Building up slowly

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Hi there, thanks for writing. I've just posted in your thread, but wanted to say thanks for commenting and sharing you experience.

My wife has been actively messaging again in the App, and its great to see that she's doing so without any prompting. Cross you fingers for us!

[snoogaloo82]

Hi there, thanks for writing. I've just posted in your thread, but wanted to say thanks for commenting and sharing you experience.

My wife has been actively messaging again in the App, and its great to see that she's doing so without any prompting. Cross you fingers for us!

I have let my sweetie know about this site, but she hasn't checked it out yet. Then again yesterday was the first time she became a HW. I'm so proud of her, and she said she was pleasantly surprised at how good the sex was! My favorite part was her saying he penetrated her standing up with her legs completely around his waist!! Something about that turns me on!!

Anyway, what ideas do you have for me to encourage my sweetie to actually read this site?

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Good morning.
It sounds like your wife had a very positive experience! Congratulations to you both.

In regards to your question it may help to reassure her that she can remain as anonymous as she chooses, and that the site isn't the typical porn site thats flooded with images that she may not wish to see. There are some very knowledgeable and respectful folks in here, with view points and opinions that cover the full spectrum. Truly allows you to think about things from perspectives that you may not have considered.

I wish you good luck, and congratulations again. I hope you two had a hot and sexy reclaiming!

[snoogaloo82]

Good morning.
It sounds like your wife had a very positive experience! Congratulations to you both.

In regards to your question it may help to reassure her that she can remain as anonymous as she chooses, and that the site isn't the typical porn site thats flooded with images that she may not wish to see. There are some very knowledgeable and respectful folks in here, with view points and opinions that cover the full spectrum. Truly allows you to think about things from perspectives that you may not have considered.

I wish you good luck, and congratulations again. I hope you two had a hot and sexy reclaiming!

Thank you so much for all your help! I really appreciate it! Now that you mention reclaiming. I am on the west coast of the US, and my sweetie is in Kenya and it's going to be a long time before we're together again. How long do you think it's okay to go before reclaiming? I was thinking that maybe instead of actual contact that we reclaim each other by masturbating during a video chat. what are your thoughts on that?

[Lookingforadventure]

Hi there, thanks for writing. I've just posted in your thread, but wanted to say thanks for commenting and sharing you experience.

My wife has been actively messaging again in the App, and its great to see that she's doing so without any prompting. Cross you fingers for us!

Sounds like things are moving along at a good pace for both of you. I'm glad. This can't be rushed, and hopefully you are both enjoying the experience.

[snoogaloo82]

Hi there, thanks for writing. I've just posted in your thread, but wanted to say thanks for commenting and sharing you experience.

My wife has been actively messaging again in the App, and its great to see that she's doing so without any prompting. Cross you fingers for us!

wishing you all my best!!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Sounds like things are moving along at a good pace for both of you. I'm glad. This can't be rushed, and hopefully you are both enjoying the experience.

Thank you ma'am.
She's enjoyed reading some thrilling stories in here that offer encouragement...

[hoping_she_will_1day]

A few months ago we received a message from a gentleman on the dating app that we use. He presented himself well, and had a easy going and laid back personality. He's not local to us, but within a day's drive. He and his girlfriend (both in our age range) play with others and he wanted to introduce themselves and to complement us on our profile. We traded messages infrequently, but often enough to know that there was interest from both parties. All of the messages between us were very polite, and well thought out which made the conversation very easy for us. Mrs. curious doesn't care for crude comments from someone that she barely knows.

We all agreed that we'd like to meet for dinner and drinks someday, so we started discussing dates that we'd all be free then finally a weekend was agreed upon! We had about 3 weeks to prepare ourselves, and as the date grew closer our nerves became more evident. We learned at this time as well that his gf had not been with another couple before and she was just as nervous, and I think this actually helped us to a degree. He'd stated before that there were no expectations beyond having dinner and drinks together. If we all got along and there was interest, we'd be invited to their room for another glass of wine and we'd see where things went from there. We were comfortable with that arrangement, which took allot of pressure off of everyone.

We reserved a room for ourselves at a different hotel than where they were staying, and drove to the city early that afternoon. We checked ourselves in, went to the room and unpacked our overnight stuff then sat on the sofa with a glass of wine from the bottle that we brought with us. The ladies traded a few text messages with some lite flirting and innuendo. I turned on some music from my phone and asked my wife for a dance. I reassured her that there were absolutely no expectations for her and that she was in complete control of anything that happened that evening. We shared a nice moment together slow dancing, which then evolved into some silliness to make her laugh. I so love to make her laugh.

