Any couples have experience with wife’s ex?

[SecretHusband]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex? My wife and I have discussed getting into the lifestyle. She threw me for a loop when she said that the first guy she would want would be her ex from college. Just curious if anyone could share stories about hooking up with exes. Is it a commonplace thing in these communities?

[silky nylons]

My wife said her ex made her wet just being in his presence. She found him extremely sexy but their personalities didn't mesh for a strong relationship.
They were always fun to be around when they were dating, breaking up, dating again. J my wife said it was purely sexual. Well I always had found them sexy to watch since we were all friends and we were always around each other. Then one day after several years of marriage me and J starting talking about S her ex. He had recently at the time got in touch with her. This led to J hinting to wanting him after I would tell her to think of S while we made love. It wasn't too long after that she made me a Stag. They fuck and make love to each other when they meet up when he travels for work. I'll drive her to him when the distance is far but she will drive alone when its close. They/she will send me pics and short vids of their love making. The last meet up was this past February. Trying to schedule another meet up fairly soon.

[Thebestdays1]

A few years after we were married, we had to move overseas with my job. My wife had just given birth to our daughter and as it was going to take a few months for us to get an apartment, she moved in with her mum and sister in the meantime.
One day she managed to lock herself out of the house with our daughter indoors. She noticed an upstairs window open and was wondering where she could find a ladder when the neighbour's son came home for lunch. He had a ladder so offered to climb up and let her in. When he opened the door, she rushed indoors to check on our daughter, who was still asleep then she gave the neighbour, Ian a hug. She suddenly wanted to kiss him and as they kissed, she felt his erection grow against her and it didn't take her long before she dropped to her her knees and sucked him off. They began an affair and he would fuck her regularly during his lunch breaks and they went on a few dates, with the MIL looking after our daughter.
Two years later, I had to work in a different country and as I was going to be away for 8 months and she'd just had our second daughter, she moved back with her mum and the affair with Ian started again.
About 15 months later, my SIL, Jane and Ian, who had now become a couple themselves, came to stay with us for a week. This was the first time I'd met him. He knew that I knew about him and my wife and he also knew I'd been with Jane many times. I thought things might have been awkward between us but we got on and things went well. Neither women wore a bra that week and they seemed to be competing to see who could give us an eyeful the most. I loved seeing him staring at my wife's chest. Jane's period had started at the beginning of their stay so I suggested he could see if my wife might be willing to help him out during my morning run. I ate two creampies from her that week. On their last morning with us, I ended up in a minor threesome with Jane and Ian, during which, he finished one of his orgasms in my mouth.
The following year they stayed with us again. Once again, there had been a lot of flirting between us all and on the penultimate morning of their stay, Jane and I agreed to initiate a foursome that evening. Unfortunately, Jane changed her mind just as I started to touch my wife in front of them as planned and took Ian upstairs. The next morning, I was just about to go for my run when Jane called me into the bedroom to apologise. We ended up having a threesome and she told me that if I wanted her to agree to the foursome one day, I had to do what ever she told me. I had to clean both of them up and suck him off that morning but the thought of seeing him fuck my wife made me agree to do virtually anything.
We had quite a few threesomes over the next few years. Each time, she'd tell me what she wanted me to do if I wanted the foursome and I was getting more and more desperate for it to happen. I knew what she liked to see me do so when he wasn't fucking her, his penis was either in my mouth or my hand and I wasn't told to do it.
About 10 years later, they came to stay with us for a weekend and we finally had our first foursome and it was great. I actually wanted his penis in my mouth so I could thank it for giving my wife so much pleasure in the past and present. Eating his cum from her was hugely enjoyable, as was cleaning their juices from him. We had 4, foursomes all together and all were great fun. It was great to watch her bounce up and down on his huge erection and hear her moan with pleasure in a way she never did with me. I'd never felt prouder of her and when Jane went upstairs to bed together, I would hug her tightly and feel very loving towards her because she'd finally allowed my fantasy to come true.

[BBCfan]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex? My wife and I have discussed getting into the lifestyle. She threw me for a loop when she said that the first guy she would want would be her ex from college. Just curious if anyone could share stories about hooking up with exes. Is it a commonplace thing in these communities?

My wife's exes are what got me started on this path, especially her horse hung FWB from college and beyond. It is well documented in my thread so won't go into it here.
My guess is many couples get started a similar way.
How did you feel hearing her sharing that and what was it she liked about him most?

[SecretHusband]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex? My wife and I have discussed getting into the lifestyle. She threw me for a loop when she said that the first guy she would want would be her ex from college. Just curious if anyone could share stories about hooking up with exes. Is it a commonplace thing in these communities?

