Conservative wife with hot intentions.

[Jefft]

Was able to post in the hotties section with same topic as this list. She is curious what everyone thinks.

[hope2explore]

she is definitely a hottie...

[Fearlesspain]

Was able to post in the hotties section with same topic as this list. She is curious what everyone thinks.

She looks amazing. Please thank her for being open to sharing! Her ass is absolutely amazing! You have a very hot wife on your hands. Best of luck on having another man in the next picture so that you have a hotwife on your hands.

I haven't seen an account from her and would be curious on her thoughts and feelings about everything. There is nothing more sexy in my opinion that seeing both sides of a journey between a couple.

[Jefft]

If I had to guess I would say it’s unlikely she will have an account on here. She’s pretty shy about the topic but knows about the forum. Some of the info from here has helped us get to the point we are at. I know what excites her about it and what concerns she has. I think we both have a pretty good idea of the type of situation we are looking for.

[CuriousHusband91941]

Would you mind sharing the vid that you both watched! Was it a professional one or was it homemade?

[Jefft]

Would you mind sharing the vid that you both watched! Was it a professional one or was it homemade?

I don’t recall titles. I’ve shown her lots of amateur clips though, things I’d like to see etc, we’ve rented movies too but I’m sorry the titles usually the least of my concern in the moment haha. Why do you ask though?

[Intosex]

If I had to guess I would say it’s unlikely she will have an account on here. She’s pretty shy about the topic but knows about the forum. Some of the info from here has helped us get to the point we are at. I know what excites her about it and what concerns she has. I think we both have a pretty good idea of the type of situation we are looking for.

Invite her to get verified so she can get in the ladies lounge and talk with the other hotwives without the men around. She might like to connect with other like minded ladies.

[Jefft]

Yea she doesn’t really want to. She knows about the forum, and thinks it’s great it’s helped push things along but she’s private about her desires. I have mentioned the ladies section and she is indifferent. I don’t really care for her to do so if she isn’t wanting to. I respect her want for privacy so it is what it’s likely to be. I would say it may change if we seal the deal. We are setting up a date with a person we have been in contact with some time. She’s already said if it gets to a second date she’s going to give a blowjob if he will videotape it (he has already confirmed he will). She said though if the first date goes well she wants to have the threesome preferably next, unless we can’t get away from family life for a time.

[Jefft]

So things are trending in the right direction. We have someone I have been in contact with that’s up for a date. We are looking at this upcoming Monday. He has some experience which I know for her is a plus. Also 9” and has sent pictures to support this notion. She has been very horny all week. Lucky me haha. We have really stepped up the role playing and today she was texting me about wanting to jump me tonight (we didn’t have sex last night as the heat had us both beat). We had a wild night but the one part that stood out was she said right off the bat, “we can try different positions but I have none in mind. But you could use the big toy on me and fuck me after what do you think?”…. Obviously I was on board. The weird thing with sperm competition theory is it makes weird sense, and even for her after we use a larger toy, once we start fucking again she contracts and has unbelievable orgasms. I dunno, but even after we talked about what we are looking at doing and was gauging her comfort level. She hit me with “we have had hours of discussion, it was something that started as maybe your fantasy but is now shared, and you are right when you say you only live once”. What’s interesting is she is very shy about admitting what excites her. Besides the obvious fun a woman can enjoy with a large guy. She had amazing dirty talk tonight, and I got to use my fav toy on her. She was so wet and thirsty. My wife in this state is my biggest turn on. Gonna leave it here for now.

[Jefft]

Date has been set, which is very exciting. She is excited but nervous. She has already said she has no intentions for anything to happen physically on initial meeting so I am just hopeful that it goes smoothly. She wants to pick out an outfit tonight and potentially send him some pics. Should be fun.

[bbarnsworth]

Woohoo! And so the adventure begins Please keep us updated! Really looking forward to hearing how this turns out!

[Jefft]

I fully intend to. Like many others, this has become kind of a journal for my own purposes. We have had some near miss scenarios but this feels like the suitable path for what we are looking for.

[Big Red]

Wondering if today went forward as planned?

[Tryn]

What did she pick out to wear on the date?

[Jefft]

There was a scheduling issue so they are going to meet up tonight. She’s going to be wearing a very revealing tight black top that shows off her amazing tits and a short skirt. She let me pick the panties so I went with a sexy red crotchless thong. She’s nervous but excited. Nothing will likely happen, but it’s a big step for us. I think of it goes well she is going to be the center of attention for a threesome sooner than later.

[Jefft]

Wondering if today went forward as planned?

They are meeting tonight due to scheduling issue.

[silky nylons]

Please take a picture of her before she goes.

