Lisa! Will she?

[Mumfred]

Don’t get discouraged. I personally think that for some women it might be difficult to process that they are excited about having sex with someone else. We have been so much brainwashed with how a relationship should be being catholic.

I have to say I am impressed at the use of the lower case catholic. You don't see that used often.

[user322]

Hello,
I just discovered this post, it's great!

I'm sure your girlfriend will cuckold you if you want her to

The fact that she's always taken the lead, that she's quite open sexually, and that now she sometimes thinks about other guys' cocks, everything is in place for her to take action.

The few reservations she might have sometimes are normal, you're exploring something completely new, and it's judged as "immoral" by society. It sometimes takes a while to let go...

I think that if you continue to communicate well, take your time through the different stages, and especially if you stay focused on your love for each other, then everything will go smoothly for you!

[MrMtl]

Don’t get discouraged. I personally think that for some women it might be difficult to process that they are excited about having sex with someone else. We have been so much brainwashed with how a relationship should be being catholic.

I have to say I am impressed at the use of the lower case catholic. You don't see that used often.

Sorry if I offend some people here. Not what I want believe me. What I meant and I know that many here understand is that the way our religion (catholic), mine, is that I remember not to long ago, our religion kind of control a lot on how relationships between a married couple should be. How we are supposed to behave etc. That’s why there’s a lot of women here wrote that they were kinda blocked to pursued this lifestyle or even just being excited sexually to another man.

That’s what I meant. That’s all

[Mumfred]

Don’t get discouraged. I personally think that for some women it might be difficult to process that they are excited about having sex with someone else. We have been so much brainwashed with how a relationship should be being catholic.

I have to say I am impressed at the use of the lower case catholic. You don't see that used often.

Sorry if I offend some people here. Not what I want believe me. What I meant and I know that many here understand is that the way our religion (catholic), mine, is that I remember not to long ago, our religion kind of control a lot on how relationships between a married couple should be. How we are supposed to behave etc. That’s why there’s a lot of women here wrote that they were kinda blocked to pursued this lifestyle or even just being excited sexually to another man.

That’s what I meant. That’s all

Hi MrMtl. I don't think you offended anyone.

I'm a bit of a word nerd. If you use the word catholic, with lower case ,it means all-encompassing or complete, it has nothing to do with the religion. I thought you were using it in that way because your sentence aligned perfectly to that meaning.

[sema]

It has been a while since my last post and this last post wasn't very hopeful if I would even come back. Lisa was very distant to the idea although she got horny about it. She made it clear to me it was a phanatsie and shouldn't turn into reality.

We settled into our normal routine, the sex was good and i even didn't think much of it. Of course when ever I did it gave me this very special thrill but I also realized it would not happen.

Until this weekend. Now there is again this silver line on the horizon of hope. I hope I'm not reading too much into this.

We were in our home village for a few days this last weekend. Lisa and I got a few days free and were visiting our families. We again ran into this former teacher of Lisa. This time he was alone and we were standing and talking only the three of us. Lisa hat a hugh crush on him while being in school. We did some small talk and this time, him being without his family, I noticed that he was flirting wtih Lisa and totally ignoring me. Lisa was again this insecure little girl version of herself. Maybe even more than the last time. Normally she is very confident and wellspoken, but not in this situation. Here was a little schoolgirl talking with her teacher whom she adore. It was very unconfortable for me to watch as she was giving herself to him, literally.

After we seperated Lisa was very quite and we didn't speak about the situation.
As we were driving home I gathered all my courage and said the words that I had thought about hundreds of times in the days before since the meeting with her teacher. I asked her what the situation meant and so on. Lisa denied everything and said I was imagining it all. What was bullshit. It was very obviously.

After a while she started stuttering and I realized she wanted to get something off her chest. She confessed that she had a big crush on him, what I already knew, and she can't do anything against the way he made her to act. Lisa was very ashamed of it. This evening we had sex and Lisa was very into it and enthusiastic. While we were having sex I boldly asked her if she is thinking of her former teacher and she just held her elbow above her eyes and came. I interpreted that as a yes.
I never noticed her coming so fast.

