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We have eye on two guys ones a pub landlord who has pub band. The orther a sales manager guy i know via work but got no idea how to approach without coming across weird etc any genuine ideas?

I'm going to have to make some assumptions because you haven't stated what you want to approach them about exactly.

It's tricky. I could say the same for how would I approach a couple if I fancied the girlfriend and suspected he might be game.
Typically the least weird way is for your gf to flirt with them while you disappear and if they're interested she either tells them the situation or she pretends to be cheating on you.
It all depends on if you're just worried about them thinking you're weird or if you're worried they'll tell people you know.

I think it also depends what you want to ask them to do.

Are you expecting to sit beside the bed and have a lovely wank while he fucks her? Join in? Not every guy is going to be able to handle that. Even the ones who agree have been known to struggle when the rubber meets the ro... girlfriend (performance issues mainly). If that's what you want, it's going to be pretty hit-or-miss finding that out "in the wild". You'd have a much better chance of a successful first encounter if you went to swinging events/sites/apps.

OTOH if you want her to play solo, maybe it's a lot simpler. She flirts, you make yourself scarce, they get to know one another better, they go somewhere more comfortable. Whether or what she tells him about you is probably her judgement call in the moment.

Set up a social, friendly meets with these guys (separately of course) where your wife is present. She can flirt and check their interest.

Have you considered that your wife may not actually like the guy(s) when she meets them?

In case she feels it for the guy during drinks (or coffee) and she feels vibes coming from him.. you two need a plan for setting up a 2nd meet seamlessly..

In the 2nd meet you can make yourself scarce for extended periods due to "urgent" phone calls. She can perhaps easily step up the flirting in your absence and take things forward.

Usually the cheating wife angle is easier initially.

Thanks for advise so far guys. It's our dream for me to watch them have sex with her

So what's your plan now?

I would find it off for me to approach other guys. Farmgirl does that on her own, she knows what she likes. I, on the other hand, have learned I don't always get what she is attracted to in a guy. And, it is her attraction that matters, not mine .
She plays solo, picks her men, where they meet, and when.

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:55 am

I would find it off for me to approach other guys. Farmgirl does that on her own, she knows what she likes. I, on the other hand, have learned I don't always get what she is attracted to in a guy. And, it is her attraction that matters, not mine .
She plays solo, picks her men, where they meet, and when.

It's orther way round for us wants me to pick guy no say in it lol

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:55 am

I would find it off for me to approach other guys. Farmgirl does that on her own, she knows what she likes. I, on the other hand, have learned I don't always get what she is attracted to in a guy. And, it is her attraction that matters, not mine .
She plays solo, picks her men, where they meet, and when.

It's orther way round for us wants me to pick guy no say in it lol

Madcouple25uk wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 11, 2025 8:55 am

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:55 am

I would find it off for me to approach other guys. Farmgirl does that on her own, she knows what she likes. I, on the other hand, have learned I don't always get what she is attracted to in a guy. And, it is her attraction that matters, not mine .
She plays solo, picks her men, where they meet, and when.

It's orther way round for us wants me to pick guy no say in it lol

I can't help with that , but her way is the right way.