I think my wife is into it too

[delhiguy]

Hey everyone, Coming back here after a long time. Some of you might remember my last post. It was about my gf back then (now wife) and how one of her colleagues had started flirting with her. I encouraged her. She didn’t stop it. In fact, she enjoyed the attention and they ended up going on dates. It got a little too much eventually and I had to ask her to stop. That was that.
Anyway, things have changed a lot since then. We got married this January. I’m from India and she is too. We’re now living together and starting this new phase of life as husband and wife. Still figuring things out, but it’s been beautiful so far.
I’m not a great writer, so to atart with I’m using a bit of AI to streamline my thoughts, help me clean up my words and remove errors, but everything I share here is what I’m really thinking and feeling.
So yeah, back to what’s going on now.
Our sex life has changed a lot. We’ve been experimenting more, talking more openly, and getting into fantasies. One of the big ones that has come up is threesomes. Mostly MMF. We’ve spoken about it a few times. She’s shown interest, and even though we haven’t done anything real yet, our bedroom talk gets intense. We’ve done roleplays around it multiple times.
She knows I like this kind of stuff. I’ve never directly said “I want to watch you get fucked by someone else,” but she knows. Through how we roleplay, how I react, and the way we talk during sex, she gets it. There have been times during sex when I couldn’t cum or got tired, and she would help me finish by talking dirty. And almost always, it turns into her describing how someone else is taking her, how I’m watching, or how she’s being used while I can’t do anything. That kind of talk drives both of us crazy.
She teases me with stuff like, “You like seeing your wife getting fucked, don’t you?” or “He’s fucking me while you just sit there.” And I can’t even explain how hard that hits. We both enjoy it.
We’ve even talked about maybe trying a threesome when we go abroad, just to keep things safe and avoid any awkwardness back home. She didn’t say yes, but she didn’t say no either. Just said, “We’ll see.”
I’ll write more soon about a specific roleplay we recently did that really turned both of us on. Just wanted to give a quick update and share where we are in our journey now.
Let me know what you think. Anyone else started like this before actually trying something in real life?
And what steps should i take to move this in the right direction eventually. I don't want to ruin what we have. But just want to explore these fantasies together with her.
I will eventually talk with her about the cuckold part lf it and we need to have a full discussion around it. But there's still time. Im just scared, if i bring it out in the open, she will put a stop to it, i want it to happen organically.

[Pufferfish]

You're playing it safe and being cautious, and that's ok, but that won't get you anywhere "organically". It's ok to go outside your comfort zone a bit, and nothing will change unless you do.

You both seem to be on the same page with knowing about your fantasy. You need to actually take the step to tell her specifically about it. If not everything about it, enough so it's no longer a secret you both hint at. I think a good place to start is the colleague that was flirting with her. Bring it up in conversation with her. Tell her, specifically, what about it you liked, and what parts were difficult for you to deal with and ultimately lead you to calling things off. Tell her, specifically, about how the thought of her having sex with someone else and what that does for you. Then also tell her about the shame you sometimes feel about that desire. Tell her that it has nothing to do with how you view her or the thought of things she would do, but how you view yourself. That will give you both a good foundation to begin discussing this fantasy further, and exploring how you can both get what you want without overstepping any bounds.

It's not anything she doesn't already know, as you have pointed out, but explaining the parts you like and the parts that you struggle with will help you both navigate the fantasy better. And you'll discover the more you both begin openly talking about and acknowledge this topic the more you both enjoy thinking about and talking about it. The only way it'll ever happen organically is if you're both fairly comfortable being able to talk about it with each other.

[delhiguy]

Thanks for your reply pufferfish.

I agree it might not instantly happen organically. It will take time. But I don't want to rush it and risk ruining my current relationship . Its me and her forever, the slow progress is also ok for me.

Anyway i feel like the slow part of it is also fun, because if it happens ever then there's no turning back. There will be no fun of will she won't she. This is its own adventure, which i can't ever return to.

Talking to her about the guy who flirted with her, is still too soon. We had a fight on it as well, when it happened. I agree that is one way which i want to talk about, but I'll wait on it for now.

[delhiguy]

One of the most intense roleplays we’ve done happened recently on our engagement anniversary. We were out that night at a quiet bar, kind of secluded, just the two of us. Not too crowded, dim lights, drinks flowing, perfect setting. Somewhere during dinner and drinks, I brought up the idea of adding a story to spice things up later that night. She was instantly into it. We tossed a few ideas around and settled on a threesome story.

I said I’d build the story and connect it with real life, keep it grounded. The idea was that someone approached us right there in the bar and eventually went home with us. I gave him the name H and asked her who she would want to imagine in that role. She dodged it at first, probably thinking I was trying to fish for someone real she finds attractive. But eventually, she picked a random guy from her college. Just someone for the imagination.