After our sex we still lay there in bed and talked what just happened. Lisa again was very ashamed about her reaction and said that she was sorry. I told her that everything is fine and there is no reason for any sorry.
I also asked her if she wanted to turn that into reality. Lisa had millions of reason why this wasn't a good idea. But every one of this reason was something of not wanting to. For example she said that she can't because he is married. Or that she can't do it because what if it will come out.
There was no reason because she is in a relationship with me and it was no reason that she doesn't want to. I also didn't get the impression that she didn't want it. On the contrary, I rather suspected that she didn't want to admit it to herself.
There was also the aspect, which Lisa brought into the conversation, that she doesn't know how it could happen, him in our home village, her in Vienna.
That all doesn't sound to me like a strict "no-way".

[RuleEmAll]

Thanks for the update, sounds like exiting times might be approaching!

[Small]

Very exciting update. Just like you said - the most interesting things about her reasoning for not doing it, was the reasons she did NOT give, which would be the ones you would expect from a faithful wife, i.e. she has no desire for other men, she could never be with another man, she loves you and only you, etc. It seems it was all about him and logistics. This tell us that she has the desire but is insecure how to process and deal with it.

[sema]

We've been at a birthday party yesterday. This poly threesome (I don't know how to call them) was there too and during the evening I saw Lisa spending some time with the girl of them. They were talking a lot and it was most of the time the two of them.

Later that evening Lisa was horny. I notice something like that when she is with me. She was very cuddly and secretly touched my ass and things like that. Coming home she was all over me and we had some hot half drunk sex.

After the sex we lay in bed and I asked her what was the reason for her behaviour and she told me about the conversation with the poly-girl who is with two guys. I can only remember various incoherent scraps of this conversation with Lisa (because of the alcohol) but we talked about her teacher, that we only had limited experience with others and so on. But we also talked that about our love and Lisa assured me several times her love for me.

What I can remember is that Lisa asked me if I think that we are missing something because we have no other sexual partners. If I ever wanted some other girl. I stuttered around and tried not to admit that I found other girls attractive and hot from time to time. I hope I was convincing. Lisa than said that she sometimes think about what it would be to be with someones else. How others tasted was also a topic for her.

I was rock hard at that moment and Lisa was with her butt in my lap. She definitely guessed my arousal.

Then the conversation turned and Lisa said that we should be happy to have us and such a stable relationship. She also said that she would never come over it if I would have sex with some other girl. At this time the conversation was about her being too jealous for swapping or sharing.
I was still hard and Lisa noticed and we started having sex again.

Today with a little more sober brain I wonder if she was testing me.

[Wantsomefunto]

Great story and progress! Try and reassure Lisa you have no interest in other girls. And tell her the thought of her getting to taste other guys cum really turns you on. Ask her if she has anyone in mind she might want to suck and taste his cum. Maybe someone at the gym could be on her mind or maybe the two guys her friend lives with. Make it all about her getting to try new experiences and tell her what she does is what would turn you on.

[Wantsomefunto]

Great story and progress! Try and reassure Lisa you have no interest in other girls. And tell her the thought of her getting to taste other guys cum really turns you on. Ask her if she has anyone in mind she might want to suck and taste his cum. Maybe someone at the gym could be on her mind or maybe the two guys her friend lives with. Make it all about her getting to try new experiences and tell her what she does is what would turn you on.

[sema]

From our last adeventure I had this believing that it wasn't over like I thought a few weeks ago. It surprised me what Lisa did next.

The evening before yesterday evening we were cuddling on the couch, watching some netflix, as Lisa pressed her ass in just leggings against my penis. Imagine a small tight ass in leggings pressing against your full balls. Of course, I reacted in a way that was obvious.
As Lisa felt that she had my full attention she started to ask me some questions. Questions about imaginary sex with others. It very quickly turned in that direction of Lisa having sex with others. Me still hard admitting that I can definitely get something out of it. At this point she slipped her leggings down her ass and my shorts already were gone and we had sex spooning. Lisa asked me if I am pretty sure that I would not have a problem with her having sex with someone else.
Again I said I was fine. Lisa was very wet and came the first time at this point.

She gentle withdraw my penis and undressed herself completely. I did the same and she started blowing me. Still dirty talking about her tasting others and exploring other men between sucking my penis. It was very hard for me not to come.
She finally gave me some relief and swallowed pleasurably every drop I could give her.

We cuddled afterwards and she asked me again, if I'm sure. It was different after cumming, I have to say. Was it at first in the heat of arousal, now it was different. But I didn't want to ruin the situation and knew exactly what I have to say.

