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We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Sun Sep 22, 2024 1:20 pm

Five-six years ago I found interest in HW/cuck and Stag/Vixen relationships and about four years ago I told my wife about it.

At first she was hurt. Convinced that everything she was giving me wasn't enough. After enough reassurance that wasn't the case she was turned on by the thought, but uninterested in exploring further. After enough time being turned on we fantasized and role played and wrote stories together and talked about why it was appealing. And now in the last few months we've reached the point where she's actually, legitimately, seriously interested.

The challenge is doing something that has enough surprise and spontaneity to satisfy her want for excitement, but planning it well enough to meet our risk tolerance. For some of this year we were stuck in neutral, interested in doing something but overwhelmed by the idea of planning something. We've come to the agreement to accept some risk and just try something without overanalyzing it.

It's exciting to have reached this point. In the beginning I never thought it was an actual possibility, it was more of an intellectual conversation that I love and trust you enough that if you wanted to experience more I would not only be ok with it, I'm turned on by it. Then it became an exploration of what and why we were turned on by it individually and together. And now it's a what are we going to do about it?!?!

Initially she was turned off by the idea of a sex club or adult resort, but I recently explained my rationale that at a place like that, there's a clear interest and expectation and what makes it so hard in the real world, being attracted to someone, them being ok with the situation, and then finding a way to do something about it, with a club or resort, all of those barriers are broken and you can be open about whom you are and what you want much more easily. And she agreed that made sense. We've also talked about erotic massages, performing for someone, or meeting a couple/couples with experience to both learn from and maybe become involved with.

Anyways, sorry for the long post! It's been a long, fun, interesting journey that I was deliberate never to rush and I'm excited to see when the rubber hits the road if I enjoy seeing her with someone else's dick in her mouth (and/or elsewhere) as I think I will ๐Ÿ˜œ
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by bbarnsworth » Sun Sep 22, 2024 4:57 pm

Sounds like you are right on the doorstep of a brand new world!

I agree there are barriers to try to work through if you're not intentionally meeting people who are already into this lifestyle.

My wife is encountering this right now; there's a guy some years younger than her that she knows in a very vanilla setting. They talk frequently, he's good looking, no kids, single, seems to be a stand up guy. I've met him a few times too, and he and I click well to. I think he'd make a perfect boyfriend for my wife. But, transitioning from a vanilla friendship to the two of them having sex? Big, huge, steps. She's had boyfriends before. That's not the issue. It's trying to navigate the tricky vanilla ----> lifestyle waters with this.

I think your pace of doing this is perfect for you. It sounds like the two of you are really a team in approaching this, and have really developed it well! Bravo! I'd wish you luck, but I don't think you need it at this point :) Keep us posted!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Tue Oct 15, 2024 10:19 am

We're actually actually almost there now! We have two dates picked out within the next three weeks and a plan for the evening. We're going to give her an erotic four-hands massage. I've been using Feeld and Reddit to find help with the massage (meeting two guys this week). I've made it clear that we're just looking for a hands on (and in hehe) massage, but she's also made it clear to me that she wants some freedom to do more if she's so inclined. She has a VERY hard time stopping sexual activity without feeling dick and she's floated performing for our second set of hands and I don't know where else her mind has wandered (want to leave some surprise for myself). I've told her I think it'd be better if we didn't get involved beyond what we have planned (massage) for our first time, just to minimize exposure, chances for a negative experience, etc, and also to leave us wanting for more so that we can work on a second experience. But I also told her I'd probably be the last one to stop her if she wanted more. We have our boundaries and safe words and gestures and if she wants more I'm excited to see her express it.

