Our Hotwives

My wife and I have been married for going on 18 years. We have been living together for 20. She is in her early forties and every bit the absolute Fox she was in her twenties. She is sexy, and classy, and a bit traditional and I love her with all of me. And, of course, because why else would I be here, I very much want her to be a hot wife.

For all of our 20 years together I have always loved the way men look at her, the way that her male friends from back in the day will tell me how she was the girl that everyone wanted, and how eager some of them still are after talking to them to have one more shot. I love how strangers watch her ass as she walks away. I always have. I suppose it was three or four years into our marriage when I realize that not only did I enjoy all the attention she gets, but I truly did want to see it go to the next level. That I truly did love the thought of her fucking and being fucked while I watch, or coming home after a night out and showing me the messy left in her panties. For a long time I kept these thoughts to myself. Probably too long. During that time I did a lot of investigating through good places and maybe not so good places. I got some great information and some terrible misinformation. But after all these years I finally understand the lay of the land and got up the courage to tell her my feelings and desires. That was about 3 years ago.

She's a traditional good girl type and so I anguish a long time before companies thoughts to her. She's always been very adventurous in bed with me but always exclusive. She's allowed me to take pictures of her, even allowed me to post a few of them. She enjoyed reading some of the feedback but said that mostly because I did. When I finally told her of my fantasy/desire to see her being sexual with another man I braced myself for anything. She responded with Incredible Grace and love. As she struggled to understand she never put me down but she did Express that while the idea is something that she finds intriguing, she would never truly make it a reality.

We have talked about it sparsely for the last 3 years, I write her a lot of erotica that we read together as foreplay. Almost all of it has to do with her being in some sexual scenario with another man with me either watching, or facilitating. The one that got her the hottest was a sensual massage and then she stunned me by saying that would be something that she might actually do one day.

Long story short, while she stands by not wanting to do it, she throws me bones about being very interested in it. My stories get her wet to the point of gushing. She is a gushing type of squirter which we just found out 3 years ago as well, and she asked me to tell her stories often. I think the only thing holding her back is her refusal to abandon social mores and what is normal. Fucking another man would be cheating, right? And she would be bad for Desiring it right? So I try to stay patient, try not to be too pushy or eager and let the same time keeping the conversation floating around. And I allow myself to believe it's possible while accepting the possibility that it may never happen.
And that is where things are with us. I am 47 years old and I am married to a very beautiful woman and my greatest aphrodisiac is her pleasure and sexuality. I would love to be the proud husband of a strong liberated and sexually free hot wife. She knows this, and the idea is arousing but she fears and hesitate. I would love to hear some similar stories with a happy ending. Just to get a guy through the day

I had a girlfriend many years back who was similar to your wife. Generally a good girl but would respond physically when it was talked about during sex. She said she couldn't do it though because it would be "cheating".

As it happened, when she was with her ex just before dating me, he had bought her an expensive concert ticket to go with him for a concert like 10 months later. They broke up but he still had the tickets and when it got closer to the time he hadn't found anyone to go and didn't want to waste the ticket. Not being the jealous type and wanting to see if she'd still be the faithful good girl, I told her to go. She said she'd be faithful and went.

Of course there was some drinking and after the concert he drove her home, walked her to the door. He kissed her, she told him she couldn't do that because she had a boyfriend. He went right for her neck which made her weak. It happened the only way someone like her would let it happen. She had the sexual desire but the mental good girl held it back... probably like your wife. Soon, her resistance got less and less, her dress was hiked up, her panties pulled off. She offered one last "I can't do this" with her legs spread and his hard cock at her entrance. Of course he didn't listen and fucked her. She came within seconds the first time and again when he came inside her.

She felt guilty, but after seeing my reaction when she told me she got over that quickly.

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Wed Apr 30, 2025 8:00 am

I had a girlfriend many years back who was similar to your wife. Generally a good girl but would respond physically when it was talked about during sex. She said she couldn't do it though because it would be "cheating".

As it happened, when she was with her ex just before dating me, he had bought her an expensive concert ticket to go with him for a concert like 10 months later. They broke up but he still had the tickets and when it got closer to the time he hadn't found anyone to go and didn't want to waste the ticket. Not being the jealous type and wanting to see if she'd still be the faithful good girl, I told her to go. She said she'd be faithful and went.