My wife's exes are what got me started on this path, especially her horse hung FWB from college and beyond. It is well documented in my thread so won't go into it here.
My guess is many couples get started a similar way.
How did you feel hearing her sharing that and what was it she liked about him most?

We were in a discussion about who she would want to have sex with. I totally thought that she was going to start talking about celebrities that she would want to hook up with. She immediately said that her ex was the unquestionable number one. She was so straightforward and serious that I knew she had thought about this before. They dated for a couple of years in college and she said that they were extremely passionate. She said that he has a nine inch cock that she thinks about almost every day. She said that he made her a size queen and she’s never found anyone close to his size and skill. She said that they broke up because he had to move across the country for grad school or something and he didn’t want to hold her up in life.

[Wantsomefunto]

I would say tell her to reach out to him and set it
Up

[BBCfan]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex? My wife and I have discussed getting into the lifestyle. She threw me for a loop when she said that the first guy she would want would be her ex from college. Just curious if anyone could share stories about hooking up with exes. Is it a commonplace thing in these communities?

My wife's exes are what got me started on this path, especially her horse hung FWB from college and beyond. It is well documented in my thread so won't go into it here.
My guess is many couples get started a similar way.
How did you feel hearing her sharing that and what was it she liked about him most?

We were in a discussion about who she would want to have sex with. I totally thought that she was going to start talking about celebrities that she would want to hook up with. She immediately said that her ex was the unquestionable number one. She was so straightforward and serious that I knew she had thought about this before. They dated for a couple of years in college and she said that they were extremely passionate. She said that he has a nine inch cock that she thinks about almost every day. She said that he made her a size queen and she’s never found anyone close to his size and skill. She said that they broke up because he had to move across the country for grad school or something and he didn’t want to hold her up in life.

Wow! That must have been a gut punch to hear on some level. To realize all these years she's been lusting after an exes big dick. Or was it all pure arousal for you?
Did it make you insecure or anything. I know initially when I heard that, it definitely made me a bit insecure ...took me a bit to get over that. Are you average or small? I know I am above average but if I had been small and heard about her size Queen escapades I think it would have perhaps been a lot harder to not feel super insecure.

Maybe you could try to get a sheath or dildo that mimics him, That may be a good way to initiate some super hot bedroom play.

Crazy hot to hear about though. Thanks for sharing.

[SecretHusband]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex? My wife and I have discussed getting into the lifestyle. She threw me for a loop when she said that the first guy she would want would be her ex from college. Just curious if anyone could share stories about hooking up with exes. Is it a commonplace thing in these communities?

My wife's exes are what got me started on this path, especially her horse hung FWB from college and beyond. It is well documented in my thread so won't go into it here.
My guess is many couples get started a similar way.
How did you feel hearing her sharing that and what was it she liked about him most?

We were in a discussion about who she would want to have sex with. I totally thought that she was going to start talking about celebrities that she would want to hook up with. She immediately said that her ex was the unquestionable number one. She was so straightforward and serious that I knew she had thought about this before. They dated for a couple of years in college and she said that they were extremely passionate. She said that he has a nine inch cock that she thinks about almost every day. She said that he made her a size queen and she’s never found anyone close to his size and skill. She said that they broke up because he had to move across the country for grad school or something and he didn’t want to hold her up in life.

Wow! That must have been a gut punch to hear on some level. To realize all these years she's been lusting after an exes big dick. Or was it all pure arousal for you?
Did it make you insecure or anything. I know initially when I heard that, it definitely made me a bit insecure ...took me a bit to get over that. Are you average or small? I know I am above average but if I had been small and heard about her size Queen escapades I think it would have perhaps been a lot harder to not feel super insecure.

Maybe you could try to get a sheath or dildo that mimics him, That may be a good way to initiate some super hot bedroom play.

Crazy hot to hear about though. Thanks for sharing.

My feeling were kind of all over the place. It was crazy how blunt she was about everything. I definitely got a little jealous at first, but I figure that’s normal. When I think about it now, I think a little differently. My wife is a beautiful woman. It actually made me happy that she had this period of her life that she got to have amazing sex with her boyfriend and really click with him sexually. She said what they had was very special and she truly deserves that. I’m probably just a touch below average, but nothing to truly be ashamed of. Of course, still only half his size, lol.

[wulfenus]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex?

Not exes in the going together sense, but 2 guys pursued my wife over time before she finally gave in, once or twice with each of them.
Both were during college days, we'd would have our little breakups, one was a bartender where she worked, it was a nice restaurant,
kept after her, the other her slutty roommate's bf chased her around the house. Both were about 10 yrs older and she didn't tell me about them till after we were married.

We'd talk about what happened and we'd both get really hot and bothered. I'd tell her a story of how they might connect again and
we'd cum like crazy, then in the morning she'd say we shouldn't talk like that! frustrating !