Once this was all real, I had a solid week where I was as horny as I could possibly be. We fucked every day that week, a couple times twice. Things have normalized now, but I'm still very excited. I'm not the best conversationalist and best at meeting new people and definitely not the best talking about sex in person, so I am interested to see how these meetings go this week. Wish me luck!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Tue Oct 15, 2024 10:20 am

We're actually actually almost there now! We have two dates picked out within the next three weeks and a plan for the evening. We're going to give her an erotic four-hands massage. I've been using Feeld and Reddit to find help with the massage (meeting two guys this week). I've made it clear that we're just looking for a hands on (and in hehe) massage, but she's also made it clear to me that she wants some freedom to do more if she's so inclined. She has a VERY hard time stopping sexual activity without feeling dick and she's floated performing for our second set of hands and I don't know where else her mind has wandered (want to leave some surprise for myself). I've told her I think it'd be better if we didn't get involved beyond what we have planned (massage) for our first time, just to minimize exposure, chances for a negative experience, etc, and also to leave us wanting for more so that we can work on a second experience. But I also told her I'd probably be the last one to stop her if she wanted more. We have our boundaries and safe words and gestures and if she wants more I'm excited to see her express it.

Once this was all real, I had a solid week where I was as horny as I could possibly be. We fucked every day that week, a couple times twice. Things have normalized now, but I'm still very excited. I'm not the best conversationalist and best at meeting new people and definitely not the best talking about sex in person, so I am interested to see how these meetings go this week. Wish me luck!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Pufferfish » Tue Oct 15, 2024 7:15 pm

Very exciting times. I hope your adventure goes very well for you both.
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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by aztd » Wed Oct 16, 2024 6:56 am

citms2022 wrote: โ†‘
Tue Oct 15, 2024 10:20 am
We're actually actually almost there now! We have two dates picked out within the next three weeks and a plan for the evening. We're going to give her an erotic four-hands massage. I've been using Feeld and Reddit to find help with the massage (meeting two guys this week). I've made it clear that we're just looking for a hands on (and in hehe) massage, but she's also made it clear to me that she wants some freedom to do more if she's so inclined. She has a VERY hard time stopping sexual activity without feeling dick and she's floated performing for our second set of hands and I don't know where else her mind has wandered (want to leave some surprise for myself). I've told her I think it'd be better if we didn't get involved beyond what we have planned (massage) for our first time, just to minimize exposure, chances for a negative experience, etc, and also to leave us wanting for more so that we can work on a second experience. But I also told her I'd probably be the last one to stop her if she wanted more. We have our boundaries and safe words and gestures and if she wants more I'm excited to see her express it.

Once this was all real, I had a solid week where I was as horny as I could possibly be. We fucked every day that week, a couple times twice. Things have normalized now, but I'm still very excited. I'm not the best conversationalist and best at meeting new people and definitely not the best talking about sex in person, so I am interested to see how these meetings go this week. Wish me luck!
Good luck

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Sat Oct 19, 2024 7:39 am

Very exciting times indeed. I asked her to send me a naughty thought earlier this week and this is what she sent to me:

"I was daydreaming about post massage activity. It most involved you fucking me while I think about him. Him in the corner enjoying the view. You coming inside of me and him walking over and coming on me too. Then taking his leave from the mess he helped create"

Wow! Now I know that's not necessarily what she wants to happen, but it's also not NOT what she wants to happen haha.

Everything is all set up. I met with a guy who responded to a post of mine seeking someone to help us out. He was great, has tons of experience in the lifestyle, has been a first several times, has been a regular, very experienced and put me at ease right away. We're staying at a little resort near our house, going to all have some pool time and all get comfortable and then head back to the room for the fireworks. My wife is really excited/worked up. We're back to daily sex (which is unusual for us, we're a 3-4 times a week couple) and she can't get enough and can't stop talking about Wednesday (that's when it's scheduled for). Got a massage table and oils, just have to wait a few more long days!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by CuriousOne36 » Sun Oct 20, 2024 5:39 am

Looking forward to hearing how this works out for you both.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by hwlurker88 » Sun Oct 20, 2024 11:42 am

Any updates?!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Tue Oct 22, 2024 5:26 am

Trying not to obsess, but in the final stretch. Wife and I were apart on sun but we were messaging about Weds all day. Woke up in the AM and had a go at myself, had sex as soon as she got home, and again before bed. We're taking it easy these last couple days, but she did go meet him today (just left) so I'm a little worked up again. They spent two hrs together, needless to say she got very comfortable, is 100% in and excited. We've talked boundaries a bunch over the last week, we want to take it slow, so won't be any sex this go. We waffled back and forth about oral (we're both orally fixated, if you get my drift) but decided on no.

