First time posting.
Early in our relationship we did some light playing. Soft swap with a couple and a 3some with a woman. Not long after that she discouraged me from talking dirty and said she has no interest in playing with others.
My wife loves jewelry (especially diamonds). She never requests or pressures me to buy her any. She likes to look and will buy some herself (our money is separate).
Today, she sent me a photo of a diamond ring she loved. I asked if she bought it. She said "no just looking, costs too much". I replied "I'm willing to trade dirty things for diamonds". It was completely off the cuff and joking. She didn't reply for 30 mins (thought I made her mad, turns out she just distracted shopping. When she finally responded, she said "I am willing to do dirty thing for diamonds".
Since then we have been texting on and off about. She seems serious. I did not pressure her that "dirty things" = sex with other people but I did make it clear the value of the diamond would have to equal the level of kinky.
Just curious what some of the other "wannabes" think.
Thanks!
Gifts
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Re: Gifts
Welcome to the forum fun_dip.
Re: Gifts
Well my wife’s diamonds came after with no strings attached. Wife had unrestricted hall pass. She used it when out of town by herself at a HS reunion. Afraid to tell me for some reason for literally several years. When she finally did, I bought her a very expensive necklace as a reward.
Fast forward to present. Wife is exploring breast implants. She has also in the past talked about upgrading her wedding ring (not that it really needs it in my opinion but it’s all about competition with the other women she hangs out with). So she says she’s split between which she should spend the money on. I told her tonight: Get the boobs. Wait for the increased attention. Act on it. Get rewarded with a bigger diamond.
Fast forward to present. Wife is exploring breast implants. She has also in the past talked about upgrading her wedding ring (not that it really needs it in my opinion but it’s all about competition with the other women she hangs out with). So she says she’s split between which she should spend the money on. I told her tonight: Get the boobs. Wait for the increased attention. Act on it. Get rewarded with a bigger diamond.