It was time to change into our dinner clothes. She'd chosen a dress with high heels, with slacks with a sport jacket for me. We'd decided to wear something nice rather than appear totally casual, but wondered if we'd be overdressed. We kissed as we left our room, then drove to the restaurant and arrived before they did. We'd been seated for about 5 mins when they walked in. We stood up to meet a very attractive couple who were dressed very similarly to us. He and I actually joked about the decision making struggle...wear a jacket, don't wear a jacket...and we were both a bit relieved to see that the other had made the same choice. The ladies looked and smelled amazing!

Dinner was impressive and conversation flowed easily. If felt as if 4 friends were meeting to catch up. Our booth was private enough that when the topic evolved into the more intimate nature we could speak without needing to whisper. We spoke about past experiences and things that we haven't done but wish to try. As the talk winded down he turned to his gf and asked if we should all meet in their room for another drink, and she answered yes. We paid our tabs and headed to our vehicles. I opened door for Mrs. Curious, pulled her in for a kiss and hug and reminded her that she is in complete control of anything that happens.

We all walked to their room together passing through the lobby where the desk clerk said hello, which made me wonder if they had an idea what was happening. He opened two bottles of wine, and poured us all a glass each. We talked and laughed so much for the better part of an hour when I remembered that I'd brought along the small blue tooth speaker. A few minutes had passed when he asked my wife to dance. I was seated on the sofa beside his gf, and we both watched them dancing. Then they moved into a kiss that looked every bit as erotic as I'd imagined it would. His gf turned to me for a kiss as well, and it was pretty damn amazing. However, while I had my back turned to the couple that was dancing, he'd managed to pull my wife's dress off...and I missed it!! Damnit.

There they stood, him fully dressed, her in her bra, panties and high heels looking sexy as fuck. She began to undress him as we watched, and soon had him down to his underwear. He walked her backwards towards the bed, kissing as they moved and they were soon standing at the foot of the bed. His gf turned to me and asked if I thought it would be ok if she kissed my wife as well (there had been some suggestion ahead of time that she was bi-curious). I don't recall my exact words but nodded that she should find out, so she crawled up onto the bed and kissed my wife's neck as he was kissing her lips and tits as they finished undressing her together. Soon there were 4 hands roaming across her body, and I could see that she wasn't sure about what was happening. I asked if she was enjoying herself, and she replied that it was nice but it was also allot. I think his gf recognized that Mrs. Curious needed a minute, so she backed away and invited me onto the bed with her. We started undressing each other, struggling with buttons and laughing about it. Our hands were busy with each other as we kissed more, then we saw that my wife was now squatting in front of him, still in her high heels, and was working her magic sucking his cock. This was such an erotic view for me, and one without any signs of angst or jealousy, which actually made me feel more at ease.

He led her over to the couch, sat her down, crawled between her legs and started licking her pussy. She now had my complete attention. I was watching her body language and face for any signs for anything that was saying "no", but she had none of those. His gf wanted to join where he was, so she crawled in beside him and took his place. He inserted a finger inside my wife's pussy while her clit was being licked by his gf, and this was a pretty fucking amazing thing to witness. I watched the three of them for a minute or so and noticed that the expression on my wife's face was changing a bit, so I leaned over her and kissed her. I asked if she was ok, but she only mumbled. I kissed her again as they resumed their attention to her pussy but once again recognized the discomfort in the expression on her and asked again if she was ok. She asked everyone to stop because it was too much at once. We all pulled back, and she apologized for stopping the play, but everyone reassured her that she did the right thing and no one would do anything more unless she wanted them to.

We all got another glass of wine and got comfortable on the bed either sitting, kneeling or laying on each of the 4 corners. We talked and laughed more, she apologized again which was immediately followed by more reassurances that she was right to stop everything. About an our passed when we decided to call it a night. As we were getting dressed I suggested that my wife could wear my jacket without her dress, so she put it on an agreed that it would be hot to walk through both hotel lobbies dressed that way. We all said our good byes with hugs, kisses & handshakes, promising that we'd eventually get together again.

As we exited the hotel with her wearing just my jacket, her high heels and under garments, there was a car idling at the entrance with someone behind the wheel. It looked like a meal delivery of some sort. My wife got a devilish lil grin and suggested that he was about to see something he probably didn't expect. When we were about 20 ft in from of his car, with the headlights shining, she bent down to pick up something from the ground while fully flashing he panty covered ass at him. She may have turned to glance back at him when she stood back up.