So I started the story. I said H entered the bar, saw her, and came to say hi. She invited him to sit with us. First across the table, then next to her. I didn’t narrate it all at once, just dropped in bits between normal conversation. She picked it up so naturally. She added details like him caressing her thighs under the table, slowly getting bolder. I added a little cuck element by saying I left them alone to use the washroom, and when I returned, he had his hands on her breasts and was playing with her legs. She didn’t stop me, she leaned into it.

We even wove the story into our real-life moves. When we stepped out to smoke, I said H joined us, and she imagined sitting on his lap, them kissing, his hands under her skirt. It was wild just playing it out in whispers while being out in public.

Later, when I was driving her home, I told her H was in the backseat, coming home with us. Once we got home, I couldn’t hold back. I jumped on her, but we didn’t stop the story. We kept going. We imagined going to H’s place, more drinks, dancing, touching. I said H was undressing her, and while I was going down on her, I kept saying it was H doing it. I’d ask her what she wanted him to do next, and she started saying things like H is sucking my breasts, H is rubbing my pussy. Then she looked at me and said it. I want H to fuck me.

She asked if I liked watching him fuck her. She knew the answer. I said let H lick your pussy, and she said no, she wanted me to do that while H fucked her. When I brought up her sucking H’s cock, she said she’d suck mine first while getting fucked by him.

It was one of the hottest nights we’ve had in a while. I think about that evening a lot. Not just because of what we said, but because of how easily we both played into it without any real plan. It just flowed.
We have done other roleplays like these. But this one topped the list. I got to know how into it she is and that someday it might really happen. Fingers crossed.

[patw3268]

Hot story. How did both of you act the next day after the fantasy role play?

[CuriousHusband91941]

That got me really hard. Nice dialogue.

[wulfenus]

Great role playing!! I could handle being a wannabe with hot action like that!

[delhiguy]

Hot story. How did both of you act the next day after the fantasy role play?

It was just a roleplay and sex for us. Mostly we were nonchalant and joking about the guy and we have already discussed about doing threesome before so it was just one of such fantasy.

[delhiguy]

Last night we had sex. We didn't have much time to plan a roleplay. But we were drunk and when i asked about a story to do she said let's do it normally this time.

We started the foreplay like we usually do. Me talking and kissing her, then going down on her licking her pussy. Meanwhile talking dirty. The dirty talk was mostly focused on her. How hot she looked and she would get fucked later.
Then she sucked me and we went to the fucking part. We tried different positions. Ultimately when i was in missionary, i hadn't cum yet and she was exhausted.
She told me to cum, but i was like I'll fuck you the whole night. She wanted the sex, but sometimes its overwhelming for her so she wanted for it to end soon.
I told her, if she wanted for it to end, she would have to make me cum by taking dirty. She asked what kind of dirty talk. I said whatever you feel like.
She thought for a second then started her own story while i was fucking her.
She said that a guy has tied me to a chair and taking advantage of her in front of me. She said he's tearing her clothes. I kept asking for more. She said he's sucking her boobs and rubbing her pussy. I said what more is he doing. She said he's making her suck his cock and she is sucking it in front of me. I asked for more. While she was telling me that he is forcefully fucking her in front of me. I came instantly and kissed her.
Then we talked a little about how the sex was and what she liked. And we were done.
I guess she's exploring with her stories what exactly i like. She was enjoying the story as well.
These roleplays are turning out to be way too exciting. I'm just waiting for the right moment to talk this through with her and plan something for real.
Any ideas are welcome on how to do it.

[delhiguy]

We had sex again last night. And again I was unable to cum with normal sex. At the end we were both tired, and I asked her to talk dirty to make me cum.
She started with a story where im forcing her for sex. Tying her up, then tearing her clothes. Roughly handling her. Sucking her boobs and licking her clit and then fucking her. This was still not enough for me to cum.
I stopped fucking and laid down with her nect to me. And started masterbating. She was helping me cum by jerking and fondling my balls in between. I asked her to continue talking dirty. She continued that i was fucking her in different positions.
At one point i remarked that she was too horny today as her pussy was leaking and i was able to enter her very smoothly without much effort. And her hole was very big this time, she remarked and asked if two dicks and go inside. I said yes maybe. I asked who's, she said she didn't know.

Finally when all this was not doing for me. She said a third guy came and started having her way with her, while i was watching her and him. She started to suck his cock and he was rubbing her. Then he started fucking her and while i was playing with her boobs. This was enough for me and finally i came.
She remarked that she has to bring a third person to make me cum and chuckled on it. I just said yes true and didn't say anything else.
She said next time she will bring in a girl if this happens. Im sure i wont be able to cum with a third girl in the story. It needs to be a guy fucking her.
Any ideas what should i ask her in between these sessions or what scenario should i create?

[delhiguy]

There is no new update yet. We haven't discussed much related to it and its her day of the month so the sex is on hold.

But I feel there is not much traction on my posts as im not getting any replies, feels like just talking to myself. So I'll maybe limit my posts for a while and only post if something drastic happens.

[silky nylons]

I'm very interested. More please.