Here's some messages from Sunday! (Some left out or condensed for brevity)

Her: I think no sex at all first round is my thought or expectation obviously unless we both really feel inspired.
I have been thinking about oral sex in this new avenue and wonder your thoughts on its safety. You know I enjoy to give and receive oral but it does put us at risk... thoughts?

Me: Don't think it's inherently much safer for you as giver. I am obviously very turned on by the thought of you giving, but we should probably nix it for now as well. You receiving I'm not as sure about safety-wise. I think let's play it safe though and go none of the above. I'll have to settle for just you sucking my dick then ;)

Her: I think you'll be alright then

Me: Your naughty thought the other day mentioned his (he was anonymous at that point haha) cum. That off the table?

Her: I did say cum on me not in me ;)

Me: Yes you did. That a boundary? ;)

Her: No

Me: Of course it isn't you little cum slut ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ we both know if someone looks you in the eyes and lustily says they want to cum in your mouth you'll show them your tongue ๐Ÿ‘…๐Ÿ’ฆ

Her: oh do we?!

Me: You might not know it until you do it ๐Ÿ˜‰ But I know it. And I love you for it ๐Ÿ˜˜

Her: Such confidence...

Me: I haven't seen a denial....or any anger at being called such a vial name ๐Ÿ˜˜

Her: who said it was a vial name?

Me: Haha some might call it an insult, some might call it a compliment. It's all about perspective haha. When I call you that I mean it with the highest levels of love and respect.....and with the strictest of expectations that you'll get on your knees and open your slutty mouth when I tell you to ๐Ÿ˜ˆ. And I always melt when you give me that devilish grin once you get there and you're waiting so patiently (or not) for your reward ๐Ÿ˜. There's certain things (probably plenty) that women and men can never understand about each other's sexual experiences. There is no way as a woman you can understand the feeling of having someone on their knees (or wherever) in front of you who really, truly wants nothing more than to feel your cum splash on their tongue/face/chest/etc. It's absolutely intoxicating.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Thu Oct 24, 2024 9:40 am

Oh man! What an evening! What a start! We haven't had the time to sit down and talk about how it was for each of us specifically yet, but I know we both really enjoyed the experience!

The third we found, he was great. He is enamored with my wife (in a positive way), he was great company, and his hands were impressive! I'm no Literotica writer, but did want to recap the evening, if only for this to be my personal journal of sorts haha.

I left work and came home, eager to pack up the last few things and head to the resort. I managed to stay relatively focused throughout the day, knowing obsessing over the evening would only wear little me out and take away from the fun we had planned.

We got to the rest at 445, got checked in, unpacked and our date arrived as we were walking to the pool. We hung out at the pool for an hr and a half, mostly fun, benign, friendly conversation over a few drinks. He was not shy about taking looks at my wife (B) and he complimented her frequently. She's gorgeous, but in an every woman sort of way. Between her upbringing, us being together for as long as we have, and just who she is, she is not used to receiving compliments. I enjoy seeing her uncomfortable taking them, it's cute.

We went down to the resort and grabbed pizza to bring back to the room, ate and had another drink and conversed some more. After we finished eating B said she needed to shower and got up to leave the room. I had asked her a few days prior if she wanted to lead on the evening or if she wanted me to, and she asked me to. That was not surprising to me, she's quite submissive, but with a brat streak that might fool you into thinking she wants to be in charge, but what she really wants is for you to dominate her and enforce your desires over hers. So my plan started here, I told her to wait for me, and told her she wasn't going to be washing herself. I blindfolded her and she got naked in the shower and I started washing her. Then I left the shower to invite our date in with us. He happily obliged and soon we were both soaping up her body and before long she was cumming on our fingers. Probably the hottest part of the shower was after she came for us the first time he was in front of her and I was behind and she reached forward, hugged him, and began making out with him as I fingered her from behind. She came twice in the shower before we wrapped up. We dried her off and lead her to the massage table.

