Getting close?

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Can't wait for the post drinks update!

Me too!

[Fearlesspain]

Can't wait for the post drinks update!

Me too!

In the meantime, how are the conversations going? Are you both excited? Has she picked out her outfit? Is she really nervous? How are you doing with everything? Does it feel real or like a dream?

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Can't wait for the post drinks update!

Me too!

In the meantime, how are the conversations going? Are you both excited? Has she picked out her outfit? Is she really nervous? How are you doing with everything? Does it feel real or like a dream?

We are meeting our friend, “D” tomorrow for a drink (even though my wife does not actually drink). We are both excited to see him tomorrow, and we know he is excited as well. We have stayed in daily email contact with him.

Earlier today, my wife wanted to send him some very nice pictures of herself (G-rated). My wife is a truly beautiful and very photogenic person, so her pictures were very enthusiastically received by “D.” We expect to have a very nice time tomorrow, but our meeting will only be for about one hour since we have a dinner commitment with other friends. I don’t yet know what my wife will wear, but I am sure it will be something nice and suitable for our later dinner meeting.

That said, we are scheduled to see “D” again one week from today for dinner and presumably an after dinner get-together at his place. It is entirely possible that my wife will earn her hotwife wings that night. She and I have been talking about the next time we go to “D’s” place and I have told her that he and I have been talking about how much we want to take turns fucking her as she sucks our cocks. She is not objecting to that, so I would like to imagine that she is getting herself ready to do exactly that next week - but time will tell! I am prepared for the possibility that she may not actually be ready to do that when the time comes, and I will certainly support her decision. The most important thing is for her to know that I will protect and support her. If she eventually decides to try a mfm, it needs to be something she genuinely wants to do. One thing is certain, though. She is completely comfortable with “D” and he has been very respectful of her and us at every step of the way. If we could select anyone to be my wife’s first for an mfm, I think he is the ideal choice. I will keep posting updates here as they happen!

[Fearlesspain]

I can't wait!!!

[Pecannut]

Isn't it hot that D has seen her X-rated pics? I bet it is and all the waiting to see if more will happen...

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Isn't it hot that D has seen her X-rated pics? I bet it is and all the waiting to see if more will happen...

Actually, “D” has only seen her G-rated pictures and has now met her three times in person. This afternoon will be our fourth meeting with him. Last night, we had great sex. My wife wanted to watch a video featuring an Asian woman having sex with two white men. As she masturbated with her Magic Wand (it truly is magic!), I slid a large black dildo in and out of her and she sucked on my cock. I told her repeatedly during that time that she was going to experience two cocks like that next week and that “D” and I want to fill her pussy and her mouth - and maybe even her ass - with our sperm. That got her very excited and right before she had a powerful orgasm she pulled her mouth off of my cock and said, “I want that. I want that!” After she orgasmed, I put her on her hands and knees and fucked her doggy style, asking her again if that is what she wanted and she said again, “Yes, I want that!” So, perhaps she will actually follow through when we meet “D” again next week at his place!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

We had a very nice meeting with “D” this afternoon. Traffic delayed our arrival to the restaurant, but we still had a chance to spend an hour with him, and I think it was time well spent. My wife is clearly very comfortable with him. The three of us talk like old “vanilla” friends. No portion of the conversation was awkward or forced. I had to briefly use the restroom about half way through out meeting. “D” wrote to me later and said that while I was gone he had a chance to talk with my wife with the assistance of Google Translate (her English is getting better, but still…) and he wanted to make sure that she felt comfortable with the idea of her knowing that we both want to have sex with her at the same time and she apparently said she did understand that and she was comfortable with it! So, that was quite significant that she acknowledged it to him for the first time. When I returned, we turned to the timing of our next meeting in a few days and I said (without knowing of their prior conversation) that I hoped my wife understood that “D” and I both want to have sex with her at the same time and she seemed totally unfazed by that. At this moment, it seems like she is totally onboard with a threesome, but then again she is a woman and, in my experience, minds can change! I will update our progress here, but things are moving in an exciting direction!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

As I mentioned in my last post, minds can change. Has my wife changed her mind? Right before we went to sleep last night she surprisingly told me that as much as she likes “D,” feels comfortable with him and values our budding friendship, she doesn’t think she can have sex with anyone but me. I told her that I understand, that “D” will also understand, and that whether or not we have a threesome is completely up to her. So, has she really changed her mind, or is she once again having the same reservations she has expressed previously, only to have those reservations seemingly cast aside hours later? I have no idea, but it is an exciting ride nonetheless! We will see how strong those reservations are when we see “D” again this coming Wednesday or Thursday (not sure which day yet). Please stand by….

