Trying something different
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straightshot22
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Trying something different
I have been letting my wife know for sometime now that I would love for her to be with another guy preferably bigger. Since I'm the only person she's ever been with she has her times where she seems open to it but it goes away for a while I was thinking about letting her know that I'm ok with her finding a date for the week that I'm away in the fall and that she's open to do what she wants just wondering how I should bring it up
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bbarnsworth
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Re: Trying something different
"Honey, I'm ok with you finding a date for the week that I'm away in the fall and I'm open to you doing what you want".straightshot22 wrote: ↑Mon May 05, 2025 6:10 pmI have been letting my wife know for sometime now that I would love for her to be with another guy preferably bigger. Since I'm the only person she's ever been with she has her times where she seems open to it but it goes away for a while I was thinking about letting her know that I'm ok with her finding a date for the week that I'm away in the fall and that she's open to do what she wants just wondering how I should bring it up
Honestly, it can really be that simple.
Understand; this has to be her fantasy. If she's doing it because it's your fantasy, it won't work well (if at all). Fall is just around the corner; 5 months. If you want this to happen this Fall, you'd better get talking now. You've already done the hardest part; let her know that you would love for her to have sex with another man. So, build on it. Don't push, but talk. LISTEN to what she says, give support, give feedback, and let her build the fantasy.