Any couples have experience with wife’s ex?

[SecretHusband]

I know, it’s pretty crazy. My wife is a pretty small woman so it seems impossible. My wife’s ex is also extremely handsome so my wife knows that she can’t really lie and say she isn’t attracted to him. Also, if she wants to talk about him, I told her that she has to refer to him as her “boyfriend” and not “ex”.

[wulfenus]

After hearing the details about Bob we didn't discuss the subject for a couple weeks. The fact of this experienced guy giving Sandra, my cute young coed girlfriend, such a fucking, plus she said her pussy was sore, in a good way, for a week. I could just imagine her wiggling in her seat in class and thinking about why it was sore.

I also had to consider that we were around him and until now, I did not know about it, affected me, gee hard to describe, well I got a hardon hearing about it, but angst too. After their orgy Bob wanted to date her but she wouldn't go out with him, so a victory for me. He considered me a rival, though I didnt know he had fucked her. She was definitely miffed at him, putting her in all those positions and especially the last ride, made her a mix of embarrassed and mad at him, plus his attitude of how good he gave it to her.

That restaurant must have been one horny place cause Sandi told me the cook, Pete, made renewed efforts at asking her out. He was about Bob's age or a little older, 35-40. All looking for young and pretty pussy. I'm sure it's because Bob told them about his conquest, and maybe bragged a bit more as she wouldn't date him. She never considered he had talked about it. We'd been to the restaurant various times to listen to music and she worked there off and on, so part of the time he was smirking that he had fucked her and was jealous I had her now. Probably the whole place knew but me.

One Saturday night after a fun dinner and more fun drinks I said, looking for a little victory, well since you didn't date Bob like he wanted after that night, I guess that was that? She, looking a little guilty said there was a Christmas party they went to and things happened.

There wasn't much else going on during the holiday break in a small college town as a lot of things closeup, and most the students head home, so it was the time to party for those of us still in town. Their restaurant closed, so they went to the local Holiday Inn Motel, where there was a Christmas bash so several folks from the restaurant went. Bob and she outlasted their coworkers and he talked her into going to a room. She'd had quite a bit to drink and said she intended just going there to sober up a bit before going home.

Once in the room he got her on the bed and quickly had her down to her bra and panties. She wouldn't go any farther, so he asked her to get them more drinks from the table across the room. Standing up she started to pull her dress on. He told her to leave it off so he could watch her. Even with her nice body she was shy. He had her prance around the room and then dance next to him by the bed taking off her last clothes. She was shy, but It really turned her on feeling like a stripper.

He got her back on the bed and took it slower than the first time they did it months before. He rubbed his cock up and down her swollen,wet pussy and she said it really felt good. I asked her about last time when she mentioned he was big and she just said yeah. So finally I asked well how big? Turns out he had a real rivalry with me. He wanted to show her who was best. It made him mad that she would go back to me.

He was teasing her with his cock and whispering in her ear how sexy she was. I asked what she told him about our sex and she said well I was drunk and hot so probably whatever he wanted.

It made me imagine how tight she was for him, so I know he had a good time in there. And to make matters worse he knows it.

He ended up fucking her twice that night. She was going to leave, but with the drinking, the next time she got up, she modestly put the sheet around her but he had her take it off and dance some more, so this got him hard again and she admits 'acting naughty' was different and a turn on seeing him like the way she looked dancing.

The dancing is a stripper fantasy i think a lot of girls have and it played into her hot spots.

[SecretHusband]

After hearing the details about Bob we didn't discuss the subject for a couple weeks. The fact of this experienced guy giving Sandra, my cute young coed girlfriend, such a fucking, plus she said her pussy was sore, in a good way, for a week. I could just imagine her wiggling in her seat in class and thinking about why it was sore.

I also had to consider that we were around him and until now, I did not know about it, affected me, gee hard to describe, well I got a hardon hearing about it, but angst too. After their orgy Bob wanted to date her but she wouldn't go out with him, so a victory for me. He considered me a rival, though I didnt know he had fucked her. She was definitely miffed at him, putting her in all those positions and especially the last ride, made her a mix of embarrassed and mad at him, plus his attitude of how good he gave it to her.

That restaurant must have been one horny place cause Sandi told me the cook, Pete, made renewed efforts at asking her out. He was about Bob's age or a little older, 35-40. All looking for young and pretty pussy. I'm sure it's because Bob told them about his conquest, and maybe bragged a bit more as she wouldn't date him. She never considered he had talked about it. We'd been to the restaurant various times to listen to music and she worked there off and on, so part of the time he was smirking that he had fucked her and was jealous I had her now. Probably the whole place knew but me.

