listed them like that, I got hard again and barely touched myself and came again. She laughed and said that she thinks I’m enjoying her dirty fantasies more than she is.

That's quite an exciting and very promising turn of events QHope! I can't imagine how sexy hot your wife looked throughout all of that...her pics are perfection!!! Maybe keep those names in close proximity of your everyday life...encourage her when they are around. Maybe go out with them...meet ups for drinks or something. Show Sophia that you'd like for her to go through with her fantasies. Thank you for posting. I look forward to more even if it may not seem like progress because you never know. Cheers.