Progress with my busty GF

[jigsaw]

Hello everyone. English is not my first language. I tell my story with the help of Google Translate.

I have been with my girlfriend for over 10 years. In recent years I have been thinking more and more about seeing her with another man.

My girlfriend is a beautiful 32 year old woman. She has long blond hair, blue eyes and is a bit chubby. Her big tits (double D's) are her greatest assets.

We find it exciting when she wears sexy clothes with a lot of cleavage during weekends away in another town. She knows that I find it exciting when other men look at her and it turns her on too.

I have suggested a threesome with another man several times, but she always says that I am enough for her.

We had some promising developments during the last weekend away. She looked wonderful and enjoyed the many looks she received. I have now made it clear to her that I am not jealous and asked during the sex that night if she wouldn't find it exciting to flirt with the men who show interest in her next time. To my delight, she agreed. She indicated that she mainly wanted to do that to excite me, but I think she likes it herself.

The next trip is booked and she talks about it constantly. So she's looking forward to it. She has been shopping for new clothes and even perfume with pheromones. I think that indicates something..

I think I'm on the right track with her, but I'm looking for tips on how to move forward with her.

I will keep you informed of developments..

[itsmeinhere]

I think you’re on the right track. My wife and I have a very similar story. She will now wear very see through shirts with no bra when we go out. It is so hot. She really gets checked out and we both love it. Like you, I’m wondering what the next steps are. I bought her an anklet that she will only wear when we go out. It’s sexy.
So what will be your next step?

[runaway]

Your girlfriend sounds pretty and a catch. Now that she knows you’re turned on by her with another man and she’s got your enthusiastic permission I’d suggest not pushing her or discussing it all the time. She sounds like she can attract plenty of men so the opportunity will present itself.

BTW, your English is fine.

[jigsaw]

Your girlfriend sounds pretty and a catch. Now that she knows you’re turned on by her with another man and she’s got your enthusiastic permission I’d suggest not pushing her or discussing it all the time. She sounds like she can attract plenty of men so the opportunity will present itself.

BTW, your English is fine.

Thanks!

You're probably right not to push too much at the moment and just wait to see what happens..

I have no doubts she can attract other men, I just hope that it will be someone who she is really attracted to.

[BallSpanking]

She likes the idea, probably loves the idea ... So just sit back and let her lead. Enjoy the ride.
Show her support whenever she seeks reassurance that what she is doing is good for you too.
Maybe you ought to think about the scenario playing out, and where you would be spending the night ...
Sometimes a third wheel is the last thing a HW and her Bull need in the corner of the room, masturbating, while they go at it full bore ...
Anyhow ... you may want to devise some viable dynamics, managing events, that could lead to your desired result.

[jigsaw]

Don't you think a threesome is a much smaller step for her? Besides, watching how she enjoys it, but also how another man enjoys her, seems to me to be the biggest part of the fun...

[BallSpanking]

If that is a viable thing, and she would enjoy it ... Why not?

[jigsaw]

I think you’re on the right track. My wife and I have a very similar story. She will now wear very see through shirts with no bra when we go out. It is so hot. She really gets checked out and we both love it. Like you, I’m wondering what the next steps are. I bought her an anklet that she will only wear when we go out. It’s sexy.
So what will be your next step?

It seems a bit strange to me when my girlfriend wears a shirt where you can see her nipples in a normal bar. Or do you mean that your wife wore that in a swingers club?

If there are any men with tips for sexy clothing with a lot of cleavage, I would appreciate it. For example via Shein. Maybe I can post an anonymous photo of her wearing that.

[runaway]

Demi bras are great for showing off cleavage but careful buying her anything unless she’s there to try it on. If she’s chubby and it’s too small her feelings will be hurt. Why not go shopping with her - and paying of course - and have her model the clothes ?

Or check out Etsy for Hotwife tank tops in her size? Even if they’re slightly small they’ll show off her great boobs.