One Saturday night after a fun dinner and more fun drinks I said, looking for a little victory, well since you didn't date Bob like he wanted after that night, I guess that was that? She, looking a little guilty said there was a Christmas party they went to and things happened.

There wasn't much else going on during the holiday break in a small college town as a lot of things closeup, and most the students head home, so it was the time to party for those of us still in town. Their restaurant closed, so they went to the local Holiday Inn Motel, where there was a Christmas bash so several folks from the restaurant went. Bob and she outlasted their coworkers and he talked her into going to a room. She'd had quite a bit to drink and said she intended just going there to sober up a bit before going home.

Once in the room he got her on the bed and quickly had her down to her bra and panties. She wouldn't go any farther, so he asked her to get them more drinks from the table across the room. Standing up she started to pull her dress on. He told her to leave it off so he could watch her. Even with her nice body she was shy. He had her prance around the room and then dance next to him by the bed taking off her last clothes. She was shy, but It really turned her on feeling like a stripper.

He got her back on the bed and took it slower than the first time they did it months before. He rubbed his cock up and down her swollen,wet pussy and she said it really felt good. I asked her about last time when she mentioned he was big and she just said yeah. So finally I asked well how big? Turns out he had a real rivalry with me. He wanted to show her who was best. It made him mad that she would go back to me.

He was teasing her with his cock and whispering in her ear how sexy she was. I asked what she told him about our sex and she said well I was drunk and hot so probably whatever he wanted.

It made me imagine how tight she was for him, so I know he had a good time in there. And to make matters worse he knows it.

He ended up fucking her twice that night. She was going to leave, but with the drinking, the next time she got up, she modestly put the sheet around her but he had her take it off and dance some more, so this got him hard again and she admits 'acting naughty' was different and a turn on seeing him like the way she looked dancing.

The dancing is a stripper fantasy i think a lot of girls have and it played into her hot spots.

What a hot story! I feel like this guy has a special place in your wife’s brain. Or heart. Or both, lol.

[elina]

Fascinating story.

Please continue.
It will be very interesting to follow you and Sandra through this and all the way to where you are today...

Sincerely
elina

[Gmor]

I definitely have had experience with my wife’s ex, but mostly before our marriage.

She dated him for about five years and the relationship started off great but eventually faded around year 2-3. They remained together for two reasons: they were both very successful and busy professionally thus they didn’t have time for a full relationship but still wanted a partner; and secondly (as I later found out) the sex with him was by far and away the most satisfying of her life. I also found out later that he has an enormous cock and would make her climax multiple times over their 20-40 minute sessions. Sex has always been an issue in our relationship, even at the beginning. I have a notably smaller than average penis and have never been able to bring her to orgasm. This was a major issue early in our relationship as we ‘tried’ to figure out a way to for her to get off. This ultimately faded and she no longer expects me to satisfy her. She told me once our relationship is perfect in every way, other than in the bedroom. Conversely, she couldn’t describe anything she liked better about him, other than the sex.

We broke up a few times while dating and each time she went back to him for sex including one time when we were engaged and only weeks prior to our marriage. Her ex had a huge ego and would take great pleasure in knowing how horny she was and sexually unfulfilled, which he was so easily able to rectify. I know he would make her do and say things to me to exert his dominance (i.e. bringing her to the brink and making her plead to finish her, having her comment about his size, making her admitting that she hadn’t been able to orgasm from sex since they were last together, and even comparisons between us). One time while we were still dating he actually took the opportunity to ‘show off’ in front of me. We were all out of town at a softball tournament (we were in the same circle of acquittances) and I know he orchestrated a situation where the two of us both ended up in a shared shower room after the games. I could go on for hours relating both the extreme humiliation and arousal this resulted in. I can rember if like it was yesterday.

[wulfenus]

We broke up a few times while dating and each time she went back to him for sex including one time when we were engaged and only weeks prior to our marriage.

Exactly, ex-sex is so easy !

[wulfenus]

What a hot story! I feel like this guy has a special place in your wife’s brain. Or heart. Or both, lol.

I was thinking of another place ! Hearing this story, and a few others, which I'll tell you about,
got my cock so hard...but as a lot of you know, you can't ask about this stuff too much.

