Her Slutty Summer

[joe111]

My wife told me last night during pillow talk that one summer in Charleston, SC, during college break while I was living overseas, that there were two guys who she would regularly give blowjobs.

She has always been very outwardly conservative and as far as I’ve been told, I am the only guy that she’s had sex with. Starting to wonder if maybe that’s not quite true.

I started to fuck her so hard while she was telling me about it and now I can’t stop thinking about how hot it is that she was letting them dump loads of cum in her mouth while we were still long distance dating.

She knows that I have a fantasy of sharing her, and I feel like her admitting this along with all the details is a big step in her opening up to the idea.

Would love any tips on how to progress this further!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Joe111, It sounds like you have a good opening to start a productive discussion with your wife. I don’t profess to be an expert here, but based on my experience with my first wife many years ago, and the experience I am having now with my current wife in (I hope) the beginning stages of the hotwife lifestyle, the key may be in making your wife feel like she is safe to say or admit anything to you. Exciting though it may be, it may also be difficult to hear what she tells you about her past, especially if it is inconsistent with what she has told you previously. I think our wives need to feel safe and respected, and if we do or say anything that makes them feel otherwise, it will be very difficult for them to open up again. When I first told my wife three months ago that I wanted to see her having sex with other men in my presence and I wanted to join in, she thought I was totally out of my mind. But, I was honest with her about my feelings and she now understands I absolutely mean it. Although she has told me several times since then that she can’t imagine doing what I have proposed, she has also expressed a great deal of enthusiasm about seeing mfm and gangbang movies featuring middle-aged, large breasted Asian women like her. In the past couple of weeks, as she nears orgasm and I talk to her about having one cock in her mouth and another in her pussy at the same time, she has exclaimed, “I want that, I want that,” and then she has an earth-shattering orgasm. In order to reassure her that I love her for telling me that I kiss her, hug her and tell her how excited I get when she says that. I know that by doing so, I am easing her fears that I may disapprove of her enthusiasm. Moreover, we have recently been meeting with a very nice man we met on SLS and I think we are getting close to our first mfm. (More details about this can be found in the Wannabe forum under the title, “Getting close?”) In any event, I have encouraged my wife to say or feel whatever she is feeling, and I have repeatedly reassured her that I love her and that she is safe with me and respected. If you follow the same approach, it can’t hurt, and it may actually help. Best of luck!

[joe111]

Great advice. When she is in the mood, she will get into role playing about taking a big cock but oftentimes, she’ll feel a little regret after. Regret isn’t really the right word, but she’s starting to feel that less and less I sense.

We dated long distance for a couple of years I really hope there are more stories like this, because I get super turned on by it and she knows it.

[Wantsomefunto]

Maybe get her a nice sized bit comfortable dildo to take while you watch. Tell her how good she looks taking a bigger cock and encourage her by saying she deserves to try other guys.

[joe111]

Great idea. Would be so hot if she rode a big dildo while she sucked my cock. She’s been telling me more stories of her past recently and I had no idea that she sucked so many guys cocks in high school. She was a virgin when we met, but damn she was apparently quick to get on her knees!

We’ve been having some amazing sex while she tells me all the details of guys dumping loads in her mouth. I know she hasn’t told me all the guys yet, so can’t wait to hear more.

I have to be careful to catch her in the right mood for it, usually after a lot of foreplay and when she is getting closer to cumming. Ideally after a couple of glasses of wine too.

[Wantsomefunto]

When she is in the mood, just tell her how much you would like it if she would find another guy to give a blow job to for you.

[joe111]

Good thought. She likes to suck my cock in the shower and recently I’ve said to her, show me how you sucked those guys cocks all summer. She loved it!

I know she has more hookup stories that I haven’t heard yet but trying not to overwhelm her with questions. I can tell she loves telling me about it when in the right mood and it makes her cum so fast.

[wulfenus]

I love those kind of stories. So hot she's sharing them with you. Hope she has more, but yes try not to overwhelm her. I've also found that if you ask about a story you've heard before, she may add info that she has remembered or maybe was shy about telling previously.

