What to do?

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What to do?

Unread post by MisterSkinny » Thu Dec 05, 2024 9:44 pm

After dropping my wife off at the station for an out of town business trip early this morning, I came back home and started watching cuckold porn. After a while I decided to move into the bathroom and search for some lube or something, so I started going through my wife's makeup, looking for moisture, or something. Most of the items seemed kind of oily, so I went into a compartment under the sink to see if there was anything there, and that's when I found it. A small bag with a gift wrapped in Xmas wrapping with a tag to Bradley, with a big heart drawn next to it. My heart jamp and for a moment I felt shock, then I felt incredibly horny, but most of all curious. My wife is so conservative. I don't understand. I don't know what to think or what to do.

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Re: What to do?

Unread post by superb101 » Fri Dec 06, 2024 3:20 am

Who or what is Bradley?

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Re: What to do?

Unread post by trecital » Fri Dec 06, 2024 3:56 am

superb101 wrote:
Fri Dec 06, 2024 3:20 am
Who or what is Bradley?
Pet dog? Or cat?

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Re: What to do?

Unread post by superb101 » Fri Dec 06, 2024 5:53 am

trecital wrote:
Fri Dec 06, 2024 3:56 am
superb101 wrote:
Fri Dec 06, 2024 3:20 am
Who or what is Bradley?
Pet dog? Or cat?
LOL!!!!

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Re: What to do?

Unread post by VwatchesK92 » Fri Dec 06, 2024 4:59 pm

Skinny, we all need to know who this Bradley is! Help us out man!

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Re: What to do?

Unread post by zorro » Fri Dec 06, 2024 6:21 pm

Doesn't sound at all like hotwifing to me.

Maybe she can tell whatever is true.
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Re: What to do?

Unread post by Marksmall5 » Fri Dec 06, 2024 7:33 pm

I’d say have a closer look at what she might be doing, going, saying. Might have a “friend”. I’d just monitor things for now.

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Re: What to do?

Unread post by BBCfan » Mon Dec 09, 2024 4:58 am

Marksmall5 wrote:
Fri Dec 06, 2024 7:33 pm
I’d say have a closer look at what she might be doing, going, saying. Might have a “friend”. I’d just monitor things for now.
Did you see what the gift was?
I would be opening that for sure with an exacto knife and then retaping it.
The heart is kind of a give away that it's someone special.

Will you confront her about this?
Lying about something or hiding it wouldn't work for me but to each their own of course.
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Re: What to do?

Unread post by ursamajor69 » Thu Dec 12, 2024 3:47 am

I have always been on the side of openness when it comes to hotwifing. No point trying to surreptitiously opening and resealing the gift. 2 lies (her potentially hiding a lover and you spying on her) does not make a right.

Hard as it might seem, I think it is best to tackle this straight on. Tell her you found this and ask what it is - non-confrontationally. Tell her also that you really don't mind her sleeping with another guy, as long as she is not doing it dishonestly. In fact, you want her to.

This is how I approached it with my wife when I found she was sexting with another guy online. I laid it all out in the open, and it was the best 2 years of my life (even though she did not actually sleep with him). If after being honest with her she want to break it off with you, then perhaps it is for the best. Remember that cheating behind your back and dishonestly is not the same as hotwifing.

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