If you ask about sex with another guy, think about it, she can't help but picture what went on,
so you have to make sure she's in the right mood. Course w/my cock hard just thinking about it,
sometimes the wrong head would do the thinking.

When It was a good time to lalk, when we were both horny and drinking, our favorite condition,
I'd tell her how he might give her a ride home and end up on our sofa. We'd both get hot as
hell, and I describe how he was assertive past her --no I can't ... replies.

Then like I mentioned before we'd cum like crazy and in the morning she'd say , we shouldn't
do this stuff and I'd say it's just fantasy I know you don't mean it. but girls ....

[SecretHusband]

I definitely have had experience with my wife’s ex, but mostly before our marriage.

She dated him for about five years and the relationship started off great but eventually faded around year 2-3. They remained together for two reasons: they were both very successful and busy professionally thus they didn’t have time for a full relationship but still wanted a partner; and secondly (as I later found out) the sex with him was by far and away the most satisfying of her life. I also found out later that he has an enormous cock and would make her climax multiple times over their 20-40 minute sessions. Sex has always been an issue in our relationship, even at the beginning. I have a notably smaller than average penis and have never been able to bring her to orgasm. This was a major issue early in our relationship as we ‘tried’ to figure out a way to for her to get off. This ultimately faded and she no longer expects me to satisfy her. She told me once our relationship is perfect in every way, other than in the bedroom. Conversely, she couldn’t describe anything she liked better about him, other than the sex.

We broke up a few times while dating and each time she went back to him for sex including one time when we were engaged and only weeks prior to our marriage. Her ex had a huge ego and would take great pleasure in knowing how horny she was and sexually unfulfilled, which he was so easily able to rectify. I know he would make her do and say things to me to exert his dominance (i.e. bringing her to the brink and making her plead to finish her, having her comment about his size, making her admitting that she hadn’t been able to orgasm from sex since they were last together, and even comparisons between us). One time while we were still dating he actually took the opportunity to ‘show off’ in front of me. We were all out of town at a softball tournament (we were in the same circle of acquittances) and I know he orchestrated a situation where the two of us both ended up in a shared shower room after the games. I could go on for hours relating both the extreme humiliation and arousal this resulted in. I can rember if like it was yesterday.

Does she ever mention him to you now?

[Gmor]

Does she ever mention him to you now?

She doesnt directly talk about him much but she will attribute certain things to him like when she was able to have satisfying sex (i.e be able to finish), being able to have orgasms during sex and that feeling she had when being deeply penetrated.

My wife has also had an affair since we've been married (we have since successfully reconciled). She feels a lot of remorse from her infidelity and currently wont consider becoming a hotwife. However she does know about my cuckold fantasy and will play along with it. Its also obvious that she continues to be just as sexually frustrated again as she was before her affair. We rarely have intercourse now (her choice - she finds it too frustrating) but she knows I have 'needs' so about 2x every 3 weeks I will get a hand job and 'story'. The handjob is really just me masturbating after the first 20-30 seconds but the stories are always exciting. They are told in as an anonymous 3rd person but based on certain details its obvious that she is relating real life events that she did with either her ex or her affair partner. Her affair partner was also hugely endowed (she admitted that she specifically sought out this trait) and was able to easily and repeatedly bring her to climax. The descriptions of her orgasms are always incredible and cause me to finish.

So Im just a Wannabe and get almost no real sex in my marriage but in so many ways I feel really lucky. Outside of sex I have an incredible marriage and truthfully the orgasms I get from listening to her stories are as good as I think I could have achieve.

[wulfenus]

Sandi had another story to tell me that occurred during one of our breakups.

Kelly was one of my wife's roommates. Kelly went to an all girls high school so when she got to college she was going to make up for lost time and she slept with a lot of guys. Occasionally she would have just one boyfriend for awhile. They became friends in the dorms, well me too I was there often.

Leaving dorm life, they rented a typical rundown house for students together along with a couple other girls.

Since we were all new to sex, it sure was interesting to hear about her, but I didn't think it was bad,
well maybe a little. She was a nice girl and she was a housemate for yrs/in our close social circle.

She'd fuck a few guys a week. Thursday was a a traditional start of the weekend at our
college, all kinds of drink specials etc onThu night. She usually got laid that night for
starters.

I even was talking to a buddy all the way across campus, her name came up, he'd
fucked her.

She was avg looking, I didn't have any desire for her, that is, enough to risk my gf.

I sometimes wonder what a hubby would think today, if she told you, what has to be
over 100. Makes me wonder though.