[Jefft]

I did take pics of her before she left, but not sure she will want them shared. He got to see them though. It was a weird night, super intense as far as nerves but also really quiet night at the house with my kids. She was super nervous and was worried it maybe put the guy off. She left at about 5, and got there first. She text me and I told her to take a lap. She was texting about her nerves, so i told her your just meeting him nothing has to happen. I then told her if she didn’t know think he was there to find a quiet private table or booth and go and sit. She can tell me where it is and I’ll let him know. 5 minutes after six I can almost feel her nerves in her texts, so try to just keep her calm. Then I message her at about 6:13 saying I love you if you don’t mind just text when he gets there, and have fun.

Then radio silence… I resisted the urge to text again, but watching the clock makes it difficult. I just didn’t want to interrupt anything. Then after about 7 mins I knew the date had started. Clock watching again, and I was feeling it. Started to play a game to distract myself. 30 mins go by, and silence. After about 45 the imagination leaves reality haha. I’m nervous and excited, and also assuming it must be going at least ok. Then about 90 mins later I get a text saying we are finished. It went ok but we can talk more at home.

She gets home and everything’s pretty good. The kids were up so I knew I’d have to wait to talk to her. I head up and our youngest is awake again. I am almost asleep when she comes up. She shared the conversations they had but said she was nervous through the roof. She said she thought it may have made him uninterested. I asked what had he said. She said at the end he had fun but didn’t want to stay too long as he wanted to have more in the way of conversation next time they meet, and that the ball was in our court. She told him to talk to me and let him know.

She can be very self conscious and this type of thing heightens it. My biggest fear in experimenting is that she has a scenario that makes her feel bad about herself, when I want her to feel sexy. She was still discussing the hurdle of how it’s not cheating but kinda feels like it. I quickly joked “I mean, I setup the date, and picked the restaurant.” Laughing and she smiled, but also pointed out what we are doing is more in relation to having the trust to do it, and that if we didn’t have trust it wouldn’t be an option. It sounds like the guy will be suitable for what we are looking for as he was a gentleman, asked about what she liked but also made it clear he didn’t want to go any further if we were doing it to save our relationship. When she told me this i gave her a look and she smiled. This is something I have always put out there to her when we discuss risks with trying the lifestyle. That if we were not in a strong spot both emotionally and physically it would be a bad idea. I read many gripping accounts on here where it went really poorly for the couple involved. A lot of those scenarios maybe come from good intentions (trying to save a relationship, heighten a bad sex life etc), but usually a factor is the relationship was not in great shape when the bedroom expands. For the guy involved it shows he’s not just trying to get his dick off either, he’s given consideration (and had bad experience in the past).

I’ll stop here for now, but more to come.


We had really great sex. She may hav

[CuriousHusband91941]

Thank you for sharing. Very normal, balanced experience you just shared with us.

[Jefft]

So to follow up on the first date, she was very horny. She told him her favourite positions but forgot to really ask much about his preferences in the moment. It definitely think she’s down to go ahead with everything but she has made it clear she doesn’t know what that looks like. Thankfully I have a pretty good idea of what it could look like. I asked her is she wanted to fuck him? And she said yes, and I asked if she was to meet for a second date what would she like to accomplish with it both in conversation and breaking down physical barrier.

I messaged him to inform him that she had fun, wished she had asked more questions and that she wanted to see him again. He didn’t message back immediately so I thought maybe there is some validity to my wife’s concern. The entire time between sending the message to gauge interest, I can’t escape the fact that if he responds she likely going to be fucking him sooner than later.


He responded very low key. Said no worries and that he had fun and wanted to schedule something. She has said for her to do anything especially without me there he’d have to make the first move. That part won’t be difficult haha, but I like that she’s sharing how she feels so I can plan accordingly. She is a bit shy but clearly wants it and even said she wants him to eat her out next date. Hell yes! Waiting to hear back but I told my wife she should probably get some magnum condoms. She’s going to need them.

[silky nylons]

Mmmmm….things are looking up! How exciting!

[patw3268]

Congrats on the news of your wife going on a date and still being horny. It’s okay to be nervous. Probably wise to keep it slowly moving forward. And check in with her often.

[Jefft]

Congrats on the news of your wife going on a date and still being horny. It’s okay to be nervous. Probably wise to keep it slowly moving forward. And check in with her often.

