Small stuff

[feetuji]

There was a similar topic but I didnt find it. Anyway, this is just for the real wannabes sharing the very small stuff they have. We rarely have our wives doing HW/cuck stuff and when they do something,its so small that sounds like nothing,but for us wannabes, its like diamonds!

Here goes nothing lol: two days ago,while driving in a somewhat desert place,there was a bus stopped in the side of the road. It was empty,not in service, but the driver was side by side with the bus, pissing. He was more visible from my wife angle (me driving,she as a passenger) and she noticed him . The bus was near a curve , so as my car went the curve (where the guy would be more visible) I noticed my wife clearly turning her head to look to the guy!

She is not like that,generally she pretends to be respectul and she never has interest looking at a guy dick ,but this time she wanted to see his dick! Because of the road,the curve etc,she tought I didnt saw her looking, but I saw lol but she dont knows that.

As I said,small stuff. Thats all that I have.

[feetuji]

Real wannabes,post your experiences here.
I just read other threads inside the wannabe subforum, and they are rich in stuff from people already in the lifestyle.

This topic is really just the stuff from and for wannabes!

[excitedPotential7]

Wow that's actually amazing. Maybe the start of something more? For me, recently, my gf told me about the time she hooked up with someone from her past. It's rare for her to do this. I came from hearing about how she rode him.

[philxxo]

My wife recently had a new doctors appointment. She was almost giddy telling me how he was known to be good looking and she agreed. She has thus far refused to tell me about any other guy she finds attractive or has fantasies about, so I was happy with that.

[feetuji]

Wow that's actually amazing. Maybe the start of something more? For me, recently, my gf told me about the time she hooked up with someone from her past. It's rare for her to do this. I came from hearing about how she rode him.

About my wife,I dont think its the start of something more,just an extremely rare event lol. She never looks to men, but she looked that day, and make some effort to see him pissing!
About your wife, remember my own wife, rarely she tells me stuff from her past when I ask. Most of the time she says something like "Here you are asking that kind of stuff again" with a cold tone of voice. Or maybe she ignores my question with some counter joke to avoid it. But there are some ocasions (VERY rare) where she tells me stuff I ask. Nevertless, there isnt that much to tell, but some interesting stuff.
What about your gf, do know nothing,only that hook you spoke about?

[feetuji]

My wife recently had a new doctors appointment. She was almost giddy telling me how he was known to be good looking and she agreed. She has thus far refused to tell me about any other guy she finds attractive or has fantasies about, so I was happy with that.

Sound like mine too lol. But why did your wife told you that the doc is good looking?

[excitedPotential7]

Wow that's actually amazing. Maybe the start of something more? For me, recently, my gf told me about the time she hooked up with someone from her past. It's rare for her to do this. I came from hearing about how she rode him.

About my wife,I dont think its the start of something more,just an extremely rare event lol. She never looks to men, but she looked that day, and make some effort to see him pissing!
About your wife, remember my own wife, rarely she tells me stuff from her past when I ask. Most of the time she says something like "Here you are asking that kind of stuff again" with a cold tone of voice. Or maybe she ignores my question with some counter joke to avoid it. But there are some ocasions (VERY rare) where she tells me stuff I ask. Nevertless, there isnt that much to tell, but some interesting stuff.
What about your gf, do know nothing,only that hook you spoke about?

I would tell you to be smart how you go about doing this because you can get results. My gf was just like yours, incredibly cold toward the idea, but she has slowly started opening up to it. I know about a few times she hooked up with the same guy.

[feetuji]

For many reasons,I dont think I will be lucky, but who knows!

[philxxo]

My wife recently had a new doctors appointment. She was almost giddy telling me how he was known to be good looking and she agreed. She has thus far refused to tell me about any other guy she finds attractive or has fantasies about, so I was happy with that.

Sound like mine too lol. But why did your wife told you that the doc is good looking?

I think because despite her opposition to the hotwife idea, she enjoys seeing me excited about the thought of it. She is amused that I enjoy her interacting with other men. I like hearing about her ex BF etc.. This guy was really cute and she was sharing her excitement with me. I was glad she did. But since then she says she is not even going to joke about it anymore with me. I think she has decided that she will not encourage it anymore with me.