Post a pic in the Hotties section if she consents.

[jigsaw]

If anyone is interested in knowing more or helping me further, he/she can send me a PM

I will keep you informed of further developments

[BullpenX]

It is a beautiful quest that you will embark on together. There are already very good tips given here and I hope you will say the next step.

It’s always nice to read about your progress.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum BullpenX.

[BullpenX]

Thank you armyguyot1

[jigsaw]

It is a beautiful quest that you will embark on together. There are already very good tips given here and I hope you will say the next step.

It’s always nice to read about your progress.

Thanks! In a few weeks we have an overnight stay in another city. I will keep you guys updated

[BullpenX]

How was the overnight stay for you guys?

[jigsaw]

I'm sorry that I haven't responded for a while, but unfortunately there were no developments to report. Our weekend away was canceled because I was ill. Maybe in 1 or 2 months we will go away for a night to another city.

However, there is another (maybe big?) development... Our dirty talk has continued and I now have her permission to post (anonymous) sexy photos of her on the internet. She is (like me) very curious about the reactions she gets to her photos.

Anyone know a good forum or other site to show her photos? I think it's too confrontational and too fast to do that on a hotwife forum..

I look forward to your responses and will keep you better informed.

[2inUPMichigan]

I'm sorry that I haven't responded for a while, but unfortunately there were no developments to report. Our weekend away was canceled because I was ill. Maybe in 1 or 2 months we will go away for a night to another city.

However, there is another (maybe big?) development... Our dirty talk has continued and I now have her permission to post (anonymous) sexy photos of her on the internet. She is (like me) very curious about the reactions she gets to her photos.

Anyone know a good forum or other site to show her photos? I think it's too confrontational and too fast to do that on a hotwife forum..

I look forward to your responses and will keep you better informed.

The Hotties section can only be viewed by members that are signed into the site.
I'm curious why you would think posting pics here as opposed to a vanilla site would be too fast? This community is very supportive of hotwives and women who are exploring the option.

When posting on the net you have to be careful to remove meta data, hide her face, use a watermark (so those that download her pic do not post it elsewhere) and make sure there is nothing in the background to identify location.

Posting pictures here isn't the same as signing up for a dating site. And this is in no way a porn site either. It is up to her how she wants to present herself. Some women will show their face but many hide or disguise themselves for privacy.

No need for nude shots here (even if they beg you but if she is comfortable with that and gives permission for nude photos, many will be eager to give her glowing responses!

If she hasn't looked at the site herself yet reassure her thar there are hotwives that are active members here also. If she is interested in signing up for her own account to interact with the other women we would welcome her.

2inUP
VHW Admin
(verified hotwife)

[BallSpanking]

BTW,
Whatever pics you post on the web, here or elsewhere, make sure to wipe clean all the meta data before posting them, if you don't want your privacy invaded.

[jigsaw]

Thanks for your thoughts. I understand that you want to see her, but a site like this might be a step too far at this point. I'm just being careful right now. I am also open to private messages if anyone thinks they can help me further.

[BallSpanking]

Perhaps, if she is not ready to take on such a pro-active step, you can start her on smaller baby steps.
One enjoyable activity tends to be buying her sexy lingerie, garters, thigh-highs, CFMP's, etc.
If she is accepting of that, perhaps she would venture out of the bedroom in an unusually sexy outfit?
Start dressing and acting overtly sexier day-to-day, acknowledging lustful stares from other men with a wink and a smile.
Eventually she may feel bold enough to give out her number and begin texting, which soon leads to sexting, this seems to be a real accelerant in prospective HotWives.

[BullpenX]

Thanks for your thoughts. I understand that you want to see her, but a site like this might be a step too far at this point. I'm just being careful right now. I am also open to private messages if anyone thinks they can help me further.

I am open to do private messages to see if I can help out. However, Im not able to send you A message yet. Probably because im new here.