In early stages so far - need help
Posted: Thu Sep 05, 2024 3:10 pm
Such a great forum. My wife is 40 and I am 42.
She’s quite attractive and was sexually active before marriage.
I would like my wife to be a little intimate with my best mate. It turns me on. Not to the stage of wanting her having sex with him and not with strangers so maybe I am not a cuckold. I know there is a fine line here in terms of how far i can encourage her!
My best mate is single at the moment but has had some medium-term relationships but they do not seem to last – He is a fairly muscular good looking guy with a big thick penis ( compared with mine).
My wife and I are his best friends, and he often spends an evening with us. He and my wife ,with my encouragement, drink the most alcohol. We just play cards ,listen to music , talk and play pool . He’s a computer nerd and bit of a hard core religious freak.
I encourage my wife to expose her breasts and get moderately drunk when he is with us - I'm not sure if he realises she is flirting with him or being encouraged to flirt with him.
It has taken years for her to be prepared to show her cleavage (never nipples), but she’s still not comfortable about it sometimes.
She is sometimes happy to put her hand on his thigh and leave it there but not go any further - again I don’t think she is very comfortable doing this but does for me. Maybe the beer helps.
She told me he was looking at her breasts recently when we were playing pool when her buttons were undone.
I don't want her to do too much more, but I am really stimulated by the interaction and hope for it to go just a bit further.
It really makes our sex life so much more exciting.
It’s a big ask but how do you think can I encourage her to go just a bit further ?
Do you have suggestions how could I set up an intimate scenario?
Could I approach my mate and see if he could help out ?
She’s quite attractive and was sexually active before marriage.
I would like my wife to be a little intimate with my best mate. It turns me on. Not to the stage of wanting her having sex with him and not with strangers so maybe I am not a cuckold. I know there is a fine line here in terms of how far i can encourage her!
My best mate is single at the moment but has had some medium-term relationships but they do not seem to last – He is a fairly muscular good looking guy with a big thick penis ( compared with mine).
My wife and I are his best friends, and he often spends an evening with us. He and my wife ,with my encouragement, drink the most alcohol. We just play cards ,listen to music , talk and play pool . He’s a computer nerd and bit of a hard core religious freak.
I encourage my wife to expose her breasts and get moderately drunk when he is with us - I'm not sure if he realises she is flirting with him or being encouraged to flirt with him.
It has taken years for her to be prepared to show her cleavage (never nipples), but she’s still not comfortable about it sometimes.
She is sometimes happy to put her hand on his thigh and leave it there but not go any further - again I don’t think she is very comfortable doing this but does for me. Maybe the beer helps.
She told me he was looking at her breasts recently when we were playing pool when her buttons were undone.
I don't want her to do too much more, but I am really stimulated by the interaction and hope for it to go just a bit further.
It really makes our sex life so much more exciting.
It’s a big ask but how do you think can I encourage her to go just a bit further ?
Do you have suggestions how could I set up an intimate scenario?
Could I approach my mate and see if he could help out ?