[feetuji]

My wife recently had a new doctors appointment. She was almost giddy telling me how he was known to be good looking and she agreed. She has thus far refused to tell me about any other guy she finds attractive or has fantasies about, so I was happy with that.

Sound like mine too lol. But why did your wife told you that the doc is good looking?

I think because despite her opposition to the hotwife idea, she enjoys seeing me excited about the thought of it. She is amused that I enjoy her interacting with other men. I like hearing about her ex BF etc.. This guy was really cute and she was sharing her excitement with me. I was glad she did. But since then she says she is not even going to joke about it anymore with me. I think she has decided that she will not encourage it anymore with me.

Thats very interesting! Thats why I created this topic, only wannabes will se this "small stuff" as fun
Anyway, perhaps your wife was/is afraid of the idea. Perhaps she had some nasty toughts about that doctor but want to keep a normal life and avoid "strange" feelings that society censures.

I remember some years ago we had a construction worker (many of them in fact) near our house and one of them was sexy to her. I mean, thats one of these rare ocasions where she would talk about other men body! He had blue eyes, a nice tan and strong chest and arms. When me and her had sex sometimes I would throw some fantasies with the guy saying stuff like "I know you prefer the worker here instead of me, licking your pussy" etc/whatever. Most of the time she seemed to be really excited and fucked harder. And I would fuck harder and cum a lot!
Now she doesnt seem atracted anymore about him. Since he left the the construction site, she suddenly seemed to loose interest, a little bit like your wife regarding the doc.

I also must add that regarding my wife, I never know when she really is excited/horny about a guy or if its just her already horny about the sex with me. Talking with her, for real, about the topic, its something she wont do.

[philxxo]

That's the thing. For the most part my wife refuses to play into my desire for her to fuck other people. So far she has refused to tell me a celebrity crush, who or what she finds attractive, a sexual fantasy etc.. She doesn't want to encourage my fantasy. So when she told me this guy was really good looking, I was encouraged, until she shut it off. Prior to that she would sometimes joke about having a BF or having a date, now she says she won't even joke about it anymore.

[feetuji]

Perhaps you need to pretend to be "normal" for a while, forget the cuck thing and maybe within sometime she will play again.

[CuckBar]

I've been doing my wife's tax return today.
I said to her how much would you have to pay if an accountant had to do this for you?
She just looked at me with a cheeky smile and said "Nothing, I'd just blow him"!
Love it when she teases me like that!

[feetuji]

I've been doing my wife's tax return today.
I said to her how much would you have to pay if an accountant had to do this for you?
She just looked at me with a cheeky smile and said "Nothing, I'd just blow him"!
Love it when she teases me like that!

Thats nice for sure! I would get a big bone if my wife said that!

[nks]

When my wife told me that one of her favorite porn contents is "blacked"...

[wulfenus]

ahh yes, that's what is great about this forum, in one place wives are being banged by men other than their husbands, here we treasure the small stuff, which is so real and vital to us.

Recently had a game night w/another couple, about 30s, attractive.

We were playing a game where you hold a piece of paper on your forehead,
then you try to draw whatever object is on your playing card.

so obviously you can't draw too well as you can't see how well you
are drawing and you are doing it with the pen pointed at you.

I draw a stick figure and then I'm trying to draw an arrow to point
to the figure, but it's where his cock would be, then i draw another
one to emphasize, and turns out the 2nd arrow is bigger and in the same
place.

the pen is a black magic marker type.

The other girl guesses that I'm drawing a 'weiner' and everyone starts laughing,
and they keep it up saying weiner, then she says big black dick ! her husband says
BBC, and she says Big Black Cock.

So I'm wavering between embarrassed, laughing and enlightened. Now everyone
is talking about big black cocks, and also using the acronym BBC.

My wife says - I'm always looking for a nickname for me, so I'll use BBC as
he doesnt have one.

So now i'm half embarrassed as Im not sure if she's telling everyone I don't
have a big cock or black? or both ???!

So I try to cover up with -- well of course i don't I'm not black.

we all had a good laugh.