We started the massage pretty normal, for about ten mins we worked her whole back body, for another probably ten mins we teased her, rubbing the edges of her erogenous zones during massage of her legs and back and butt, and then before long our date couldn't hold out any longer and began fingering her again. The massage was probably 90 mins in total but is a bit of a blur. Some highlights: She came once on her stomach then we flipped her over and she came once on her back. She squirted for him three or four times on the massage table! I had managed to make her squirt once early in our relationship but not since (it's not a big fetish of mine, but it is hot). Here our date is, first night meeting her and she's literally soaking his arm as she cums on his fingers. It was incredibly hot. I was mildly jealous but moreso just appreciated the site. Part of the appeal of entering this lifestyle was to open our eyes to experiences and pleasures we had not/could not get with me. Nothing to do with inadequacy, just interest in more. And out of the gate we got it haha! He asked to go down on her and taste her and we held firm to not engaging in any kind of sex, so was proud of that. He was not shy about touching her with his dick though, he rested it on her as he massaged her, he slapped her breasts with it, even rubbed it across her forehead at one point. As far as I know at the moment she was ok with all of it. At the end of the massage she gave me head while he made her cum on his fingers one last time. My dick had a bit of performance anxiety at that point, but it didn't take anything away from the job she was doing (B gives amazing head). Finally she said she needed a break. We relaxed, talked some more, and had another drink. Then we headed to the bedroom!

To start in there he watched us. I made sure to pick watcher friendly positions so he didn't just have to look at my butt or my back. First had her on her back. Then flipped her over, standing bent over the bed. After a couple minutes I grabbed her hair and held her head in a position so that she had to look at him. I saw her eyes going between his cock (which he was rubbing) and his eyes (which she loves, he has hazel eyes, super unique). This was the decision that turned things up a notch. She must have invited him over with her eyes at some point because he walked to the bed. He kissed her and played with her butt. I turned her back over and he played with her breasts, including slapping them with his dick, rubbed her clit until she came for both of us, and stroked himself some more. I thought he might cum, and B later said she thought about asking him to cum in her mouth (little cumslut), but opted not to. I came eventually and rolled off, after which he made her squirt one last time before we called it an evening, they said their goodbyes (including a deep hug, kiss and final groping), we showered, and then went to bed.

I woke her up in the middle of the night and banged out two more of my own orgasms, making it three in three hours, which is definitely a record! Haha. I'm paying for it a little this morning, my balls are sore, but I'll take it! She also plans to fuck me again this evening, making four in 24 hrs, which is also a record. Who said you can't keep getting better in your 30s?!?

Anyways, wow! It didn't get as naughty as we fantasized about, which is 100% ok, but what an evening. Definitely a night we'll never forget and that's changed/grown our relationship substantially.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Sun Oct 27, 2024 1:16 am

We pillow talked on Friday about our Wednesday massage and more experience and it has been interesting. In sum, we both really enjoyed the experience. Some highlights, she lived being blindfolded in the shower (she has always loved sensory deprivation with sex), and that surprise made the shower her favorite interval. My favorite interval was her squirting for him with me in her mouth during the massage. She didn't necessarily love orgasms in close succession like she got, she prefers some rise and fall. Throughout the said "good girl" a lot, especially as her orgasms were building or had just passed, she was not a be fan of that. Additionally, he had very intense eyes and enjoyed eye contact, and she found the eye contact a bit uncomfortable.

But all in all, we both Really enjoyed the experience. Since he has been very open about his enjoyment and receptivity to feedback. We're both confident we could go all the way with him and I think that's what we'll do next.

We have a couple other guys in the hopper. One who is similarly interesting and easy to talk to as our first and who she is more attracted to than our first, and another who is bi and presents some interesting opportunities on that account.

Anyways, wish us continued strong communication and horniness! We're loving every minute at the moment!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by trecital » Sun Oct 27, 2024 1:28 am

Congrats. Sounds like you had a really fun time.