Yea for sure, I am always asking her how she’s doing with it. I definitely have felt a shift in her approach though. We have reached a new level after the first date. We have a pretty sizeable toy that we only use here n there, but after the date we have used it on back to back nights. We had sex the other night and I was drinking and under performed you could say. She was so horny from talking naughty through text all day that I thought she wanted more stimulation. She asked me “can you try our toy from behind with me on all fours?”. I was speechless then “yes of course I can”. She’s never asked for the toy before it was always me asking if she wanted it, and she never took it from behind (something I have eagerly wanted to see) but has said repeatedly that’s a position she wants to try with a new partner so she can give me head while she is taking it. She was so horny she began to ride it and take it deeper than we had done before, not only that but her pussy left it glistening as she came multiple times. Watching her get deep stroked and her driving the action was amazing. It was so damn hot. Unfortunately the video I tried to take was shit. Cool to see her wanting to expand, and after she asked me “do you think I’d be ready for him?”… I was like “you were before tonight but after that I don’t think you have to worry about it hurting, just taking it slow at first. Your going to be so wet the first time with him I think you’ll be fine.”. We discussed our plan forward, she wants to go on a second date, and she has told me without provocation that she wants him to finger her or eat her out. She also said she wants to suck his dick (huge turn on for me but more important that she’s letting me know what she wants to do).I can’t wait to watch her blow him though I’ll get a video of it won’t be there for the first time. She said she didn’t want him pulling down on her head during it and didnt want him to cum in her mouth, so I asked if he could cum on her tits when he’s ready and she said yes. I told her I definitely want to see that and that we need to stash a towel in the car. She said she’d do it in the back seat of her car which made me so horny, and yesterday she sent me a picture from the grocery store of all the magnum condoms asking which type she should buy. I told her and she even mentioned it was exciting buying them knowing they aren’t for me.
Last night we were having sex and she had asked I have sex with her first then they toy, I had told her only if she wears the black lingerie with the slits on the side and rides my face first. She readily agreed as this is one of our favourite things to do. After we had sex, she whipped around onto all fours and pushed her ass up pussy well exposed ready, and wanting her bbc. She looked at me and said “turn the bathroom light on it will make for a better video”…. I was rock hard again, and quickly obliged. This was our first time using it back to back nights as it has made her tender before and the night before she even said she could feel it in her guts taking it so deep. She is super wet but I still use lube and she’s quickly found her rhythm on her toy as I hold it firm and record. I watched the video after and can see my cum leaking from her pussy while she’s taking the toy. She was more aggressive in taking it deeper and deeper and she came multiple times. Usually after one go she stops it but last night she was enjoying being plowed. I started thrusting and retracting 3/4 the length of it but as she came the second time I thrust it deep reaching unknown territory as her toes curled and lower legs kicked upward in ecstasy. I then proceeded to again slide inside her lubed up pussy and began fucking her in the spoon position from behind. I could feel her getting tight and then she moaned “fuck me ty oh fuck my Ty, fuck my pussy, fill my pussy with that big black dick”, this carried forth until I came while saying in her ear “tell me what you want baby”, her response “I want that big black cock filling my pussy with cum, while I squirt” and I exploded. It was amazing simply put.

In one of our conversations earlier in the night when I was checking in with where she was at and praising her sexuality (it’s been very different in a great way, more pronounced lately which I wanted for her). I asked her “is it more to the point where you feel like you NEED to try a really big cock or is it still more so just want to?” And she smiled and proudly stated, I definitely think I need it. I am so excited because it’s just a matter of time now not a matter of if. She’s told me the idea of being a hotwife has really grown on her and she likes when I call her a sexy little hot wife in bed, or when I mention how she wants a big fat cock in her married tight little pussy. We have gone into this open minded about it potentially being a ongoing thing, and Ty is in the same mindset, I asked her if she was excited to have a boyfriend, and she smiled and said yes, it will be fun.

We have emailed Ty recently and are just waiting to hear about availability before we make another date. Since the first date I think she has realized she maybe wanted this more than she initially thought and I am revelling in her sexuality shining through. I am excited to experience what comes next. She is too.

[Jefft]

One thing I forgot to mention was when we were done she was holding her big toy trying to gage how much she had taken, and I took pictures of her holding this massive dong, and it’s funny because I think she was surprised when I pushed her hand further down the shaft to show her how much of she engaged with. She was quite happy with the results (she is comfortable with being a size queen and I think gets off by taking more and more) and I told her she’s going to be an amazing queen of spades (half jokingly enjoying the mood), and she asked what that is. I explained and showed her some of the classic trademarks like temporary tattoos anklets and panties with different QoS references. She was like well how would anyone know? And I laughed saying “most people that know are in the lifestyle or have had some exposure to it that’s kinda the point”, and pointed out to her that it can help draw attention when out in the wild. She really liked one of the anklets so I may have to get it for her.

Am I still a wanna-be if she goes on the second date and gets her pussy licked and sucks his dick?

[SweetTension]

I'd say you would have graduated from that status Jeff