[airhorn]

Isn't it hot that D has seen her X-rated pics? I bet it is and all the waiting to see if more will happen...

Actually, “D” has only seen her G-rated pictures and has now met her three times in person. This afternoon will be our fourth meeting with him. Last night, we had great sex. My wife wanted to watch a video featuring an Asian woman having sex with two white men. As she masturbated with her Magic Wand (it truly is magic!), I slid a large black dildo in and out of her and she sucked on my cock. I told her repeatedly during that time that she was going to experience two cocks like that next week and that “D” and I want to fill her pussy and her mouth - and maybe even her ass - with our sperm. That got her very excited and right before she had a powerful orgasm she pulled her mouth off of my cock and said, “I want that. I want that!” After she orgasmed, I put her on her hands and knees and fucked her doggy style, asking her again if that is what she wanted and she said again, “Yes, I want that!” So, perhaps she will actually follow through when we meet “D” again next week at his place!

Has she done anal before? Or would this be a first time? Did this seem like a heat of the moment thing?

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Isn't it hot that D has seen her X-rated pics? I bet it is and all the waiting to see if more will happen...

Actually, “D” has only seen her G-rated pictures and has now met her three times in person. This afternoon will be our fourth meeting with him. Last night, we had great sex. My wife wanted to watch a video featuring an Asian woman having sex with two white men. As she masturbated with her Magic Wand (it truly is magic!), I slid a large black dildo in and out of her and she sucked on my cock. I told her repeatedly during that time that she was going to experience two cocks like that next week and that “D” and I want to fill her pussy and her mouth - and maybe even her ass - with our sperm. That got her very excited and right before she had a powerful orgasm she pulled her mouth off of my cock and said, “I want that. I want that!” After she orgasmed, I put her on her hands and knees and fucked her doggy style, asking her again if that is what she wanted and she said again, “Yes, I want that!” So, perhaps she will actually follow through when we meet “D” again next week at his place!

Has she done anal before? Or would this be a first time? Did this seem like a heat of the moment thing?

We have only attempted anal once, and not with much success since she was nervous about it. But she gets very excited seeing women in the videos we watch doing it, so I think she will eventually try it.

I should also provide a further update. This afternoon, my wife made a few videos of a delicious Asian meal she made and asked me to send them to “D,” so she clearly wants to remain in the front of his mind.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

We ended up inviting “D” over to our house tonight so that my wife could cook for him (something she loves to do for others). She was very excited about having him over, which was a little surprising since the day before she announced that her Thai culture prohibited her from having sex with anyone other than her husband. Therefore, I would have expected her to feel a need for more distance from “D,” as opposed to the other way around. Nonetheless, it is apparent that she has developed feelings for him. As a result, and after giving this some more thought, I decided to talk with her about the possibility of an exclusive polyamorous relationship with “D.” I know that my wife cares for him and genuinely enjoys seeing him, and I also know that she gets very turned on when we fantasize about making him part of a threesome. And, she has made it clear that having casual sex is nothing of interest to her. In light of all that, and since I also like “D” great deal, perhaps a polyamorous relationship might work. Therefore, when my wife and I were running errands today, getting ready for dinner tonight, I raised the issue. In short summary, I explained that I respect her cultural upbringing and her desire to remain faithful to me. I also said that I realized she was developing feelings for me”D,” and that I was fine with that. I also said that I know she does not like the idea of casual sex, so I asked what she thought about the idea of having an exclusive polyamorous relationship with “D,” assuming he would want that also. My wife quickly rejected that idea, saying that while she could see being with “D” if I wasn’t in her life, she could not have sex with him for the reasons she previously described. I told her that I understood and that I loved her. We got home shortly after and busied ourselves getting ready for dinner and our guest. We all had a very nice time together, and I could tell that my wife was very happy to be with both of us. Does that mean she will change her mind and want to get into a mfm with us? I have no idea, but it is exciting to think what might develop.

[bbarnsworth]

Oof. This is almost excruciating to watch

I can respect your wife's desires to hold to her culture. I also think "D" has the patience of a saint. I don't mean to be critical at all, but I can't imagine "D" staying in this for a lot longer. This may be interpreted by him as all one big tease.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Oof. This is almost excruciating to watch

I can respect your wife's desires to hold to her culture. I also think "D" has the patience of a saint. I don't mean to be critical at all, but I can't imagine "D" staying in this for a lot longer. This may be interpreted by him as all one big tease.