Yesterday evening, as Lisa came home from work, she not even undressed her work cloth and joined me at the couch. I knew something was up, as she informed me that we need to talk.

It was more Lisa talking what happened the next minutes. Summarising, Lisa loves me and wants to be with me. But, she fears that she is missing something out. She could never share me, she is too jealous. But she thinks that I don`t mind her exploring something.

This came very surprising and I didn't expect it that way.

RIght now everything is too confusing for her but also for me. We spoke about it.
The confusion soon led to arousal and we had sex.

During sex it was the same as the day before. Lisa talked dirty about the topic and had me on the edge for a while. She was very aroused and came fast. While she had me on the edge, she said something I didn't realise the implications of this at first, it took me a while.
She informed me that is something she wants to explore, she loves me, and she would never leave me, but it is something for her.

We didn't speak much of it later and not today yet.

[Wantsomefunto]

Wow great post! Lisa seems ready and is just trying to gauge if you can handle it. Maybe she already did something and is just waiting for the right moment to tell you? If she hasn’t done anything yet seems like she knows someone she wants to do it with.

[playwifeplease]

This thread is really heating up fast, Lisa I think, is about to unleash her inner hotwife!

I agree with the previous comment, Lisa already has someone in her sights, or perhaps, already tasted that forbidden fruit?

Keep doing what you've been doing, encourage her to share her thoughts, remind her how much you love her and that you have no interest in other women, and of course, reassure her that you find the idea of her being sexual with another guy is both a turn on for you, and also something you want her to experience, since as she has already hinted "she feels like she may be missing out" and that curiosity needs to be satisfied so that it doesn't weigh her down going forward.

Good luck, and really looking forward to your next updates.

[Wantsomefunto]

Try and give her the opportunity to explore her sexual desires with others. Tell her she should go out for some drinks with someone.

[sema]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. It is interesting for me how others see the situation. It's all pretty new to me.

From this last evening I took it slowly. I didn't put any pressure on Lisa. Although I was very curious about her sentence.

Lisa made it clear what she meant in the meantime. One evening as I was coming home she waited for me in a well known setting. I notied that she again must have been masturbating and was still ver horny. She literally jumped me and brought me to bed, undressed me and started to suck on my penis. I love this way of being welcomed.

She had me on the edge and started talking dirty with me. She again made it clear it is her thing and she wants to explore some new things. By new things she meant penises and men. She used the plural form.
I came immediately. I couldn't hold it back any longer.

Lisa commented this with a grin and the announcement that I must like that. She didn't wait for an answer and disappeared into the bathroom straight away.

Later that evening, cuddling it was the aftermath of the cuckold conversation, the post nut clarity part of it. Lisa said she is loving me and I should not think bad of her but there is something inside of her that wants to explore others. She is fully aware of the unfairness to not let me explore something in this direction. She is too jealouse and would never, could never, let me do anything. But she hopes that I would let her. She will not leave me, she is not interested in any love stuff. It will only be sex.

I was hard again and could not deny anything. Lisa knows me well and even if I would have said anything against if or if I had demanded that I would also like to have these freedoms, she would have felt my erection. We had sex again and while Lisa rode me she started talking dirty by whispering in my ears asking me rhetorical questions about me letting her have fun with others.

After the scond round it was quiet between us and although I couldn't sleep for a while with all this thoughts in my head we didn't speak any longer.

That is the status right now.

I have the impression that I have given up the comanndo in this thing. I am not sure how to handle it. If I really want this to happen. If it is a good idea. If I will loose Lisa.

[Wantsomefunto]

Ask Lisa tonight how and whnlen could she make it happen that she has someone else?

[user322]

Hi!

If you want to maintain a little more control, you have to move forward and express yourself more! If you don't do this, you'll remain passive, and you'll only be able to accept what's happening, whether you like it or not.

Tell Lisa that you agree with all this but that you don't want to lose her. You can also share your fears with her, and that you're afraid of losing her with these experiences.
Communication is essential, especially when there are doubts. This allows you to be on the same wavelength, calm fears, experience things more peacefully, and therefore ensure that things flow smoothly... there are only advantages to communicating.

Then, you have to trust your partner and let go. Life is full of unknowns, we never really know where we are going and how things will end, we must know how to accept this characteristic of life to enjoy the journey.

[aztd]

Nice, soon