[joe111]

Yea, it was super hot to hear this and she’s getting into it and starting to add more details and tease. Hoping tonight I can ask her if she’ll show me how she sucked those guys cock using my cock and maybe finger her pussy while she does it!

She recently told me about a guy in high school that she gave a blowjob at the lake on the dock at night and one of the guys in Charleston that she sucked off on the rooftop.

[joe111]

After the summer she was back in college for her senior year, so I’m pretty sure there are a lot more stories. I was a year ahead of her and we started dating halfway through her freshman year. I’m pretty sure she didn’t hook up with many if any guys before me because she was going through sorority rush and had to be “well behaved”.

I’m pretty sure she wanted to get some experiences with a few guys in college while I was away. Can’t say I blame her and I find it super hot.

[Wantsomefunto]

Did you ask her if she would try to find a guy to suck for you?

[joe111]

I don’t think I have specifically asked her that other than some role play except for the first time I brought up the fantasy and told her that it would be so hot to see her with another guy and she ended up crying that night

We do some role play where I’ll pretend like we’re on vacation and I’m a random guy giving her a massage and calling her Mrs. and flirting with her some, asking if it’s okay if I tour here. A lot of my clients like it when I rub them like this, etc. Eventually I’ll get my hands sliding across her asshole and pussy and I’ll ask her if she feels my bulging cock and I know she’s married but would it be okay if I just put the top in.

Sometimes I’ll pretend like I picked her up at the bar and while I’m fucking her doggystyle, I’ll say what was your name again? It was so loud at the bar when we met earlier. Them tell her how good her married pussy feels.

I do think it would be good to take some more concrete steps with her soon. We are likely going on a trip in a few weeks. Need to hurry and book something but probably Caribbean or south Florida.

I was pushing for south Florida so she could maybe set up a Tinder app in advance of it and have a little fun with it even if it didn’t lead to anything.

[joe111]

Any other thoughts or vacation area suggestions? Would love to have a nude beach nearby which is another reason I was pushing south Florida.

She would never do something like Hedonism but maybe she would wander down to the nude beach area.

[wulfenus]

Does she suck to save her pussy for you, or at least someone? Or is that just her way of being easy?

Girls I've had the discussion about that usually say that sucking is more intimate than intercourse,
I know opinions vary on that haha, but still an interesting subject.

[joe111]

Not sure. Maybe she felt guilty letting those guys fuck her but I guess every girl is different. I had a fuck buddy in college that would let me fuck her whenever but she said she wouldn’t suck my cock if we weren’t dating.

I think my wife may have let some guys fuck Hergoodtime though and the stories haven’t come out yet. Time will tell. She said they always came in her mouth and she swallowed

[joe111]

Staying in a nice hotel tonight with a couple of restaurants bars. Any ideas for a newbie couple?

[Wantsomefunto]

Challenge her to wear something sexy and flirtatious like a shirt summer dress with nothing under it. Have her sit at the hotel bar alone as you watch from a distance. Tell her she should tell guys you are sick in the room and she wanted to party. See what Happens!

[joe111]

Damn good ideas. I love the sick in the room one. We had a good time but nothing too crazy. Need to do more dinners sitting at the bar.

[Wantsomefunto]

When can you get her out again? Will she do it?

[joe111]

Going to try for a dinner date next week and work on a skirt with no panties and maybe a temp tattoo or something with a marker that says hall pass or hotwife.

[flexxxdee]

I love that your wife gave TWO guys blowjobs and regularly. Blowjobs are such an intimate act.

[joe111]

Yea, super hot. She said she would pretty much suck their cocks whenever they wanted after going out to the bars. She has started giving me a lot more blowjobs now. It gets her super horny. I’ll ask her to show me how she sucked those guys cocks. She’ll say that she likes it when they came in her mouth

[joe111]

One guys she used to suck his cock on the rooftop patio at night.

[joe111]

I’m hoping she let one them slide the tip in her pussy but she hasn’t mentioned that yet.

[joe111]

I asked my wife last night during some hot sex if she ever had any one night stands and she said yes. She whispered in my ear that she let a football player fuck her one drunken night after the bars. She put her hand around the back of my neck and pulled me in closer and whispered in my ear - he fucked me so hard.