One of Kelly's steady guys was Jim. he was about 28, long hair, about 6' tall, avg weight. One of those guys within a few hours of graduating from college, but never did and forever hangs around college towns cause of the easy going lifestyle and apparently the new crop of young women that showed up every year. He worked at a factory. Sandi said she wasn't sure but she thinks he didn't mind Kelly going out with other guys or maybe he didn't know. He had the blue collar look from his work. I knew him from being around, hanging out, I didn't particularly get along with him.

During a party at their house Sandi and Jim went out on the porch to talk. No one else could see them out there so he kissed her. She was leaning with her back against the house. He boldly rubbed her pussy through her blue jeans, she pushed his hand away once, but the second time he rubbed her in the right spot and she didn't stop him. Someone else came out on the porch and Sandi felt caught so they went back to the party and that was all that happened that night. She didn't want her friend Kelly mad at her for kissing Jim.

One night she went out drinking with friends including Kelly and Jim. When they went home she was really horny from guys flirting and dancing with her at the bar. Laying in bed she then had to listen to Kelly and Jim go at it 'all night long' in the other bedroom. This heightened her sexual frustration.

In the morn she got up and went to the kitchen for breakfast. For pajamas she was wearing a long tshirt and panties. The t-shirt covered her panties, but not by much. Jim was sitting on the couch, no shirt, hairy-chested only wearing cutoff shorts. Kelly had gone to her waitress job.

Jim came up behind her when she was standing at the kitchen table, reached around her and started feeling her breasts through her tshirt. Without having a bra on he felt her tits up really good and he kept telling her she was the one he really wanted. She could feel his bulge rubbing against her rear end. Squeezing her tits and playing with them like a man does a new pair, he really had her nipples hard. One hand reached down and rubbed her pussy through her panties. She said he really knew how to rub a girl. He bent her over the kitchen table and was getting a good feel of her whole body with his hardon grinding against her panties from behind.

There was a big window in the kitchen that looked out onto an alley that students walked through to go to class. She could hear students walking and talking out there, which made her frightened she might be seen (and also I later figured out, excited at being seen).

She almost gave in, but the fact that he had been screwing Kelly all night didn't sit well with her, and the noises from the alley, and she wiggled away, running to her room.

The next weekend they had another impromptu party at their house with quite a few friends...

[wulfenus]

The next weekend they had another impromptu party at their house with quite a few friends. Jim got her behind the house where the cars were parked so they could talk. He set her on the fender of a car. They were talking and drinking. He would get between her legs and pull her off the fender, wearing jeans, she would slide slowly off the car, rubbing his bulge against her pussy.

Then he would lift her back up on the fender and do it again. Though her pussy was well protected by her jeans, this was driving her completely crazy and finally she gave in and told him to come to her bedroom window later as she didn't want Kelly know about it and be mad at her.

After the party died down, she went to her room and let him through her window. There was't anyplace to sit in the room except for the obvious bed, which she hesitated to hop in right away. He started kissing her and feeling her curves and finally pushed her onto the bed where he had her blouse open and was rewarding himself with sucking on her tits.

She admits that after getting her pussy rubbed by the car, she really wanted it, especially the first time. He got her jeans off and she was just in her panties. He stood up and took off his clothes, his cock sticking straight out. It was sexy to her to see that and she said he had a good cock on him. She wanted to take her panties off herself, but it didnt seem ladylike. They necked and with his hard cock rubbing on her thighs, it was making her even hotter. He pulled her panties down and mounted her.

She hadn't had any sex for a couple weeks and she realized how much she wanted it. He was fucking her good with her legs flat on the bed. He pulled his cock out, which had her squirming and raised her legs so her knees were up by her head, ankles on his shoulders. Though this position seems common now, Jim was older and obviously more experienced. He remounted her and she could feel his cock go deeper. Not only was she hot to start with, her roommate's boyfriend was in her bedroom and this new position added to the naughtiness, she had a good cum on his cock and he blew is load in her.

They fell asleep and she woke up later as Jim was rubbing her pussy. She was feeling a little guilty and thought maybe they shouldn't do it again, but once he had her squirming again he gave her a good long fucking to orgasm again. As it was now morn, he left.

Apparently she was a good a lay as he dreamed of because he pursed going out with her, even showing up at her parents house, 40 miles when she was there the next week, but she wouldnt date him.

I had a victory in that he wasnt going to get anymore pussy from her, but when I heard this story after we were married, I certainly fantasized a lot about him getting another chance.