When we got back to our room we undressed each other and got hot and heavy very quickly. I handed her the vibrator that she'd brought along and she worked her clit with it as I entered her in missionary. We slow fucked as we talked about how sexy she was, how hot it was to watch her with the other man. How it will be just as hot when she has her first hotwife fuck. As my orgasm approached I held myself completely still and fully inside her as I went over the edge from the vibrations of her toy. We stayed there for a few moments before I moved down to lick her pussy as she continued working on her clit with the vibrator and she eventually had an intense cum.

What a fucking night!!

We received a really sweet message from his gf the next evening, recalling some of the special moments from the night before and parts of the different conversations. She stated that they were sincere about wanting to get together again. Mrs. Curious, still feeling like she messed up the evening, was happy to see this message. We've all traded more messages since, and have agreed to meet again just a couple of weeks from now. As before, I'll be uber focused on my wife while making sure that it doesn't go faster than she's comfortable with.

[Lookingforadventure]

I'm so happy for you both. Sounds like a great first experience with this couple. And I'm proud of Ms. Curious for speaking her mind and owning her sexuality and what she wanted. Good for her.

I loved the flash too

[snoogaloo82]

I'm so happy for you both. Sounds like a great first experience with this couple. And I'm proud of Ms. Curious for speaking her mind and owning her sexuality and what she wanted. Good for her.

I loved the flash too

I agree good for her speaking her own mind and owning her sexuality!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

I'm so happy for you both. Sounds like a great first experience with this couple. And I'm proud of Ms. Curious for speaking her mind and owning her sexuality and what she wanted. Good for her.

I loved the flash too

Thank you ma'am, her confidence should only grow nore from here.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

I agree good for her speaking her own mind and owning her sexuality!

Thank you!

[snoogaloo82]

I agree good for her speaking her own mind and owning her sexuality!

Thank you!

You are very welcome! It's wonderful that you showed us all what the possibilities are!

[Seekingmore12]

Congratulations on this step forward, I applaud mrs. curious for standing up like she did vs being uncomfortable with what’s happening. Sounds like things went a million miles in a second or at least seemed that way.

It’s perfect for you two at least in my humble opinion, you both got to test the waters so to speak, debrief, make love and experience this together.

Congratulations, I am proud of you two.

G

[mundyman]

A few months ago we received a message from a gentleman on the dating app that we use. He presented himself well, and had a easy going and laid back personality. He's not local to us, but within a day's drive. He and his girlfriend (both in our age range) play with others and he wanted to introduce themselves and to complement us on our profile. We traded messages infrequently, but often enough to know that there was interest from both parties. All of the messages between us were very polite, and well thought out which made the conversation very easy for us. Mrs. curious doesn't care for crude comments from someone that she barely knows.

We all agreed that we'd like to meet for dinner and drinks someday, so we started discussing dates that we'd all be free then finally a weekend was agreed upon! We had about 3 weeks to prepare ourselves, and as the date grew closer our nerves became more evident. We learned at this time as well that his gf had not been with another couple before and she was just as nervous, and I think this actually helped us to a degree. He'd stated before that there were no expectations beyond having dinner and drinks together. If we all got along and there was interest, we'd be invited to their room for another glass of wine and we'd see where things went from there. We were comfortable with that arrangement, which took allot of pressure off of everyone.

We reserved a room for ourselves at a different hotel than where they were staying, and drove to the city early that afternoon. We checked ourselves in, went to the room and unpacked our overnight stuff then sat on the sofa with a glass of wine from the bottle that we brought with us. The ladies traded a few text messages with some lite flirting and innuendo. I turned on some music from my phone and asked my wife for a dance. I reassured her that there were absolutely no expectations for her and that she was in complete control of anything that happened that evening. We shared a nice moment together slow dancing, which then evolved into some silliness to make her laugh. I so love to make her laugh.

It was time to change into our dinner clothes. She'd chosen a dress with high heels, with slacks with a sport jacket for me. We'd decided to wear something nice rather than appear totally casual, but wondered if we'd be overdressed. We kissed as we left our room, then drove to the restaurant and arrived before they did. We'd been seated for about 5 mins when they walked in. We stood up to meet a very attractive couple who were dressed very similarly to us. He and I actually joked about the decision making struggle...wear a jacket, don't wear a jacket...and we were both a bit relieved to see that the other had made the same choice. The ladies looked and smelled amazing!

Dinner was impressive and conversation flowed easily. If felt as if 4 friends were meeting to catch up. Our booth was private enough that when the topic evolved into the more intimate nature we could speak without needing to whisper. We spoke about past experiences and things that we haven't done but wish to try. As the talk winded down he turned to his gf and asked if we should all meet in their room for another drink, and she answered yes. We paid our tabs and headed to our vehicles. I opened door for Mrs. Curious, pulled her in for a kiss and hug and reminded her that she is in complete control of anything that happens.