To me it was really interesting that the acronym BBC came out of their
mouths so easily, so it was obviously a 'thing' they knew about or had
dealt with in some way.

[wulfenus]

Another recent story that had me going, Went to a baseball game w/another couple the other night.

In our section there were not many folks. Our 2 couples sat one row back from the railing and
another couple we didn't know sat just off to our side in front of us.

Couple in front of us was 40s, Man was stocky, dark brown hispanic,
plump, white wife next to him.

We chatted with them occassionally about the game and so forth. They were
friendly folks. In fact in one contest by the announcer, we all won chicken wings at
a local restaurant, haha, so we had good luck.

Between innings they always have various activities to keep the fans interested. Late in the
game, there was the opportunity to bounce around and dance, so my wife & the other wife with
us were enthusiastically having some fun dancing in the stands.

That's when I saw the man in front of me turn his head our way, and out of the corner of his eye, he
was really working at not being noticed, he was watching my wife's large breasts closely.

He thought he was being subtle, and he was maybe from the view of his wife, but I was sitting in the
perfect spot to watch what he was doing. I was a bit surprised how long he kept at watching her,
thinking he was sneaky haha.

My wife is fair skinned. In fact sometimes she wishes she could get a tan, but it is something she has
to work at. Later that night I was thinking of him (and I bet he was also) sucking on her big tits that he
had been lusting after, as he crammed that dark, brown cock into her pussy.

[nks]

wulfenus: I think most women really get aroused by BBC. It's just a natural reaction. I'm pretty sure your wife secretly feels hot thinking about black cocks. My wife goes wild when it comes up...
And yes, it is hot thinking about what men would imagine doing with your wife...

[wulfenus]

I was certainly impressed everyone knew the acronym BBC, I mean we use it here, but such a surprise.

wulfenus: I think most women really get aroused by BBC. It's just a natural reaction. I'm pretty sure your wife secretly feels hot thinking about black cocks. My wife goes wild when it comes up...
And yes, it is hot thinking about what men would imagine doing with your wife...

[MartasBoy]

When my wife told me that one of her favorite porn contents is "blacked"...

I think that you could build on this to make more out of it and feed your fantasy more. Sometime when you are in bed with her snuggling and nuzzling her, ask her to tell you about a fantasy with black men.

Ask her some questions in a calm and interested way so she knows that you aren't jealous or offended. Ask her if her fantasy scenario would include one black man or several. Ask her if she imagines them being a little rough and forceful, or very gentle. Ask her what she would be wearing and what things she would do with them.

I started this way with my wife, and she began to create fantasy stories of what she would do with her maginary lover. She could see that it turned me on, and could feel it when she was touching me. So she learned that it was fun for me as well.

[feetuji]

When my wife told me that one of her favorite porn contents is "blacked"...

For me, II would get super excited knowing that my wife likes porn! She doesnt lol. She does not masturbate or have fantasies etc etc.

[feetuji]

Another recent story that had me going, Went to a baseball game w/another couple the other night.

In our section there were not many folks. Our 2 couples sat one row back from the railing and
another couple we didn't know sat just off to our side in front of us.

Couple in front of us was 40s, Man was stocky, dark brown hispanic,
plump, white wife next to him.

We chatted with them occassionally about the game and so forth. They were
friendly folks. In fact in one contest by the announcer, we all won chicken wings at
a local restaurant, haha, so we had good luck.

Between innings they always have various activities to keep the fans interested. Late in the
game, there was the opportunity to bounce around and dance, so my wife & the other wife with
us were enthusiastically having some fun dancing in the stands.

That's when I saw the man in front of me turn his head our way, and out of the corner of his eye, he
was really working at not being noticed, he was watching my wife's large breasts closely.

He thought he was being subtle, and he was maybe from the view of his wife, but I was sitting in the
perfect spot to watch what he was doing. I was a bit surprised how long he kept at watching her,
thinking he was sneaky haha.

My wife is fair skinned. In fact sometimes she wishes she could get a tan, but it is something she has
to work at. Later that night I was thinking of him (and I bet he was also) sucking on her big tits that he
had been lusting after, as he crammed that dark, brown cock into her pussy.

