Conversation we had over text…

[Justaregularguy]

Wife - I’m a big girl you couldn’t convince me to do anything I didn’t want to do.

Me - Secret slutty side

Wife - Exactly that. I think after a drink I wouldn’t be opposed to trying it either.

Me - Well that’s a change of tune

Wife - I couldn’t do an arranged thing but the whole going and getting drunk thing would be easier to try

Me - Yeah I can see that, the problem with getting drunk is the regrets you might have the next day though

Wife - That’s true I suppose. You never know how you’ll feel until you’ve done it.



Wonder where we will venture next!

[Logan]

Sounds positive for sure! Keep us updated.

[mfm4bnc]

Savor that kind of interaction!

[bbarnsworth]

It sounds like she's not far off of wanting to give it a go.

Caution though; if you (or she) needs to get drunk to do something, it's likely a very good idea to not try it. A drink or two, sure. Beyond that starts to get dicey.

Plus, there's an allure of doing it without alcohol. With it, you can kind of brush it off as "the alcohol's making this possible". Without it, it's "OMG I can't believe I'm doing this and damn it feels good!"

[SilverStag]

If you two choose the get drunk and play model, remember you have to stay sober to watch out for her safety. Strangers present a potential for trouble, whereas if yo know someone, you can relax a bit.

[Justaregularguy]

Definitely don’t think this is something we would want to do drunk… maybe a little Dutch courage but that’s about it!

[PaNic]

Ah just that kinda will I/won’t I conversation is such a thrill for me! Probably as exciting as an actual event (not that I’ve got there yet)

Of course the concerns about her actually doing it drunk are valid, but you both sound sensible enough. Enjoy this time together, laugh with each other and good luck along the path…

[Wife4Guys]

The lady said "A drink"

That'a a long way from drunk.

[Justaregularguy]

The lady said "A drink"

That'a a long way from drunk.

That’s a very good point!

[Justaregularguy]

Just keeping this topic going from a further convo we had a couple of months ago…

Wife:

So l've been thinking...

You know how you like the idea of me having sexual conversations online with other people.. but I'm not keen on the idea of it just been straight to the point sexual. I want some human conversation prior so I feel human and not like a piece of meat?

Me:

I can understand that

Wife:

What if I joined a dating site. A low key not popular one. Use my real photos but change my name and everything else about me so if it's seen by anyone that knows us we can claim photos have been taken from my social media and a fake account has been made...

Me:

Hmmm, maybe. It's something to think about, what's made you think of this? Is it kind of because of the recent loneliness? Or is it something you would get a kick out of?

Wife:

A bit of both I think. I enjoyed the attention I recieved Thursday from males. Definitely got a kick out of it. And the kick out of walking away knowing he wanted me. So it may be something I enjoy it may be something I hate but wouldn't know unless I tried

Me:

I think anybody would get a kick from knowing somebody wanted them. Maybe something we look into, I'm sure there are people who do this type of thing.

Wife:

What would your ground rules be?

Me:

I'd want to know who you were talking to, I'd probably want to be able to see conversations

Wife:

You'd have login. I'd be happy for you to read anything but perhaps not speak about it as il get embarrassed.

Me:

Is it something you want to do for yourself or something you are saying you would do because you think it's what I want?

Wife:

It's not something l'd considered on a personal level however it's something you enjoy and I feel like this way we meet in the middle I can do it my way comfortably and we both may get enjoyment from it




….

It’s not something we’ve explored yet due to other circumstances but definitely a step forward for us and the future!

[HWHubbyHopeful]

This seems extremely promising!! Be careful of easy Face ID sites on pics! It can be easy to find her real name—sure you can say pics are lifted, but be careful.

[Justaregularguy]

This seems extremely promising!! Be careful of easy Face ID sites on pics! It can be easy to find her real name—sure you can say pics are lifted, but be careful.

Yeah we did have a discussion about that, we may proceed with something other than a dating site where we can hide her face more easy.

[zorro]

The lady said "A drink"

That'a a long way from drunk.

For some ladies, one drink is enough to be "drunk" or at least sexually disinhibited. It's called a cheap date.

[Justaregularguy]

The lady said "A drink"

That'a a long way from drunk.

For some ladies, one drink is enough to be "drunk" or at least sexually disinhibited. It's called a cheap date.

All good. Mine can handle her drink

[zorro]

The lady said "A drink"

That'a a long way from drunk.

For some ladies, one drink is enough to be "drunk" or at least sexually disinhibited. It's called a cheap date.

All good. Mine can handle her drink