[parklife]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex?

It was really the only way my wife would get into being a hotwife. It was important mentally for her not to add people to the list of people she had sex with but since an ex wasn’t ’new’, it seemed better.

She pursued her high school boyfriend with whom she lost her virginity , but he got cold feet. That rejection turned her off for a while but eventually she became a hot wife with someone she had a sexual fling with when she was 19/20. It was her best friends boyfriend at the time. He was large and thick and we’d used him in our fantasy play when toying with the idea. Serendipitously enough, they reconnected and ultimately rekindled their sexual fire and she became a hotwife.

The ex-l from high school eventually came around and regretted turning her down and has been chasing her the last 3-4 years. She’s resisted, but I’m gone for three weeks in July with our kids and I have a suspicion she may break down while I’m out of own.

[SecretHusband]

One of my favorite new things to do is, sometimes when I’m going down on her, I just surprise her and say something like “Oh my god. You’re totally thinking about him.” She always gets this really big smile on her face and she gets really worked up. She playfully tries to deny it but I can usually get her to start talking about his cock and she always cums so hard. She always feels weird when she comes down from her orgasm, though.

[wulfenus]

One of my favorite new things to do is, sometimes when I’m going down on her, I just surprise her and say something like “Oh my god. You’re totally thinking about him.” She always gets this really big smile on her face and she gets really worked up. She playfully tries to deny it but I can usually get her to start talking about his cock and she always cums so hard. She always feels weird when she comes down from her orgasm, though.

this is so hot she will get into it like this, really sexy, you know what's on her mind when she talks with you during this moment.

She always feels weird when she comes down from her orgasm, though.

yes, that's the problem, they do have guilt over it. Maybe because they got into it so much ?
It's as unfaithful you can be without be unfaithful ?

[SecretHusband]

yes, that's the problem, they do have guilt over it. Maybe because they got into it so much ?
It's as unfaithful you can be without be unfaithful ?
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Haha, I definitely think that’s it. My wife really gets into it sometimes and says a lot of dirty stuff. It’s gotten hotter over time.

[Southerncuckboy]

So the guy my wife (then girlfriend) cheated with was her ex. We ran into him at a mutual friend's wedding about two years later. We talked about it because he did message her, and was willing to hook up with her. But we decided against it, there were/are still some bad feelings there, plus he is kind of an asshole.

[SecretHusband]

So the guy my wife (then girlfriend) cheated with was her ex. We ran into him at a mutual friend's wedding about two years later. We talked about it because he did message her, and was willing to hook up with her. But we decided against it, there were/are still some bad feelings there, plus he is kind of an asshole.

My wife says really good things about her ex and he seems like a legitimately good dude. It definitely makes things interesting when I think about it, lol.

[Southerncuckboy]

So the guy my wife (then girlfriend) cheated with was her ex. We ran into him at a mutual friend's wedding about two years later. We talked about it because he did message her, and was willing to hook up with her. But we decided against it, there were/are still some bad feelings there, plus he is kind of an asshole.

My wife says really good things about her ex and he seems like a legitimately good dude. It definitely makes things interesting when I think about it, lol.

That's good, Hannah made some bad choices on guys, which leads to fun stories to hear for me, but means we've had to find others for her to hook up with

[SecretHusband]

So the guy my wife (then girlfriend) cheated with was her ex. We ran into him at a mutual friend's wedding about two years later. We talked about it because he did message her, and was willing to hook up with her. But we decided against it, there were/are still some bad feelings there, plus he is kind of an asshole.

My wife says really good things about her ex and he seems like a legitimately good dude. It definitely makes things interesting when I think about it, lol.

That's good, Hannah made some bad choices on guys, which leads to fun stories to hear for me, but means we've had to find others for her to hook up with

My wife is so cool with her ex that she even admits to me that she’s always wanted to have his babies because she knows they’ll be so cute. She’s definitely not of the mind of him being a “bad choice”, lol. It sounds like you have a good situation as well, though!

[annsman]

We’ve had no problems with my wife dating an ex, they are ex for a reason, particularly if she dumped him.

My wife doesn’t generally fuck for a few dates until she gets to know the man so an advantage with an ex is that she knows him and what he’s like and probably feels comfortable with him, so there isn’t the frustrating delay and suspense of wondering if anything will happen.

The possible problem is if he still holds feelings for her or resentment that she dumped him, but we look out for and deal with that.