Got two more play dates coming up in the next two weeks and in between those two we're headed to Cabo and we've agreed while we're there to try our hand at picking someone(s) up at random (vs using apps, etc.). Buckling up for a wild ride!!!
We're almost there!
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Hopefully I'll have time to capture the high points well at some point, been crazy and gonna continue to be, but our ride is gonna get even more fun
Got two more play dates coming up in the next two weeks and in between those two we're headed to Cabo and we've agreed while we're there to try our hand at picking someone(s) up at random (vs using apps, etc.). Buckling up for a wild ride!!!
Got two more play dates coming up in the next two weeks and in between those two we're headed to Cabo and we've agreed while we're there to try our hand at picking someone(s) up at random (vs using apps, etc.). Buckling up for a wild ride!!!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.
Re: We're almost there!
It's been a while since I've had some time to post an update! Got a long plane ride so I can avoid the spam filter that always stops me, and some spare time. Just gonna jot down some high points for the moment:
So last update was our night with Cee. After that, he ghosted us. We weren't shocked, he gave off fuckboi vibes and well....that's what he may have been. He was at a rough point in his life as well so he may have had some personal reasons, but either way, we had a fun time and moving on so quickly was a bit of a bummer, especially since he had a vasectomy, but no big deal.
We connected with Viktor on Feeld. He was the bull type with the very straightforward, dominant presenting profile. Our interaction with him has been the most intense things we've encountered, it didn't go smoothly, and we actually took a pause to step back from the LS after our encounter with him. I'll go into more detail in another post, but we scheduled a last minute playdate with Viktor and we crossed a boundary during it. Despite that and the resulting friction from it, the date itself was good, intense, but also uncomfortable. He gave my wife the pounding of a lifetime, which she enjoyed. He left her ass bruised from spanking, which she partially enjoyed. And he thought up and executed some deliciously naughty scenarios which ended with him cumming in her mouth, her giving me head with a mouthful of his cum, and then kissing me after she made me cum in her mouth, which we both really enjoyed.
We also met Lyle on Feeld. He's my wife's type, taller, dark, handsome, strong, and as we've learned through messaging with him, hung and experienced. We went on a date with him together which went great, and he went on a solo date with her which also went well. We had a little friction after their date because she didn't have much about the date to share. I am not worried about her hiding anything, but I communicated that she has to be able to communicate well/in detail about her experiences/our experiences. We had a scheduled date with him, but he had to cancel (which is how we ended up with a last minute date with Viktor). We've had an awesome time messaging with him, unfortunately for longer than we'd hoped. We had another date with him scheduled for tonight, but my wife's time of the month started early and we all decided to cancel. Who knows now when we'll be able to make it happen
. He also dangled out a female play friend he has that's bi that might be interested in playing with my wife and giving her her first experience with another woman and/or getting some swapping action going. We're really interested in Lyle and also really bummed the universe seems to be interfering haha.
We've messaged with a couple of couples on Feeld. Both husbands of both couples aren't my wife's type, but we're really interested in couples and in think she'd get past it for the foursome/swapping/first time with a woman experience. However, couples seem really hard to pin down. It makes sense, they're already happy and getting what they need, the rest is extra. So the stars really have to align because nobody is going out of their way. At least that's what it's seemed like. Some good convos, decent connection, but keeps fizzling cuz the effort to get four satisfied people to move forward seems a lot more than three.
Life has gotten busy and we've taken a break from finding new people and we both agreed that's been a bit of relief, as constantly being on the hunt is both fun but also takes a lot of energy. I think it's reinforced for us that we're hoping to find someone(s) steady that we can get comfortable with and see on a recurring basis. The idea of having friends in the LS like Jay and Tanya is also intriguing for the ability to talk about and have support from someone in the same space.
Our sex life had been on fire, but has cooled back to normal with the slowdown in outings. I don't think it's anything concerning, just the natural ebb and flow.