I understand what you mean, bbarnsworth. I have to fly out of town tomorrow for a couple of days. Our friend wrote to me this morning and said he really wanted to touch my wife as she sat between us last night after dinner, but he did not want to potentially upset her. I mentioned that to my wife and she assured me that she would have been fine had he held her hand or rubbed her shoulders. That was an interesting revelation, and I passed that along to “D.” My wife also told me that she would enjoy meeting “D” for coffee while I am away this weekend, but after I told him that she got scheduled for work, which is just as well since I think she was also getting cold feet. I then let “D” know that she might not be able to meet after all, but that things could change over the weekend. He is, in fact, a very patient guy (I think). The three of us have genuinely enjoyed our time together, and in the years he has been in the lifestyle, he tells us that we are among the kindest and most attractive people he has met. So, I don’t know of course if that will encourage him to remain patient for a while or not. But, hopefully it will do so. I know my wife is wrestling with what she thinks (culture and traditional values) versus what I can tell she feels, which is excited by the prospect of two men pleasing her. What’s next? Damned if I know!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

As I mentioned in my last post, I had to fly out of town on Friday morning and will be returning home later this evening. Yesterday, in the middle of the afternoon, I had a chance to speak with my wife, and she said that she was finished with work and was “bored.” I suggested that she give our friend “D” a call to see if he could take her to a coffee shop. At first, she declined the suggestion, but after we talked about it for a little bit, she opened up to the possibility and encouraged me to contact him. Candidly, I think that’s what she wanted me to do all along! Consequently I gave him a call and he was ready to pick her up a little more than one hour later. In the interim, I had a video call with my wife while she was putting her make up on. She was clearly excited to meet him. I told her that if she wanted to kiss him or do anything more than that, it was OK with me, but she immediately rejected that idea and said she did not want to do anything like that with anyone other than me. She told me that she does not want to “cheat” on me, and I said I greatly appreciated that. But I also explained that when we are being honest with each other, cheating cannot exist. Hopefully, she will give that bit of logic some further thought.

In any event, they had an opportunity to spend about two hours at a coffee shop and then they stopped by a restaurant to pick up some food for her son. I later got a text from “D” telling me that they had a very nice time together and that he was very glad they had a chance to meet. I thanked him for taking good care of my wife. I did not get a chance to talk to my wife again until an hour or so after she got home from her coffee date, and she reiterated what I heard from our friend. She said they had a very nice time with each other and she was happy that she went out with him. She said she knows he is a good man and she feels very comfortable with him. She is still working on her English language, but as best I could tell, she seemed to be saying that she could see the relationship advancing more as result of her meeting yesterday. I suspect that part of what she wanted to see was how I would react to her going out alone with him. I think she could tell that I was perfectly fine with it.

Are things progressing toward a sexual relationship? I would like to think so, but I honestly have no idea. It is hard for me to believe that she is not thinking about the possibility of a sexual relationship since she continues to want to get together with “D.” What would be the point otherwise? I genuinely respect my wife, and I am very thankful that she wants to be faithful to me. I also want to make sure that if things ever do head in a sexual manner, that it will be only because it is something she really wants to do. If she gets to that point, I think it could be life-changing in a very good way for both of us. I am also very thankful that “D” has been so respectful to both of us. I don’t think we could have found a better potential playmate. Further updates to follow….