Oh I bet you were in heaven seeing that guy admiring your wife boobs!
My wife has small boobs, so she doesnt get many looks in her cleveage, but she is a sexy woman. Anyway, I remember some things regarding guys and her boobs:
- one day we had this guy selling stuff at doors, he was tall blue eyes, good tan etc. My wife was dressing a casual loose t-shirt with a nice view to her boobs (not totally, you wouldnt see the nipples. The guy, as he talked, was always looking quickly to her cleveage, it was nice to see! Even more nice is the way my wife changed her pose, relaxed and somewhat seductive, towards the guy.

- I already said this here, there was this moment in the past (no kid yet) in a foreign country, I was able to convince my wife to be topless in a beach, and all the guys passing buy would mesmerize at her beautiful small and pale-white boobs...my erection couldnt be bigger that day!

- another time we were in a swimming pool and the bikini was not very tight, so you could easly see her nipples! And I was completly delighted looking at her talking to a mutual friend that was, for sure, seeing her nipples! I didnt say anything to my wife, that her nipples were visible, she didnt even noticed.

- once I said this here in the forum: again with that same friend (and his wife) we were in vacations together and after a beach day, doing stuff etc, at night, she was wearing a short sleeping dress (legs completly naked...:-) ) and a nice cleveage and she asked me "Do you think its shameful [not sure of the exact english word for something not socially correct] to go downstairs with this dress, without bra/soutien?"! Wow! She never wants to dress anything without bra, because that is not correct, etc, and now there she is asking to go downstairs [so we could gather together, the 4 of us, to chat before bed etc] in such sexy sleeping dress, without bra! With a very big bone I said "Yeah, of course its alright to be like that, no problem" 8while trying to not look very excited lol].

[wulfenus]

Good ones feetuji. I think all women have a bit of exhibitionism in them. Just depends on the moment and their mood. The desire is there, just having it happen is a whole other level.

[Bobs52]

I think this story fits in the “small stuff” category. As background, my wife is officially a hotwife I suppose by virtue of fucking a guy at her high school reunion several years ago with my complete blessing. As much as she knows I LOVED it, she really hasn’t taken any recent action to continue down that path. She is wonderful in bed however, describing how well he fucked her and how much she enjoyed it and how he made her cum etc. knowing how much it gets me off. She knows how much I’d love for her to do it again (but only if she wishes).

Tonight we were at a small reception for an organization she’s involved with. I had to run home to tend to something, but was going to come back to pick her up and proceed on to a nearby restaurant at which we had reservations. The event ended early and someone just gave her a ride to the restaurant so the plan changed that I was just going to meet her there.

When I arrived she was sitting at the bar having a glass of wine. I had hoped she would be getting hit on, but it didn’t appear so. Objectively, my wife is quite attractive and anyone out looking for a hookup would most certainly target her alone at a bar. When we were seated at our table she said, I have something to tell you that I think you’re going to like.

She proceeded to tell me that while she was waiting two men came and sat next to her. One of the men commented on how nice she smelled and struck up a conversation. They were close to the front door of the restaurant and the temperature had been very hot recently. The man said it would be cooler if they moved farther down the bar and invited my wife to move with them. Unfortunately, my wife told them she was waiting for her husband and stayed where she was.

When she told me this story she wanted me to see the two guys because she thought they were attractive. They were. One looked particularly virile, and I’m sure he could have given my wife quite the fuck if it had gone that far. I thanked her for telling me the story, mild as it was, but advised her that even though she was waiting for me she still should have moved with them and flirted at least until I got there (or even better after I got there in front of me).

The small takeaways:

-She knew she was getting hit on

-She liked being hit on

-She especially liked being hit on by attractive men

-She wanted to show off to me the type of men she could attract (believe me I already knew), and

-She knew how much I’d love to hear about it

I still need to coach her up on how to move these things forward however!

Because I think she rather enjoyed the brief experience, it may serve to open the door to some planned play, i.e. going to the restaurant bar 30 minutes or so before me to see what happens!

[feetuji]

Nice! Thanks for sharing that! You are very lucky with your wife!