[Wantsomefunto]

So are you going to let her meet him again?

[SecretHusband]

Are there couples out there who have experienced the wife reaching out to an ex?

Not exes in the going together sense, but 2 guys pursued my wife over time before she finally gave in, once or twice with each of them.
Both were during college days, we'd would have our little breakups, one was a bartender where she worked, it was a nice restaurant,
kept after her, the other her slutty roommate's bf chased her around the house. Both were about 10 yrs older and she didn't tell me about them till after we were married.

We'd talk about what happened and we'd both get really hot and bothered. I'd tell her a story of how they might connect again and
we'd cum like crazy, then in the morning she'd say we shouldn't talk like that! frustrating !

Haha, I totally get that frustration! My wife has done the exact same thing. She says some of the dirtiest stuff imaginable when we’re messing around and talking about her ex but then, when she isn’t horny, she acts like she doesn’t still have feelings for him. He obviously still holds a place in brain and she hates admitting it unless she knows she’s going to cum!

[Wantsomefunto]

Dare her to contact him

[Aussiem]

One of my wife's exs, was our best man. She started fucking him again after we married

[wulfenus]

she acts like she doesn’t still have feelings for him. He obviously still holds a place in brain and she hates admitting it unless she knows she’s going to cum!

my wife doesnt have shall we say affectionate feelings for them, more the opposite, kinda mad at them, which I think adds to heat of the moment with her, but also makes her initially reluctant to start up a talk about them. So a lot of cross currents going on, but can result in a hot session.

[SecretHusband]

she acts like she doesn’t still have feelings for him. He obviously still holds a place in brain and she hates admitting it unless she knows she’s going to cum!

my wife doesnt have shall we say affectionate feelings for them, more the opposite, kinda mad at them, which I think adds to heat of the moment with her, but also makes her initially reluctant to start up a talk about them. So a lot of cross currents going on, but can result in a hot session.

Do you know the reason your wife and her ex broke up?

[wulfenus]

Do you know the reason your wife and her ex broke up?

they were never really a couple, though Bob, the bartender sure wanted to be with her.

We started dating when I was just out of high school.
Over the next few years we'd break up and get back
together, as young lovers often do, mostly just a week
or two, once in awhile a little longer, the makeup sex
was fantastic. About when she graduated college I had saved up
enough to go to the same college. We decided to get married while I got my degree.

About a year after we were married we'd been out
drinking and came home and that's when she had a story
to tell me. She told me about these other guys she'd
had sex with during our little breakups. I was
stupefied. There were 10 guys who got in her pants and 4 or 5 other 'almosts'.

Most of these were guys from her circle of friends, though
I also knew them, she'd met working around town, and most we still saw
here and there during the week. I'm not sure why she decided to confess, maybe she felt guilty.

At first I felt well these things happen, then I
started thinking of the names, Bob, geez we went to
his bar every so often and he was in his early 30's,
how'd he seduce her? and one guy lived a couple doors
down from us once, what did he do to her? Another guy was her roommate's
factory worker boyfriend.

She told me in general what went on. I was jealous, and not exactly mad, but emotional.
One of the guys she mentioned we'd just seen at a bar that night.
After getting us each another drink, This all started a whole new interest.

I was clueless about her with other guys. I just didn't think about it being a good boy myself. All
the guys were from her circle of friends, so that's how that angle became my turn on, that is
they were not friends of mine.

Mind you I wasnt a saint, i would have fucked other girls, and i did try here and there
I just wasnt confident about asking girls out. I wasnt an introvert, just well girls !

So I'll tell you more of the Bob story.

[wulfenus]

During Sandra's second yr at college she worked at one of the nicer restaurant/bars in town with her roommate Kelly. Generally, students didn't hang out there, more of a place for professional people, college profs and to take your parents when they visited. The tips were good.

The bartender, Bob, made a few passes at her, she assumed, like he had to all the waitresses. He was mid 30s, 5'9" burly type. When I visited the bar I'd get along with him so-so. We had a few of the bar type arguments about whatever the subject of the day was. When things were slow the cook Pete would come out and Bob and he would talk with me at the end of the bar about sports and girls. Heard some good stuff about the other waitresses, but never dreamed who else they might talk about. She told me Pete would ask her out also, so there was a competition.

The owner allowed all the staff to have a free drink at the end of the night. When the owner wasn't there, Bob would give the waitresses more, or even if the owner was, he'd slip them doubles, so he was popular. He sometimes gave Sandi rides home after work at 2am. After a few rides he started necking with her and he'd feel her up, but she wouldn't let him inside her clothes, but he'd still feel her up good. They had to wear a uniform, which was a light yellow blouse, with white trim and a dark yellow skirt and had to wear pantyhose, so he would get his hands up her skirt, but not inside her pantyhose. He'd pushed her back on the front seat and get between her legs and rub his bulge against her.