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

As I was traveling to the airport yesterday to catch my flight back to Florida, my wife asked me if I knew what our friend “D” was up to and I said I did not know but that I would find out. I asked her if she wanted to see him again before I got back into town late last night and she said she would like to do that. Unfortunately, he had other plans, but I thought it was interesting that she wanted to see him again so soon. “D” told me he was sorry he could not cancel the plans he had already made because he would’ve preferred to be with my wife, but of course we all understood the challenges of short-notice scheduling. In any event, my flight got back around midnight last night so my wife was sound asleep by the time I got home. We had a chance to talk this morning and she said that she was interested in trying to have the three of us get together again this week, provided we could do so around her work schedule. My wife made a point of telling me that I am the most important person in the world to me and that she missed me a lot. I assured her that I felt the same way about her and that I was very happy that she had such a nice time with “D” while I was gone As it turned out, we will be meeting “D” for dinner this coming Wednesday evening, followed by “dessert” at his place. None of us know for sure exactly what that dessert will be, but it looks like a four-hand massage is on the menu. My wife told me tonight that she wanted me to give her a foot massage and I did that with coconut oil. I asked her if she’d be interested in having me and “D” massage her simultaneously on Wednesday and she just smiled. After that we had great sex and she orgasmed quickly again when I told her how much “D” and I both want to fuck her and cum inside of her. I think she really is getting close, but we are still two days away from our next meeting with “D,” so I am prepared for the possibility of another change of her mind!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Well, dinner tonight was enjoyable but nothing happened after it ended. I was surprised because my wife was very horny the past couple of days as we talked about the planned four-handed massage after dinner, she shaved her pussy last night, and she wore a very sexy dress tonight and her make-up looked great. But, during dinner she announced to me and “D” that she was exhausted from work and she wanted to go home when we finished eating. So, that is what we did. My wife and ”D” hugged each other and we briefly discussed meeting again soon, but no definite plans were made. I am out of town again this weekend from Saturday morning to Sunday night, so they may meet while I am away. I am trying to remain optimistic, but I would be lying if I said I wasn’t a little disheartened. Time will tell, I suppose.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Things took an encouraging turn today. I flew out of town yesterday (Saturday) morning and returned late tonight. Although my wife seemed reticent to meet “D” while I was away, she changed her mind when he reached out to her this morning. He ended up taking her out for coffee. They spent about three hours together. Although my wife told him before he came over that she was not going to get dressed up or put her makeup on, she in fact did get dressed up and put her makeup on. “D” told me she looked like a knockout.

After their coffee date, “D” brought her back to our home and she invited him in. She asked me to video call when they got to our house and I did that from the airport. “D” was only there for about 30 minutes. I later found out from “D” that while they were out, my wife really opened up to him about various parts of her life. She even held his hand several times and when they got back to our house, she sat next to him on a couch and they held hands there as well.

My wife assured me that she had done nothing “wrong” with him and I told her that I was not worried about that. Nonetheless, without me asking, my wife shared texts that the two of them had after “D” left the house. In short summary, he wanted to assure her that he respects her and me and that he did not feel comfortable kissing her without me there. He also told her in those texts that as much as he wanted to kiss her, he didn’t want to do anything to imperil the friendship that the three of us are developing. He asked her point blank if she would have kissed him had I been there and she immediately said that she would have done that. She explained that she takes her vows to me seriously and that she is trying to adjust her mind to what I have proposed between the three of us. She also mentioned that because her 19 year old son was home (although sleeping mid-afternoon) she did not want to take a chance to doing anything while he was home.

My wife was very happy to see “D” again. I know they are very fond of each other, and I have told her that I am fine with that. I just want her to understand that I want to be the number one man in her life. My wife texted me repeatedly while I was away how much she loves me and appreciates me. We are hoping to get together with “D” again in the next week, but we have several scheduling hurdles to overcome. The best part about today is that it is highly likely that “D” and my wife will probably start to “make out,” maybe more, the next time we get together. So the adventure continues!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Interesting development this morning. Last night, as we were having a later dinner at a restaurant, “D” sent me a message saying he was going to be driving close to our home this morning and he jokingly said he would “wave” at us. My wife immediately suggested that we invite “D” over for breakfast since he would be close to our home. I was pleasantly surprised by her suggestion, so I relayed it to “D” and he accepted. We arranged for him to be at our home around 8:15 a.m., which worked well with all of our respective schedules.

Last night, while my wife and I were having sex, I told her that “D” would be expecting her to kiss him when he visited with us today, and that I wanted her to do that - and anything else she felt comfortable doing. She started to moan at the suggestion. But it was a type of moan I had not heard her make before. It was deeper and accompanied by heavier breathing, and it was very erotic. She was sucking on my cock while I slid a big dildo in and out of her as she focused her Magic Wand on her clit. It did not take her long before she had a powerful orgasm, and then positioned herself on her hands and knees so I could fuck her doggy style. She orgasmed a second time in short order right as I was cumming a lot in her. We were both blown away by how intense our respective orgasms were.

When we got out of bed this morning, my wife was wearing very nice silk leopard print pajamas that were not only very flattering, they showed off her erect nipples. She was excited to wear them for our friend. After “D” arrived right on time this morning, we had a nice breakfast and then sat on a couch in our sunroom. My wife sat between us and we both gently rubbed her back. We made a little chit chat, and then I suggested that my wife kiss Dave. She looked at me with a sly smile and giggled, but she eventually turned to him and gave him a quick one second kiss. I teasingly told her “that didn’t count,” so after squirming a little for another minute or so, she leaned in and gave him a more passionate four second kiss. He rubbed her breasts while they kissed, and she reached over with her right hand and stroked my diamond-hard erection with her right hand. When she broke off her kiss with “D” I held her face in my hands and gave her a long, passionate French kiss to which she enthusiastically responded.