We all walked to their room together passing through the lobby where the desk clerk said hello, which made me wonder if they had an idea what was happening. He opened two bottles of wine, and poured us all a glass each. We talked and laughed so much for the better part of an hour when I remembered that I'd brought along the small blue tooth speaker. A few minutes had passed when he asked my wife to dance. I was seated on the sofa beside his gf, and we both watched them dancing. Then they moved into a kiss that looked every bit as erotic as I'd imagined it would. His gf turned to me for a kiss as well, and it was pretty damn amazing. However, while I had my back turned to the couple that was dancing, he'd managed to pull my wife's dress off...and I missed it!! Damnit.

There they stood, him fully dressed, her in her bra, panties and high heels looking sexy as fuck. She began to undress him as we watched, and soon had him down to his underwear. He walked her backwards towards the bed, kissing as they moved and they were soon standing at the foot of the bed. His gf turned to me and asked if I thought it would be ok if she kissed my wife as well (there had been some suggestion ahead of time that she was bi-curious). I don't recall my exact words but nodded that she should find out, so she crawled up onto the bed and kissed my wife's neck as he was kissing her lips and tits as they finished undressing her together. Soon there were 4 hands roaming across her body, and I could see that she wasn't sure about what was happening. I asked if she was enjoying herself, and she replied that it was nice but it was also allot. I think his gf recognized that Mrs. Curious needed a minute, so she backed away and invited me onto the bed with her. We started undressing each other, struggling with buttons and laughing about it. Our hands were busy with each other as we kissed more, then we saw that my wife was now squatting in front of him, still in her high heels, and was working her magic sucking his cock. This was such an erotic view for me, and one without any signs of angst or jealousy, which actually made me feel more at ease.

He led her over to the couch, sat her down, crawled between her legs and started licking her pussy. She now had my complete attention. I was watching her body language and face for any signs for anything that was saying "no", but she had none of those. His gf wanted to join where he was, so she crawled in beside him and took his place. He inserted a finger inside my wife's pussy while her clit was being licked by his gf, and this was a pretty fucking amazing thing to witness. I watched the three of them for a minute or so and noticed that the expression on my wife's face was changing a bit, so I leaned over her and kissed her. I asked if she was ok, but she only mumbled. I kissed her again as they resumed their attention to her pussy but once again recognized the discomfort in the expression on her and asked again if she was ok. She asked everyone to stop because it was too much at once. We all pulled back, and she apologized for stopping the play, but everyone reassured her that she did the right thing and no one would do anything more unless she wanted them to.

We all got another glass of wine and got comfortable on the bed either sitting, kneeling or laying on each of the 4 corners. We talked and laughed more, she apologized again which was immediately followed by more reassurances that she was right to stop everything. About an our passed when we decided to call it a night. As we were getting dressed I suggested that my wife could wear my jacket without her dress, so she put it on an agreed that it would be hot to walk through both hotel lobbies dressed that way. We all said our good byes with hugs, kisses & handshakes, promising that we'd eventually get together again.

As we exited the hotel with her wearing just my jacket, her high heels and under garments, there was a car idling at the entrance with someone behind the wheel. It looked like a meal delivery of some sort. My wife got a devilish lil grin and suggested that he was about to see something he probably didn't expect. When we were about 20 ft in from of his car, with the headlights shining, she bent down to pick up something from the ground while fully flashing he panty covered ass at him. She may have turned to glance back at him when she stood back up.

When we got back to our room we undressed each other and got hot and heavy very quickly. I handed her the vibrator that she'd brought along and she worked her clit with it as I entered her in missionary. We slow fucked as we talked about how sexy she was, how hot it was to watch her with the other man. How it will be just as hot when she has her first hotwife fuck. As my orgasm approached I held myself completely still and fully inside her as I went over the edge from the vibrations of her toy. We stayed there for a few moments before I moved down to lick her pussy as she continued working on her clit with the vibrator and she eventually had an intense cum.

What a fucking night!!

We received a really sweet message from his gf the next evening, recalling some of the special moments from the night before and parts of the different conversations. She stated that they were sincere about wanting to get together again. Mrs. Curious, still feeling like she messed up the evening, was happy to see this message. We've all traded more messages since, and have agreed to meet again just a couple of weeks from now. As before, I'll be uber focused on my wife while making sure that it doesn't go faster than she's comfortable with.