Does she want to try it again? Same sort of situation, or something different next time?

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Fri Nov 01, 2024 9:13 am

We're definitely on the track to our next experience. We've been steadfast that we're not in a rush, but we also both enjoyed the first experience greatly. Three nights ago I asked my wife if she had to have a second experience in under ten days or wait at least six months, which would she choose, and she choose under ten days without much hesitation. Two nights ago my wife got up in the middle of the night and was texting for two hrs with a guy we've been talking to on and off. They didn't get super spicy, but they took it up a notch from where conversation has been at and we're definitely ready to meet him.

Then last night we were having an enjoyable romp in the bed before going to sleep. I had been turning her head to the side while on top of her in missionary, imagining someone there to use her mouth while I made love to her. She asks me what I'm thinking about and I ask it back to her, knowing she has something on her mind, even though I'm sure she asked because she could sense my imagination was elsewhere. We bickered playfully about who was going to spill first and I ended up choking her while we fucked (something she very much enjoys) to "convince" her to spill hers first.

She said that she was thinking about it being someone else on top of her. How their body would feel, how a new dick would feel. Suffice to say I enjoyed her answer. She asked me again and I shared that I was thinking about making love to her while someone else uses her mouth. She remarked that I seem to think about that a lot lately, which I confirmed.

Then, I asked her if she was ready to feel someone else. She said I don't know. I agreed with her and said I don't think you could ever know if you're ready. So I asked her "are you ready to find out if you're ready?". She moaned at the question, gave it a little thought, and simply said yes, to which I moaned, gave it a little thought, and unloaded inside of her. The power of her words was not lost on her and she gave some audible indications of surprise and enjoyment at that response being the thing that took me over the edge.

Fun times await ๐Ÿ˜Š
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Fri Nov 08, 2024 7:36 am

Fun few days! No big updates, just continuing on down the path. Past few days she's sexted with each of the guys we're talking to. Once in the middle of the night while I lay next to her and last night she gave me head before I went to sleep early and she went to sext and masturbate with the other guy we're talking to. Couple nights ago while we were having sex I asked her if she meant what she said the other night that she was ready to feel someone else, and she confirmed.

We're tentatively planning for the end of the month, right after thanksgiving. Main obstacle is we want to figure out STI safety and then have to get whichever guy onboard with it. Luckily we have to chances, so if one isn't willing to help out, schedules don't line up, or whatever, we've got a second shot. Wish us luck!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Tryn » Fri Nov 08, 2024 12:08 pm

Glad things are still progressing for you guys!! Keep us posted and her shenanigans. Iโ€™d love to hear about what she does with the guys sheโ€™s messaging (FaceTime, pics, videos, toys, etc.??).

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by bbarnsworth » Fri Nov 08, 2024 6:04 pm

Great news! Sounds like you're just about to turn the corner!!!!! Woohoooo!!!!

Based on what you've said, I'm sure she'll love it and so will you!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Jefft » Sat Nov 09, 2024 1:14 am

Wow. What a trip youโ€™ve had, I think some things I can really relate to. The massage idea is pretty cool, but the restraint to not go past the agreed point is reassuring for both of you Iโ€™m sure. Good luck with whatever comes next.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Sat Nov 09, 2024 3:45 pm

Tryn wrote: โ†‘
Fri Nov 08, 2024 12:08 pm
Glad things are still progressing for you guys!! Keep us posted and her shenanigans. Iโ€™d love to hear about what she does with the guys sheโ€™s messaging (FaceTime, pics, videos, toys, etc.??).
On Sunday she was messaging on the dating app we've been using, Feeld. Sent him a few of the pics we took in our erotic photoshoot and convo got a little spicy, the two of them talking about how they like to fuck/be fucked.