At this time we were sharing an apartment together, which was exciting for our age, we didn't let our parents know. I had some flirtation with another girl, mind you I didn't do anything ! but I was foolish thinking it would be good to be open and talk about it with Sandi, oh no, she took offense aagh. So we weren't having sex at that time. In the past, we would often have sex if we were arguing as I think it made us hornier, so I was hoping to still get to screw. She would come home late and I would practically beg for it. I'd show her my erection bulging in my
jeans and she would say No!

I had not realized she was making out with Bob moments before. She was probably horny has hell from Bob feeling her up, but she felt guilty also and wouldn't have sex with me. And we even slept in the bed together !

They'd had this make out session three or four times before he talked her into going over to his place to watch a movie after work one night. They started necking in the living room and she said she really felt like she wanted it and he fucked her. Rather shyly she admitted she came right there on the couch. He took her back to the bedroom and fucked her in all kinds of positions until he blew his load in her a second time. He put her through the paces. She felt a little embarrassed telling how he put her In various positions. Probably all the positions he'd been fantasizing about with her as the subject !

Sandi was impressed at how big & hard he kept getting. I'm thinking well yeah a guy gets a girl he's been watching wiggle around in front of him where he works for months and he finally gets in her panties he'd be crazy not to get all he could. At that point of the story, I hadn't realized he wasn't done with her for that night.

We were married about a year when she told me this story and still living in this same town so we did stop in at that bar once in awhile. So not only did this jerk get in her pussy he got in there deep and we've been around him without me knowing what had gone on. This story really made my eyes big when I thought about that aspect.

They dozed off for awhile and when they woke up they had some more drinks and he put a blanket over the end board of the bed and fucked her from behind. She loves fucking doggy style at least with me, but we'd always have to roll over for her to cum. This time though she came with him pounding her. I asked if it was because of the excitement of a new guy or his cock? she said both! She said he had a good pole on him.

When they woke up in the morn he had another hard on. He had her ride his cock.
We'd only done that position once before and only for a few minutes. She was turned on by it because it was naughty and new and really shy about her tits bouncing and the lewd position it is for a girl who isn't experienced in that way.

He had her perform rocking back and forth on his pole. After awhile she told him she was getting worn out and couldn't ride him much longer. After cumming in her 3 times already, I'm sure he could have lasted a long time. He had her ride him fast while he pounded up in her until he blew his fourth load in her !

Most we've ever done it was twice in one night. She was kind of miffed, or something like that, not sure how to describe it, about getting fucked the 4th time, not sure if because of the rocking back and forth or making her little pussy sore. He wanted to date her after this, no wonder! but she wouldn't go out with him. So I said, well that was that, and she admitted a few months later they did get together again.

[silky nylons]

Wolfenus....damn this is really hot! More please.

[wulfenus]

Wolfenus....damn this is really hot! More please.

Thanks much, will continue the story.

[wulfenus]

They fuck and make love to each other when they meet up when he travels for work.

that is so hot that he knows he has a piece of tail waiting for him when he travels your direction.

[Jonjones1529]

No but that's a fantasy of mine. My wife's ex like others in this thread had a large cock and she told me about it. She said it always hurt until they had a kid. Then it fit better.

I've always imagined her fucking him when she would have to go drop their child off. He was married also but I know they had an open relationship so it's nice to imagine her with both of them. Him fucking her with his wife sitting on her face egging him on to cum in her and give her another baby.

[SecretHusband]

No but that's a fantasy of mine. My wife's ex like others in this thread had a large cock and she told me about it. She said it always hurt until they had a kid. Then it fit better.

I've always imagined her fucking him when she would have to go drop their child off. He was married also but I know they had an open relationship so it's nice to imagine her with both of them. Him fucking her with his wife sitting on her face egging him on to cum in her and give her another baby.

Does your wife ever talk about him at all? Do you think she thinks about him sexually still?

[Jonjones1529]

She doesn't talk about him much really. When I make comments about him she typically says something negative about him like he's gross or along those lines. So I don't think there's really any attraction there anymore.

[SecretHusband]

She doesn't talk about him much really. When I make comments about him she typically says something negative about him like he's gross or along those lines. So I don't think there's really any attraction there anymore.

Aww, man. That sucks. My new favorite thing to do is go down on my wife and see what I can get her to say about her ex when she’s at her most horny, lol.

[Jonjones1529]

Yeah I guess I haven't really explored that yet, I'll have to try. Most I've gotten out of her while going down on her and using a dildo was that she loved how thick the "cock" was.

Like your wife funnily enough my wife's ex was also 9inches. Idk how she ever took anything that big.