How were the discussions in the following days?
Has she talked about wanting to go further?
What was her reaction to having the gf kiss her and go down on her?
Do you think she would have finished with the other man, or finished him, if the gf had just stayed on the sidelines?
How did she feel about you kissing the gf?
Good luck as you journey down the path of this lifestyle.
Thank you for sharing.

[snoogaloo82]

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What a fucking night!!

We received a really sweet message from his gf the next evening, recalling some of the special moments from the night before and parts of the different conversations. She stated that they were sincere about wanting to get together again. Mrs. Curious, still feeling like she messed up the evening, was happy to see this message. We've all traded more messages since, and have agreed to meet again just a couple of weeks from now. As before, I'll be uber focused on my wife while making sure that it doesn't go faster than she's comfortable with.

How were the discussions in the following days?
Has she talked about wanting to go further?
What was her reaction to having the gf kiss her and go down on her?
Do you think she would have finished with the other man, or finished him, if the gf had just stayed on the sidelines?
How did she feel about you kissing the gf?
Good luck as you journey down the path of this lifestyle.
Thank you for sharing.
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I'm totally interested in finding out the answers to your questions, too!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Congratulations on this step forward, I applaud mrs. curious for standing up like she did vs being uncomfortable with what’s happening. Sounds like things went a million miles in a second or at least seemed that way.

It’s perfect for you two at least in my humble opinion, you both got to test the waters so to speak, debrief, make love and experience this together.

Congratulations, I am proud of you two.

G

Thank you very much! I'm very proud of her for speaking up when she did and we feel fortunate that the other couple showed patience and understanding. We learned some things, and we're looking forward to the next time.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

How were the discussions in the following days?
Has she talked about wanting to go further?
What was her reaction to having the gf kiss her and go down on her?
Do you think she would have finished with the other man, or finished him, if the gf had just stayed on the sidelines?
How did she feel about you kissing the gf?
Good luck as you journey down the path of this lifestyle.
Thank you for sharing.

Hello MM, thanks for following our story and for your questions, which I'll do my best to answer while respectfully leaving room for Mrs Curious to amend should she choose to do so. And she may not. She's quite private with her innermost thoughts.

We've had some very good discussions, but we have not tried to over analyze any particular part of our meeting. As for the rest of your questions, she and I went into the meet with an open mind to experience whatever might occur, and she handled each moment with that same perspective. It went well enough that we're meeting them again next week.

Thanks again for your well wishes!

[snoogaloo82]

How were the discussions in the following days?
Has she talked about wanting to go further?
What was her reaction to having the gf kiss her and go down on her?
Do you think she would have finished with the other man, or finished him, if the gf had just stayed on the sidelines?
How did she feel about you kissing the gf?
Good luck as you journey down the path of this lifestyle.
Thank you for sharing.

Hello MM, thanks for following our story and for your questions, which I'll do my best to answer while respectfully leaving room for Mrs Curious to amend should she choose to do so. And she may not. She's quite private with her innermost thoughts.

We've had some very good discussions, but we have not tried to over analyze any particular part of our meeting. As for the rest of your questions, she and I went into the meet with an open mind to experience whatever might occur, and she handled each moment with that same perspective. It went well enough that we're meeting them again next week.

Thanks again for your well wishes!

May I add our own well wishes for you guys!

[trecital]

Me too!!!

[Lookingforadventure]

Hi. I was just thinking about the two of you and thought I'd say hi. I hope you have been having an excellent start to December.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Hi. I was just thinking about the two of you and thought I'd say hi. I hope you have been having an excellent start to December.

Good morning ma'am. We're doing very well, thank you for reaching out and for the well wishes. It's kind of funny how thoughts can feel linked to actions, meaning...the other day when you posted in your thread about being busy over the last couple of weeks...you and your gents had just rambled through my thoughts and then *ta-dah!* there's an update from you!

I need to post an update as well to share some details about our last meet with the swinger couple.

[Lookingforadventure]

I need to post an update as well to share some details about our last meet with the swinger couple.

I WAS thinking about that, but didn't want to pry I hope it was amazing. You two always have sexy fun together, you deserve to share that with others.

[Farmgirl]

I need to post an update as well to share some details about our last meet with the swinger couple.

I WAS thinking about that, but didn't want to pry I hope it was amazing. You two always have sexy fun together, you deserve to share that with others.

I am curious as well .

[hoping_she_will_1day]

I need to post an update as well to share some details about our last meet with the swinger couple.

I WAS thinking about that, but didn't want to pry I hope it was amazing. You two always have sexy fun together, you deserve to share that with others.

I am curious as well .

I'll try to get this done tonight, don't want to keep two of our favorite people waiting!!

Who knows, maybe it'll lead to some fun reenactment too.