On Thursday I had to go to bed early and she stayed up and sexted with the guy who joined us for the massage, just thru text. Sent him three pics of her in the act, requested dick pics, and they also talked about how they like to fuck/be fucked. That convo was extra spicy, pics were naughty.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Sat Nov 09, 2024 3:48 pm

Jefft wrote: โ†‘
Sat Nov 09, 2024 1:14 am
Wow. What a trip youโ€™ve had, I think some things I can really relate to. The massage idea is pretty cool, but the restraint to not go past the agreed point is reassuring for both of you Iโ€™m sure. Good luck with whatever comes next.
It was! He asked twice (he was GREAT about asking) to do things beyond the boundaries that we had set together and each time we checked in visually and confirmed no. I think we were definitely both really concerned with going to far/getting to intense on our first go and boundaries were important to us both. We're very sexual and I can see us having more trouble enforcing them in the future haha. But we were both reassured by that as well.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Sat Nov 09, 2024 3:49 pm

bbarnsworth wrote: โ†‘
Fri Nov 08, 2024 6:04 pm
Great news! Sounds like you're just about to turn the corner!!!!! Woohoooo!!!!

Based on what you've said, I'm sure she'll love it and so will you!
At this point she's leading the charge! She may be more excited than I am haha. I am also sure we're both going to enjoy it โ˜บ๏ธ
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by hwlurker88 » Wed Nov 13, 2024 4:44 am

Definitely excited for what's potentially coming!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Small » Wed Nov 13, 2024 1:00 pm

Great thread so far! I was wondering why it seems you're not considering a second run with the same guy? He seemed to behave very well and respectful so wouldn't he be an obvious candidate where perhaps you go a bit further?

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Mon Dec 02, 2024 2:13 pm

Been having trouble posting on the site, so posting this quite a bit after the fact:

We are. However, my wife prefers the new guy, let's call him C, that we've been chatting with. He's our age and shares a lot of interests and isn't quite as out there sexually (the guy we played with the first time frequents a local sex club).

It'd be my preference to have another experience with our first, call him A, but it's a mild preference so I'm letting my wife have her choice.

That said, C was unresponsive for a little while so we started making plans with A and then C popped back up. In the next three days they'll both know their schedules for the weekend and we'll see how things go. We're planning to play again on Sat or Sun. This time we're gonna go all the way. We've had lots of back and forth discussions about boundaries and safety. My wife was close to pulling back with feeling overwhelmed with how to be safe, but she came around and is now willing to accept some risk. Specifically, she is (we both are) gonna go forward with unprotected oral. We're both orally fixated and that's a big part of sex and these fantasies, so that's a big, fun step I'm looking forward to. Will update later this week once we have concrete plans ๐Ÿ™‚
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Mon Dec 02, 2024 2:59 pm

So I think I need to change my footer/signature/whatever the little quote is. No longer lurking and our journey has officially begun! This past weekend on Sat night we went out to downtown with A and then brought him back to our hotel room in th Gaslamp for a couple hrs of naughty fun!

So C ended up "possibly having a few hours" available on Saturday, but given how hot and cold he's been, when A said he was available I didn't renew my invite to C and told him no worries, we'll try again another time and setup our date with A.

On Friday after Thanksgiving I exchanged some messages about boundaries and desires with A. He's really easy to talk to, very consent positive and very open. On that front, he ended up messaging us on Saturday morning that his regular partner was being treated for a condition that's a common symptom of a couple STDs. He shared that with us freely when he didn't have to, told us what their involvement had been since his last test and a couple other pieces of info we requested. We both had a few moments of concern, but we had accepted there would be some risk and given how open with us he has been, our desire level was strong enough and we felt confident enough to thank him for his honesty and to let him know we still wanted to see him (needless to say he was thrilled).

So the fun part! We got drinks at a really cool speakeasy in downtown for an hr and a half before we walked back to the hotel. While we were out for drinks things got warmer and warmer, and towards the end we both had a hand on each of my wife's upper thighs and she was holding both of our wrists keeping those hands in place. I didn't find anybody catching glances of the situation, but it turned me on to be that public about it!