We sat on the couch for another ten minutes or so. A couple of times my wife said she needed to get ready for work, but she didn’t move. Instead, when I encouraged her to kiss “D” again she did so a couple more times, each time the kisses getting longer and more passionate. She did not resist when “D” rubbed her breasts through her pajamas. My wife finally stood up, out of breath, and said she needed to get ready for work, so “D” and I also stood up (while adjusting our respective crotches) and we walked to the front door where my wife once again gave “D” a passionate French kiss while they held each other tight.

Once “D” left my wife commented on his erection and I told her the obvious truth - she had that effect on both of us. She laughed at that. I asked her if she enjoyed kissing “D” and she said she couldn’t because of her Thai culture. I then asked her if she was wet and she didn’t answer, but she let me feel for myself. Not surprisingly, she was very wet. After that she said, “I know. I am very wet.” I told her that I understood the cultural barriers. I did not try to persuade her to the contrary. I think the best way to proceed is to let nature take its course. I assume that the more we get together with “D” and the more often they kiss, and possibly more, the more normalized it will all become. I am very encouraged by all of this. What do you think?

[Lucky Dog]

You're a very lucky man and your wife is also a lucky woman. I think "D" is going to be a very lucky man in the near future.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

You're a very lucky man and your wife is also a lucky woman. I think "D" is going to be a very lucky man in the near future.

Thanks, L.D.! I agree. And I will still be lucky even if my wife doesn’t go any further (although I think she may well do so).

[bbarnsworth]

Diamond-hard erections indeed. I got one just reading this Seriously!

I think she's crossed a bridge at this point. Before this, anything she had done with him was essentially platonic. Kissing him, even french kissing him, and letting him massage her breasts through her pajamas is a dramatic shift. She might be having a hard time reconciling her emotions and physical reactions with her intent to uphold her culture, but her body is winning this one. She wants him, and very badly at that. I'm happy for all of you! I'm also glad "D" finally got more than pleasant conversation; not that you've done anything wrong! Just that him getting more means it's not all for naught for him.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Diamond-hard erections indeed. I got one just reading this Seriously!

I think she's crossed a bridge at this point. Before this, anything she had done with him was essentially platonic. Kissing him, even french kissing him, and letting him massage her breasts through her pajamas is a dramatic shift. She might be having a hard time reconciling her emotions and physical reactions with her intent to uphold her culture, but her body is winning this one. She wants him, and very badly at that. I'm happy for all of you! I'm also glad "D" finally got more than pleasant conversation; not that you've done anything wrong! Just that him getting more means it's not all for naught for him.

Thanks for your comments, BB! I believe you are correct about her crossing a bridge, and yet this afternoon when we discussed the morning’s events, she took a step back and said she didn’t think this would go any further, citing the cultural barriers again. I simply said, “Okay, honey.” She continued by saying that her feelings about participating in this activity have never changed (although her actions have!). I again said that I understood and that I didn’t want her to do anything that she felt uncomfortable about.

Fast forward about seven hours and we were watching a very hot mfm video featuring an Asian woman getting tag-teamed by two guys. My wife was once again playing with her Magic Wand, etc., and she came twice, saying again, “I want that, I want that!” So, she has crossed a bridge, as BB said, and then retreated, only to head back across the bridge again. I guess we will continue to experience this back and forth for some time to cum, but that is okay. The old saying is that the journey is often better than the destination. For what it is worth, this journey has been pretty exciting and I suspect it will continue to be! I really love my wife and want her to have maximum pleasure. I think that as much as she feels compelled to uphold her cultural indoctrination, that compulsion is weakening, at least somewhat.

As for “D,” he is a genuinely good guy. We are developing a very nice friendship, irrespective of the hopeful hotwife activities. He has the patience of a saint, partly because he enjoys our company (from what he has said repeatedly). He has admitted in the past to being somewhat doubtful that things between him and my wife would get more intimate, but he also said today that he felt encouraged that my wife was really starting to show more signs of sexual interest.

In any event, thanks again for your thoughts! They are greatly appreciated.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Quick update. My wife appears to have gotten cold feet and has asked me to pause things, at least for the moment. I think this is due in part to some issues we are having with one of her sons, but I am not sure. All I do know for sure is that the family issue is a distraction. I have explained the situation to “D” and he is very understanding, at least for now. I will let you know how this evolves. Anything could happen!

[Mature_Roselands2555]

I hope things work out with the family situation.

I wish you well on the HW front but I think nothing will happen. I hope I'm wrong.