My wife has been looking into getting an IUD to help open up our calendar. We've been unwilling to have playdates around her fertile period, and with her cycle included, that leaves barely more than half the month available. She's really enjoying herself and wants to continue to, so having more opportunities has got her seriously thinking about getting back on some form of BC. She also really loves creampies, so that's the other half of the motivation.
Oh well. That's what comes to mind for now. Gonna nap before we land! Hopefully our near future has some more play. Keep being honest with your wives about your desires, not pushing them, and letting them know they're free to mentally explore their own desires and you want to hear about them!
So last update was our night with Cee. After that, he ghosted us. We weren't shocked, he gave off fuckboi vibes and well....that's what he may have been. He was at a rough point in his life as well so he may have had some personal reasons, but either way, we had a fun time and moving on so quickly was a bit of a bummer, especially since he had a vasectomy, but no big deal.
We connected with Viktor on Feeld. He was the bull type with the very straightforward, dominant presenting profile. Our interaction with him has been the most intense things we've encountered, it didn't go smoothly, and we actually took a pause to step back from the LS after our encounter with him. I'll go into more detail in another post, but we scheduled a last minute playdate with Viktor and we crossed a boundary during it. Despite that and the resulting friction from it, the date itself was good, intense, but also uncomfortable. He gave my wife the pounding of a lifetime, which she enjoyed. He left her ass bruised from spanking, which she partially enjoyed. And he thought up and executed some deliciously naughty scenarios which ended with him cumming in her mouth, her giving me head with a mouthful of his cum, and then kissing me after she made me cum in her mouth, which we both really enjoyed.
We also met Lyle on Feeld. He's my wife's type, taller, dark, handsome, strong, and as we've learned through messaging with him, hung and experienced. We went on a date with him together which went great, and he went on a solo date with her which also went well. We had a little friction after their date because she didn't have much about the date to share. I am not worried about her hiding anything, but I communicated that she has to be able to communicate well/in detail about her experiences/our experiences. We had a scheduled date with him, but he had to cancel (which is how we ended up with a last minute date with Viktor). We've had an awesome time messaging with him, unfortunately for longer than we'd hoped. We had another date with him scheduled for tonight, but my wife's time of the month started early and we all decided to cancel. Who knows now when we'll be able to make it happen
. He also dangled out a female play friend he has that's bi that might be interested in playing with my wife and giving her her first experience with another woman and/or getting some swapping action going. We're really interested in Lyle and also really bummed the universe seems to be interfering haha. We've messaged with a couple of couples on Feeld. Both husbands of both couples aren't my wife's type, but we're really interested in couples and in think she'd get past it for the foursome/swapping/first time with a woman experience. However, couples seem really hard to pin down. It makes sense, they're already happy and getting what they need, the rest is extra. So the stars really have to align because nobody is going out of their way. At least that's what it's seemed like. Some good convos, decent connection, but keeps fizzling cuz the effort to get four satisfied people to move forward seems a lot more than three.
Life has gotten busy and we've taken a break from finding new people and we both agreed that's been a bit of relief, as constantly being on the hunt is both fun but also takes a lot of energy. I think it's reinforced for us that we're hoping to find someone(s) steady that we can get comfortable with and see on a recurring basis. The idea of having friends in the LS like Jay and Tanya is also intriguing for the ability to talk about and have support from someone in the same space.
Our sex life had been on fire, but has cooled back to normal with the slowdown in outings. I don't think it's anything concerning, just the natural ebb and flow.
My wife has been looking into getting an IUD to help open up our calendar. We've been unwilling to have playdates around her fertile period, and with her cycle included, that leaves barely more than half the month available. She's really enjoying herself and wants to continue to, so having more opportunities has got her seriously thinking about getting back on some form of BC. She also really loves creampies, so that's the other half of the motivation.
Oh well. That's what comes to mind for now. Gonna nap before we land! Hopefully our near future has some more play. Keep being honest with your wives about your desires, not pushing them, and letting them know they're free to mentally explore their own desires and you want to hear about them!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.
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