Our Hotwives

Hello OHW, I have been reading posts here for a long time, getting ideas on how to handle my thoughts and desires, hear stories from others, but my real goal was to give the wife a platform to explore ideas and communicate with others that may encourage her to explore new territoty. I have found this task to be difficult due to her being bashful, but I have found an appreciation for the people on this site and the insights they share. The overall result was me learning that I am not the only one out there with the desire to share my wife, and that this desire is more common than I ever thought, it is just not really spoken about out in the open.

I am sorry for the long post, but here goes.

Our story is typical family, husband, wife, and children. The atypical part, so I thought, was me (husband) having these taboo ideas that Bashfull was verbally not into. So here is our story, in stages if that helps. Bashfull has read and approves what we are posting. Another note to mention, I talk to friend (male) on a regular basis and we talk about what might happen. I always want to be transparent in my goals but make no promises of what will happen in case Bashfull backs out. Bashfull is also aware of what may happen and has tenatively agreed to try. These stages took several months, maybe even as long as two years to happen.

Enjoy

Stage 1: I invited my friend over for a visit and I convinced Bashfull to wear a thin bra, short shorts, no panties. We sat around chatting for a while with normal conversation at first, then it turned flirty with some dirty jokes, and the night sort of ended there. The obvious flirting between Me and Bashfull and between Friend and Bashfull had her very turned on. Sex was fire that night and Bashfull had no regrets the next day. This night really confirmed that I enjoyed what happened and of course made me want more.

Stage 2: Basically the same activities as stage 1 with the exception that Bashfull was convinced to wear no bra, and skirt with no panties. There were several instances where intentional changes in leg crossing towards Friend, sharing small glimpses up her skirt and allowing her nipples to show, helped her gain a little confidence to relax. She was very nervous before Friend arrived but relaxed before the night was over. We repeated this stage several times. Here is a memory from a very fun night where things escalated a bit. We were talking about excercising and how pull ups were one of the best excercises to do. We asked Bashfull if she could do them and of course she said yes. I helped her jump and grab a pull up bar and she proceeded to do several pull ups. While helping her, I accidentall pulled her skirt up to her belly, completely exposing her from waist down and she proceeded to do pull ups. That told me right then that she enjoyed the extra attention and may be open to more. Again, sex was really on fire that night and there was a significant amount more hydration than normal, if you know what I mean. Bashfull was very turned on.

Stage 3: We, my friend and I, decided that we would start working out in the basement. We also wanted to include Bashfull and use this as an opportunity to explore a bit more Shenanigans. I again convinced Bashfull to wear thin shirt, no bra, and short skirt. She insisted on wearing panties this time, but I had hopes of taking them off. While we were working out and making it very obvious where we were giving our attention, I made the suggestion that the panties were cauaing obstruction. Best excuse I could come up with to take those panties off. Bashfull reluctantly agreed and the show was nice. There were no regrets again after full on view with no obstruction and legs pretty much wide open. Still no touching involved.

Stage 4: While we were planning out stage 5, we went out one night and met up with an old friend, we can call him friend 2, and we would end up going to our house after and taking Jello shots off Bashfull, who wound up naked and allowing us to do so. She enjoyed the time but was not really into friend 2 and we have not hung out with him again.

Stages 5 through 8 are written, lets just see how this goes before posting more.

MB

First off, this post wasn't "too long". Your story is yours and it takes time to tell it.

I love that you're sharing in it with your wife and that she's co-authoring the posts. That's great to see if from your perspective, but to know her thoughts on it.

I feel like your stages progressed SUPER fast. Congratulations! I know you think it's slow, but so many of us are "10 years and still nothing"....
It's your first post and you're already further along that most of us "wannabe" guys!

The scenarios were super sexy and if your wife is doing pull ups and working out with you, then I can only assume she's a 10 outta 10!

I can't wait for your next installment and have already subscribed.

It sounds like Bashful is ready when you are. Looking forward to the updates.

Bashfull usually pumps the brakes when those butterflies get rowdy.

She's doing awesome. Her taking her time and making the choices when they feel right for her will ensure she doesn't have any regrets and you'll end up with a certified hotwife who knows exactly what she wants in no time!

Stage 5: Knowing that the touch portion would be the next step, since Bashfull allowed this in stage 4 unexpectedly, I devised a plan to make jello shots to take off of Bashfulls body while "working out" with friend. Obviously these were not aggressive work outs, just an excuse to partake in Shenanigans. After convincing Bashfull to allow this, I was actually a bit nervous for this myself because I knew this may be more intrusive than the unplanned night. We in fact did work out, and took a few jello shots of legs, belly, and neck line. I proceeded to convince her to remove her top and allow us both to take Jello from her cleavage (no bra remember so her tits were on full display). It really turned me on to watch another man taking jello off my wife with his eyes and nose nearly touching her naked nipples. The next jello shot was on her nipples and this turned me on even more, Bashfull seemed to be really into it as well. When her breathing changed, i realized it was time to take jello shots from the bend in her leg, only inches from her vagina. We each took the first shot while her legs were tightly closed, staying inches away from her clit. She was clearly ok to move forward so I gently pulled her legs open to place the jello next to her vagina. We both took our shot but didnt really push any further because I could sense Basfulls reluctance. After doing all this, my heart rate was super fast and I was enjoying every second. From what I could tell, Bashfull also enjoyed every second, but I knew every butterfly in her stomach was in high gear, so we ended there. She told me later that she had no regrets, enjoyed all activities, and may be ok with another round in a few weeks. Sex after friend left was again fire.

