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I've been in a relationship with a beautiful Asian girl who is now in her mid-30s for the past 8 years. She is very sweet and shy, and has had something of a sheltered upbringing in a Chinese family, and is somewhat naturally more conservative as a result. This kind of lifestyle is alien to her and she's at always been committed to a monagamous relationship. She's very pretty and a had a beautiful curvy body with an ass to die for, but our sex life is pretty vanilla and I am not the best in bed, which I know she recognizes.

We were friends when we first got together and I was dating another girl at the time - first few dates via Tinder kind of thing. I wanted to make it clear back then that I wasn't looking for anything serious and that I didn't want to hurt her, which I guess upon reflection gave some illusion of control. That sense of control with this shy, sweet and sexy Asian girl - who wouldn't harm a fly - quickly disappeared after the first couple of times we were intimate. I was the contrast to her - perhaps cocky and confident without realizing, until she started teasing me for the size of my penis. I was aware of some of her exes, who were shorter and slighter Asian guys. I am a very tall white guy, and the first white guy she had been with. That sense of control evaporated when she would grab my penis and ask 'what's this? why's it so small?' - my face would turn red and I would be lost for words, stuttering something out while she holds it with a big grin on her face. I would accuse her of joking but then she'd tell me that her exes were much bigger, usually in the sweetest way via emojis. This was such a headfuck for me at the time and we eventually fell in love together.

I've since been shy about this kink of mine and she never said anything again when we became serious - afraid of hurting my feelings or ego. She has commented on it being big several times but I know it's not true. On one drunk occasion many years ago, I shared my kink of her being with another man but she did not respond positively and couldn't understand it. On another couple of occasions I gently encouraged her to talk about dick size but she was too shy. Now finally on one occasion a couple of weeks ago, I asked her to tease me about it again...she was reluctant as she was jerking me and then finally said 'I've had bigger'. The sense of angst and insecurity about it was such a turn on...I was instantly getting harder....again...'I've had bigger...it's so cute'. We had the best sex in ages that night as she told me to push harder because she's had bigger.

It's just a start but I love that she feels more comfortable teasing me and sharing my kink. I'm hoping this is the start of exciting adventures further down the road!!

Your story is amazing. I'm eager to know what happens next.

Women respond very differently when dealing with their husbands compared to other men, especially conservative women.

VERY sexy!

I’m thinking that most women simply don’t get a cuckolds need to be loved and humiliated at the same time and what a cascade of emotions something as simple as saying “I’ve had bigger” triggers in us. How they trigger lust, submission and humiliation all at once.

Thank you for sharing. It is hot. I had the same, though not about size. Her ex was reportedly very long-lasting in bed. She did not say much but it is clear she had satisfying sex with him. It is really humiliating. But it also shows her in an even more desirable way. A sexy woman who had great lustful and maybe even slutty sex. You kind of imagine her satisfied face after that amazing sex. And at the same time, she trying not to say it is so caring and kind. Really leads to so much more appreciation towards her. And at the same time, the humiliating tone and her look is just so powerful and sexy. You really want to work hard to please such a woman.

this is exactly how it is. so hot.

cute and sexy beginning.

Thank you

Thanks for sharing.

Would love any more tips

i got her to say that 'i want bigger again' while we're having sex

It would be great if you gave us the details of that sexual encounter!

Quite similar situation for us. I am also a white guy, 6‘3 tall with Chinese wife.
She has told me on various occasions that her ex husband (Chinese) was really well endowed and much bigger than me. Now that she has started to have some further male encounters as part of our hotwifing, she has had some more cocks in her hands. With one guy, she gave a handjob and told me that he was also quite big. I asked her whether he was bigger than mine and she tried to avoid the question saying: „I don’t remember. You are also quite big when fully erected.“ In other words, that guy was bigger… which she reluctantly admitted later on.
Such a huge turn-on for me…

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Tue Jun 24, 2025 12:17 am

Quite similar situation for us. I am also a white guy, 6‘3 tall with Chinese wife.
She has told me on various occasions that her ex husband (Chinese) was really well endowed and much bigger than me. Now that she has started to have some further male encounters as part of our hotwifing, she has had some more cocks in her hands. With one guy, she gave a handjob and told me that he was also quite big. I asked her whether he was bigger than mine and she tried to avoid the question saying: „I don’t remember. You are also quite big when fully erected.“ In other words, that guy was bigger… which she reluctantly admitted later on.
Such a huge turn-on for me…

you're a very lucky boy. recently my sweet little lady admitted i'm in third place

it still continues. while she's been very shy to discuss this because she's worried it will hurt my ego/feelings, she has become more comfortable with it.

She's definitely made it clear that one of former gentlemen was significantly bigger than me, and i recently got her to admit it was her favourite. Any ideas on how i can help to drive this? bearing in mind she's quite shy with this. hopefully the start of our journey!

Maybe incorporate some type of toy? A sleeve or a dildo that is bigger than you. You could say something like, I know you've had bigger. I hope you don't mind, but I just wanted to see what it looked like and see if you really did like having something bigger.

This keeps it playful and you'll be able to see if it turns her on more or if she really is off-put by it.