When we got back to the hotel it didn't take long at all to get things started. B (my wife) wanted to grab a shower before getting started and I asked her who she wanted to join and she picked me. I shared a quick rinse with some kisses and a little groping before switching and letting A have a turn. I snuck a couple glances and saw her handling him, him soaping her up (she had already been washed so it was just for the fun of it haha), but mostly let them have their time.

When they got out of the shower and we were all dry he laid down on the bed. B and I shared a kiss and I laid her down on her back. We each took turns going down on her until she came for each of us.

I had imagined us getting her warmed up, before going in on her, and that's how it went! She likes it rough and that's what she got! She got on all fours and took him in her mouth. I enjoyed the site before I entered her from behind. I started slow, letting her enjoy feeling both ends be occupied, but before too long I had taken her by the hair and pulled her off of him and was giving her a pounding. He cheered us both on, telling her to cum on my dick and encouraging me to keep fucking her, while he played with her and enjoyed the scene (he said he really enjoyed this). She came for me, and when she did, I stopped.

We tried another position I had seen in a threesome scene that looked hot, but it didn't work. We had all agreed I wasn't going to cum first, to avoid any negative effects of post nut clarity, so I moved on to let A have a turn. I sat in front of B while she was on all fours for him and we locked eyes as another man penetrated her for the first time since we started dating 16 years ago. She quickly had to close her eyes and clinch her fists as A began pounding her. I grabbed her shoulders and pushed her back into him and at a few occasions she reopened her eyes and tried to share a kiss with me while he was fucking her. Things came to a crescendo and ended for that sequence when he was going absolutely wild on her and the condom ended up coming off (or so I thought/understood. He was about to cum and the condom was coming off, so he pulled out and finished on the bed. We didn't fully understand that's what had happened until later when he was struggling a bit to stay hard haha).

After that, she took a moment to recover, then I whispered in her ear it was time for her to return the favor. A and I sat down, him on the edge of the bed and me in a chair next to the bed. She crawled off the bed and to me and took me in her mouth, and the next however long she took turns, going back and forth on her knees between us. It was awesome! It was one of both of our favorite moments of the night. As we were having sex the next morning she said that scenario made her feel powerful, and Ive never heard more perfect words! I almost came after she said that haha (that exchange was the next morning, sorry for confusing things haha). Each time she crawled back to me, before she put me in her mouth she would give me a kiss, and the first time I'm sure I tasted him on her breath.

After the second or third time she crawled back to me I told her to go finish him, and to ask him how he wanted to cum and to give it to him. As it turns out, he had just cum when they were having sex and was having some trouble keeping it up! Haha. Seeing it wasn't happening, I took her from behind again until I finished in her mouth. As always happens, it didn't all end up on target and a splash or two covered her left boob.

For the next 20-30 we talked, drank a little, fondled, licked and just relaxed before reloading. One moment that sticks out, he was licking her left boob. We have a 20-month old and aren't breast feeding, but she occasionally leaks a drop or two. He was sucking her boob and commented that he thought he got some breast milk cuz he got some flavor from her. That or he was tasting my cum on her boob! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Anyways! Round two was long and winding and kind of hard to keep track of! We spit roasted her a couple times, she had some solo time with me, she had some solo time with her. Probably the hottest moment was during her solo time they were fucking in missionary where he was upright as I kneeled over the bed and kissed her. We made out while he was fucking her and my tongue was in her mouth as he came (into the condom) in her pussy.

We relaxed for a while after that and he said good bye. Her and I had a passionate (but short) round three where I gave her my second load. We didn't talk much. There wasn't much to say. We looked into each other's eyes, the passion and desire and love and lust all captured in each other's gazes, and just humped until I came. After which we showered and went to sleep.

We've had some great convos since and the things she's said and the look in her eyes when she looks at me tells me she's FAR from done. We both really enjoyed it. We don't HAVE TO do more, but I know we both want to. The one experience she really wants is fuck-licking (someone inside of her while someone else licks her clit). So that's on the to do list! But it was a really great experience, not without a few minor hiccups which I haven't covered because they didn't take away from the experience.

Now for a few days basking in the bliss of the experience!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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