Holy crap!

This is a phenomenal story. I love how you're checking in with her and you don't let your own desire pressure her into doing something she isn't ready for.

It's so sexy how you're taking your time and enjoying the seductiveness of it. She's such a good wife. You're a very lucky man!

I can't wait for you to drop #6.

If you'd be willing. Could you give more details? What are the conversations like between everyone afterwards? Is he as excited as you? You said the sex was fire, but could you go into more detail as to what made it better?

Stage 6: After stage 5 happened the first time, jello shots turned to honey due to it staying in place better and being more difficult to remove. . Stage 5 happened a few more times and Bashfull allowed myself and friend to take honey from everywhere I put the honey and I am not bashfull. Friend took honey from all the right places, juat not the back door. Back door is inly for me and not to share. Bashfull really enjoyed this stimulation and even managed to have orgasms in front of friend, she was smiling afterwards. Having the orgasm in front of friend was a huge unintendid step, but it was very welcomed. Again, no penetration, only manual stimulattion with hands and mouths. She really enjoyed everyrhing despite the huge butterflies.

Stage 7: Basically a repeat of stage 6 with the exception that Bashfull allowed us to gently press and rub the bottom of our dicks on her clit/vagina area. The discussion ahead of time was that the bottom of our dicks could rub her vagina (at seperate times of course), but no penetration. If penetration "happened by accident" it would not continue to go inside. There were several accidents simultaneously by the friend but he used a huge amount of self control, followed my lead, and never plunged balls deep. At one point during the simultaneous accidents, Bashfull did use her heel to pull him inside her a little deeper but he did restrain due to previous conversations. Bashfull did suprise me by stroking friend somewhat aggressively while I was on top of Bashfull taking my turn but there was not enough motion there for him to finish on her belly. I really wanted her to make him finish as a reward for all his efforts but she did not. He did tell me later that he was very close, so that was a bummer. The other unfortunate part of this story for me is that while friend was in top of Bashfull rubbing her, Bashfull was alao stroking me with her hand as she had done to friend earlier. This, plus being on top of her, and the visual stimulation pushed me over the edge and I finished way to early. Bummer but that is real life.

Bashfull really enjoyed the whole situation but said that time went too far and has had cold feet ever since.

Stage 8: I am sorry to say but there is not a stage 8 yet. Bashfull still has the cold feet, and friend has probably lost interrest due to 15 times visiting and he has never been rewarded. Hopefully one day soon, there can be a legit stage 8. There has been some signs of interest as of late.

After reading all that I don't know if you're in the right place!

Brother, another man's cock was inside your wife by her own hand. This cannot be overlooked!!!

She may not be a prolific vixen, but the moment the tip of his dick pushed through her lips she became a hotwife! Congratulations!!!

It's also hot that she jerked both of you. What was it like watching her wrap her hand around his cock and stroke him? How did it make you feel watching his dick rubbing on her clit as he inched his way inside of her?

She said she enjoyed it. She may have some apprehensions, but she's showing signs of interest, then it must not be too bad.

What are the signs?!?

Bashfull goes through times when she says it is an absolute no, then she goes through the maybe stage, then rinse and repeat 50 times. I feel like she was very close to being in that Vixen group, I just don't feel like we are there yet. Although friend did slip in a few times, there is still a gate there that hasn't been opened.

The conversations after shenanigans are mostly jovial and usually it is so late, that it is time for everyone to get to bed due to work the next morning. I will sit with Bashfull tonight and we will generate answers from your previous posts to give more insights and maybe every more memories from those nights. I am very hopeful that there may be an opportunity tonight or in near future when friend visits again.

When one of these trials concludes successfully, your struggle to convince Bashful will be at an end, and she will enjoy being a HotWife.
I believe you should have a loving conversation with her, explaining your deep desire for her to enjoy a HW experience.

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Fri May 23, 2025 5:35 am

Bashfull goes through times when she says it is an absolute no, then she goes through the maybe stage, then rinse and repeat 50 times. I feel like she was very close to being in that Vixen group, I just don't feel like we are there yet. Although friend did slip in a few times, there is still a gate there that hasn't been opened.

The conversations after shenanigans are mostly jovial and usually it is so late, that it is time for everyone to get to bed due to work the next morning. I will sit with Bashfull tonight and we will generate answers from your previous posts to give more insights and maybe every more memories from those nights. I am very hopeful that there may be an opportunity tonight or in near future when friend visits again.

Your situation is extremely engaging… also pretty unique from so many situations I’ve read about. You both have seemingly done everything but the final deed with all compasses pointed in the right direction. That you both have come so close but remain patient is pretty great imo. I hope you have enjoyed the ride, and it continues to build.

I am trying to convince her to add a few photos to give e better visual with the story. Bashfull is Bashfull.