Our Hotwives

Curious how many of us wannabes actually this this will happen one day?

Personally I think for me/us there is probably around a 25% chance it will happen one day at the moment.

I selected the 26%-50% because my current girlfriend already gave me a taste by going on 10+ dates with various different men and going as far as foreplay and getting partly stripped down by one of the guys.

However on a past relationship I was beyond cucked by my ex. Lived it and loved it for 7 whole years of the lifestyle.

I said 11-25% but admit there's hope in that number

I voted 26-50. She’s just like two different people. The scared part is 1% and the horny part 99%.

I voted 26 to 50... i think theres a shot since she was a virgin when we met but a prude wild party girl if that makes sense? Extremely touchy and flirty with others but nothing more. Never had the chance to explore and after more than 20 years together we are only just beginning to crack into any kind of kink.

I went with 26-50%. She's stated multiple times if we find right guy, place and time, she would. We've gone to a swingers resort and have played in a play room alone. We also go to a local nude beach which she loves. She also listens with me to Strictly Anonymous podcast. If the stars align....she will

I chose 11-25% because we’ve not ruled out that it could happen in the future and I know she’s not adverse to it in the right circumstances.. we just haven’t decided what those circumstances are!

It would move the plot forward if you are somehow able to 'create' that opportune environment for your sexy wife, so she frequently finds herself in a position to flirt with sexy men, be chatted up, and give out her phone number to begin texting, sexting, and otherwise be in touch with potential sexy candidates.
I think that once they engage her in sexy conversation, it will make those possibilities very real to her, and will move this forward better than anything else you can do. She would be self motivated to consider these delicious adventures.

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Fri Jul 12, 2024 10:41 am

It would move the plot forward if you are somehow able to 'create' that opportune environment for your sexy wife, so she frequently finds herself in a position to flirt with sexy men, be chatted up, and give out her phone number to begin texting, sexting, and otherwise be in touch with potential sexy candidates.
I think that once they engage her in sexy conversation, it will make those possibilities very real to her, and will move this forward better than anything else you can do. She would be self motivated to consider these delicious adventures.

We’re looking to some dating apps to be honest, especially ones that focus on online interactions to start with.

I optimistically went with 26-50 since the role play and fantasy is hot and heavy. But the gap to anything real life is big. Maybe we’ll play when we retire.

I didn't vote, since I'm not a wannabe. But, I wanted to share this...

Before my wife and I met, I was involved in a poly triad (ended amicably). When my wife and I got together and shared stories of our past relationships, she was very, very rejectful of me having done this, saying I was helping the wife of the couple I was involved with break her wedding vows. I did nothing of the sort; the husband was a friend, and was completely onboard with everything. He was never in the room with me and his wife when we were playing, but he knew and encouraged it. So, my wife and I get married and I really had no intentions of ever having non-monogamy be part of our lives. She wasn't comfortable with it, and that's that. I was ok with that.

Fast forward about 6 years into our marriage, and one night while I was massaging her (she looooves massage) she says she could imagine two men massaging her at once. I was, to say the least, stunned and dumbfounded. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. That started a discussion that lasted many, many months...nearly a year. We finally got to a point where we felt we'd talked everything out, in, backwards, upside down, twirling in mid air while tap dancing on the head of a needle. So, we dipped our toes into the pool, and a few guys later my wife was having absolutely toe curling sex with another man while I watched and sometimes participated.

Moral of the story? You just never know. I would have bet a million bucks she would never consider non-monogamy, but here she was. I think one thing that helped her along was to allow her to investigate it as her fantasy, and to just open doors for her. I did a lot of research online during the talking phase, and that helped a lot. We deeply value our marriage, and the research I did online generally supported that being non-monogamous would very likely make our marriage stronger, in large part because there weren't any issues in our marriage. It's worked wonderfully for us, and it's been 16 years on now since we first became non-monogamous.

Been discussing it with my wife for years. Looks like it may actually happen in the next month. She said she is 95% sure she will fuck the bull she has been on a 3 dates with. I'll be sure to share pics if she goes through with it.

Last year when were actively role-playing the idea and her ex FWB reached out to her I thought there was a 30-40% chance.

I think if he had pursued her a bit more actively and she felt more comfortable with her weight it really could have happened.
Now with other things taking precedence it seems under 10% chance.
I voted 11-25% just be somewhat more hopeful.
As people have pointed out, with her knowing she has a hall pass with him and the fact they're in contact...it could change in an instant.