Of course there was some drinking and after the concert he drove her home, walked her to the door. He kissed her, she told him she couldn't do that because she had a boyfriend. He went right for her neck which made her weak. It happened the only way someone like her would let it happen. She had the sexual desire but the mental good girl held it back... probably like your wife. Soon, her resistance got less and less, her dress was hiked up, her panties pulled off. She offered one last "I can't do this" with her legs spread and his hard cock at her entrance. Of course he didn't listen and fucked her. She came within seconds the first time and again when he came inside her.

She felt guilty, but after seeing my reaction when she told me she got over that quickly.

That is exhilarating to read my friend. But very much does sound like my wife. I know that if she were in a position like that, that one kiss would inevitably be enough.
We have been together for a long time so she's pretty far removed from any residual feelings with any exes, there is a circumstance that I feel would be very similar. She has commented to me more than once how hot she has found the idea of having a nude erotic massage while I watch. I planted the idea with a little erotic story I wrote about her. In which that was just what happened. She lay on the massage table, the towel covering her just like a professional style massage. I sat in a chair nearby while her masseuse starts off by giving her a very innocent and possessional seeming massage, she of course relaxes, he of course pushes the boundaries a little and she responds in kind. I wrote it exactly how I thought it would go down and she very much enjoyed it and has said that might be something she's willing to try. I know in my bones if she is lying there on the table, and he is rubbing her inner thighs. And his erection through his loose linen pants brushes against her hand, she's going to touch him. Then he's going to direct his attention on her ass, breasts and pussy. It is very conceivable at that point she would let it go she will relaxed and turned on enough and felt comforted and encouraged by my reaction by her side. It is not at all out of the realm of possibility that it could go from a massage to him mounting my life right there on the massage table after giving her a juicy orgasm

My current wife is the same. In general she is not interested but reacts positively when it's talked about.

They key for me with that girlfriend, and now both of us with our wives is to learn what situation they need to be in that will increase their odds of being seduced. I think you're into something with the massage scenario for your wife.

There is definitely a food scenarios that I think are higher likelihood of her giving into a little seduction than others. The massage is definitely one though that is certainly her having to take a pretty large step to start with. I do wish that there was more dance clubs around where we live. Someplace where I could just take her to do some hip shaking and let a guy or two come up and grind with her a bit. She's always really good at telling me when guys hit on her whenever she's out and about because she knows it excites me. Perhaps she would be willing to dance because she loves it and let a guy or two rub up against her. Maybe get a little hot and happy. Maybe she would be more open to something like that

Wanted to also let it be known here that she has agreed to let me post some pics in Hotties for fun. They are under the heading my wife needs some convincing that she should be shared

I'm following both your threads.

Your wife is PERFECT. I'm so happy for you and the progress you're both making.

If your wife is gushing when thinking about the massage scenario, I believe that she is 50% of the way there. The remaining 50% is social conditioning. This requires a lot of patience with the understanding that this cannot and should never be forced, which it sounds as though you would obviously never do.

My wife and I took 25 years to get there, and it was a medical condition and then health scare that slowed her sex drive and then unleashed it when she had a scare and the underlying medical condition was treated.
We are now just waiting for timings to sync between us and a guy she has been chatting with online. The switch was over about a month, of slight nudges, chats, role play and conversations. We both felt the shift happen and we both went with it. I had honestly given up on anything happening. Ever.
Like your wife, bones were thrown, I caught them and then put them away again!
Go slowly, go carefully, keep the roleplay going, be as realistic as you can with it, keep talking, and most importantly discuss the cheating aspect. My wife felt as though it was infidelity and it took many, many conversations to explain that if it was with my permission, how could it be infidelity? What I missed the mark on for many years was that she could understand it on an intellectual level, but it didn’t sink into the emotional level. She just ‘felt’ it was wrong. In part this may be due also to the feeling that if I was letting her do this, did I love her enough? And was this a gate way to me asking to involve another woman? This has never been my intention, and from what I have read over the years, a lot of guys feel the same way.

Keep at it, slowly and carefully and try and put yourself in her shoes to best understand what she might be feeling and you may well have the awakening that my wife and I have had after 25 years. I’m 59 this year and she is 55. We are now having sex daily in the lead up to our first meet!