Wannabe here! Being cucked has been my fantasy for at least twenty years now and I’m pretty certain it will not actually happen for me, as my partner isn’t interested in it. I’m wondering if anybody has found a way to have a similar sort of experience, probably through an arrangement with another couple or an exhibitionist woman.
I don’t know exactly how such a relationship could work. It could be something like being “friendzoned” by some woman out there open to sharing her sexual experiences with me - texts about what she is doing with her partner, as well as some light humiliation - talk about how much better her partner probably would be than me. I would find that so exciting. We wouldn’t ever even need to meet in person - just being “in on it” with somebody would be such a thrill. (My wife is supportive of me having such a relationship with somebody.)
Surely some woman out there would be open such an arrangement! Just don’t even know where to start in finding somebody, short of an OnlyFans or something.
Any ideas?
Searching for other ways to feel cucked
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Bashfullwife
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I think we are in the same situation but I have not given up hope that Bashfull will allow some day. She has flirted with the idea and gotten close, but no cigar yet. We will post our story one day.
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Wishing you luck, my friend!
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Im also just a Wannabe but Ive been a cuck in a former relationship and my wife has had an affair on me. We have since happily reconciled (and she refuses to be a hotwife) but she knows about my fantasy and will play along with it - to a point. Part of my fantasy also involves penis. Im smaller than average and have struggled with being able to satisfy women Ive been romantically involved. I also learned that with both by wife, and this ex penis size was very important to them, both cheated on me with a well endowed man.
I have a couple of thoughts on how you might feel cucked.
An extreme way, which has occurred to me is infidelity. This has provided me with countless fantasies to jerk off to but also came with all the pain that you might imagine.
What we do now is that most of our sex life is me masturbating and my wife telling me a story described in 3rd person. She wont admit that the stories are real or that she is actually the woman in them but based on details that I am aware its obvious that its her and these stories actually occurred. Many women will play along with this fantasy if they know its just for fun and you may them feel secure (you arent looking to be with other women and that maybe you dont really want this to occur in real life).
One other thing that has worked for me (for my fantasy) is simply talking about my situation with other women. Friends of mine or ours. Talking about Claire's affair and some of the struggles we have had in the bedroom, what caused them and what drove her to seek anther man. All already knew of her affair and 'sensed' that sex was the root cause. Ive found that women are often eager to hear the details (i.e. that Im small and have never been able to bring Claire to orgasm and she 'selected' a hugely endowed affair partner who was easily able to give her orgasms). Its exciting to see/hear their reactions or suggestions to 'make up for' my small size. None ever say size doesnt matter but will downplay it or say that other things matter more.
I have a couple of thoughts on how you might feel cucked.
An extreme way, which has occurred to me is infidelity. This has provided me with countless fantasies to jerk off to but also came with all the pain that you might imagine.
What we do now is that most of our sex life is me masturbating and my wife telling me a story described in 3rd person. She wont admit that the stories are real or that she is actually the woman in them but based on details that I am aware its obvious that its her and these stories actually occurred. Many women will play along with this fantasy if they know its just for fun and you may them feel secure (you arent looking to be with other women and that maybe you dont really want this to occur in real life).
One other thing that has worked for me (for my fantasy) is simply talking about my situation with other women. Friends of mine or ours. Talking about Claire's affair and some of the struggles we have had in the bedroom, what caused them and what drove her to seek anther man. All already knew of her affair and 'sensed' that sex was the root cause. Ive found that women are often eager to hear the details (i.e. that Im small and have never been able to bring Claire to orgasm and she 'selected' a hugely endowed affair partner who was easily able to give her orgasms). Its exciting to see/hear their reactions or suggestions to 'make up for' my small size. None ever say size doesnt matter but will downplay it or say that other things matter more.
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ucaneffher
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Whatever other way there may be out there will likely result in some type of betrayal or infidelity, sadly. No matter what angle you look at it from it will involve you and a different woman or couple so the only way that I see it happening is with your partner's express consent and approval.
I'll give you an an example that would work quite well but may backfire if the wife isn't on board.
You could hire a working girl to fulfill your fantasy of being a cuckold. You discuss your fantasy and tell her that you will pay her to go on a date with you where she is to act like your wife but she is to pick a man of her choice and she will seduce him in front of you. Whether your date takes place at a restaurant with a bar, a bar, a club or anywhere else where mingling takes place, she is to walk off and engage with another man and then introduce you.
Since she's getting paid to fullfil your fantasy, you can ask her to be as blunt or as reserved as you can handle. In my case I'd like my girl to be very friendly with the guy and let her take charge by bringing to our table, or wanting to dance with him, or inviting him back home (hotel) with us where I will only agree with everything that my "wife" wants.
When we get to hotel, I help undress her while she's clamped onto the other man and eventually I get sent to my corner and jerk off all night as my "wife" is getting devoured all night long and giving me the best show. She is prepaid for the whole night and can keep going with her guy all night and I'm financing the hotel and his repeated sessions with her.
Imagine sending the guy home and then staying with this super hot chick in the hotel lying in bed, and she's elling you that your fantasy is super hot and she can definitely see the appeal. Tells you she enjoyed playing the wife part. Telling you that she would love to do this again and save her number anytime you want your "wife" fucked in front of you again.
I have thought about this while being single.... Would never consider it while being in a relationship but actually hope that my wife ends up doing exactly just that
I'll give you an an example that would work quite well but may backfire if the wife isn't on board.
You could hire a working girl to fulfill your fantasy of being a cuckold. You discuss your fantasy and tell her that you will pay her to go on a date with you where she is to act like your wife but she is to pick a man of her choice and she will seduce him in front of you. Whether your date takes place at a restaurant with a bar, a bar, a club or anywhere else where mingling takes place, she is to walk off and engage with another man and then introduce you.
Since she's getting paid to fullfil your fantasy, you can ask her to be as blunt or as reserved as you can handle. In my case I'd like my girl to be very friendly with the guy and let her take charge by bringing to our table, or wanting to dance with him, or inviting him back home (hotel) with us where I will only agree with everything that my "wife" wants.
When we get to hotel, I help undress her while she's clamped onto the other man and eventually I get sent to my corner and jerk off all night as my "wife" is getting devoured all night long and giving me the best show. She is prepaid for the whole night and can keep going with her guy all night and I'm financing the hotel and his repeated sessions with her.
Imagine sending the guy home and then staying with this super hot chick in the hotel lying in bed, and she's elling you that your fantasy is super hot and she can definitely see the appeal. Tells you she enjoyed playing the wife part. Telling you that she would love to do this again and save her number anytime you want your "wife" fucked in front of you again.
I have thought about this while being single.... Would never consider it while being in a relationship but actually hope that my wife ends up doing exactly just that
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you can get a work 'wife'. Mine just happened without trying, so not sure how to suggest making one. I worked with a few women, one in particular, we traveled a lot together so got to be relaxed about anything. She was an attractive blonde, married, loved to talk about sex. She'd only had sex w/her hubby and that happened in college, we were both early 30s. she'd tell me all kinds of things and was curious about other stuff like black men.
She told me about other coworkers who had made passes at her, one she was tempted to return a yes to...but didn't.
My gf, who worked at the same company, started getting a little jealous (so it was working out for me good ! ) I was eager to make a pass at her with all this sex talk, but couldn't chance it.
It had all the elements of being with a woman but not getting any.
She told me about other coworkers who had made passes at her, one she was tempted to return a yes to...but didn't.
My gf, who worked at the same company, started getting a little jealous (so it was working out for me good ! ) I was eager to make a pass at her with all this sex talk, but couldn't chance it.
It had all the elements of being with a woman but not getting any.