Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

[KevKevKev]

I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

A few months ago we bought a girthy dildo and we use it a lot. My wife came hard and fast the first time we used it and I've been hooked ever since then. I love watching it go inside her. I love asking her if she wants to fuck her "boyfriend" and hearing her say she wants to get fucked by big cock.

I know the big cock thing tends to be a bigger deal for the husbands rather than the wives and I'm trying to figure out why. I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?

[Wantsomefunto]

A lot of us share your addiction for a big cock in your wife. I guessing you are average or below like me? Using a big dildo is a good way to let her achieve a better orgasm and if you incorporate a vibe on her clit at the same time she will explode.

Maybe as you slide the big dildo in and out of her, ask if she likes the feeling and being stretched and see if she fantasizes about having a real cock that big in her. Even ask her about her past experiences and see if she ever had a big one and wants it again.

[MartasBoy]

I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?

I do enjoy small penis humiliation, so I relate to it through that. For me, I think that it is related to fantasies I have of what I call "fantasies of inadequacy or insignificance."

I spent many many years, my entire twenties, on a large university campus, as a single guy, taking forever to finish my degrees. I've never had the kind of looks that would cause women to drop at my feet, and I had to work for all the girlfriends I got. I never had success picking up girls in college pickup bars. I found that I had my greatest success with the women I got to know more long-term, through work settings and college classes.

I had some wonderful long-term relationships with some wonderful young women, but I also got turned down a lot when asking girls out on the fly. Taking chances and asking out all different kinds of women, even at the risk of rejection, became kind of a fun challenge for me.

I went out to the college pick up bars or parties, and would brazenly go up to women who would be considered way out of my league, and asked them out. I found out that I started to get aroused by the rejection. I would go home later and masturbate, imagining various fantasies with the women who turned me down that evening.

I had been in so many situations, where I got rejected, when I asked some girl if I could buy her a drink or get her phone number, only to see her later walk out with some guy who would be considered much better looking than me. I would later go home and weave some fantasy around her, and that rejection.

I developed some fantasies about the various reasons why I might be rejected over these other guys. The thought of being rejected because a guy appears more manly, or maybe has a larger cock, are things that are beyond my control. I cannot be taller or bigger than I am, and I cannot have a bigger cock than the one I have.

I developed some fantasies about having to compete with guys who had attributes I did not have.

But, I enjoy it when my wife teases me with small penis humiliation, and tells me that her other lovers are bigger and can please her in ways that I can't. You have already indicated that you do not have any small penis humiliation fantasies, so we may be motivated by different things.

[Drakebelg]

You definitely have to go to the subreddit penissleeves and buy a good quality one.

I've always been facinated by huge cock porn. In my mind, if a woman loves that then she is hypersexual. It's purely physical.

I introduced sleeves 10 years ago and gradually went bigger and bigger because my wife turned into a different woman and took them so easily.

Im a decent 7x5.5 but seeing her turn into a crazy woman from a monster cock pounding is insane.
Hopefully she'll find what she wants in her search.

[Gmor]

For me started when my first love and HS girlfriend cheated on me with an alpha jock 'known' to have the biggest cock around. I also pretty small and definitely not 'alpha' or any type of a jock. While it was humiliating and broke my heart at the time we did remain together for another year (when I found out she continued to periodically sleep with him) .
In my two other most significant relationships (including my now marriage) I have also been cheated on and in both cases with guys specially 'selected' because of their size. Both these women would definitely be considered 'size queens' although they dont like that term and would never use it. Im just a Wannabe with my wife (we have reconciled) but I was effectively a cuckold in the other relationship as she insisted we have an open relationship.

[KevKevKev]

A lot of us share your addiction for a big cock in your wife. I guessing you are average or below like me? Using a big dildo is a good way to let her achieve a better orgasm and if you incorporate a vibe on her clit at the same time she will explode.

Maybe as you slide the big dildo in and out of her, ask if she likes the feeling and being stretched and see if she fantasizes about having a real cock that big in her. Even ask her about her past experiences and see if she ever had a big one and wants it again.

I'm of average girth, but a bit longer than average. It's what my wife calls a husband dick. It's a dick that doesn't leave you too sore while still being satisfying. She used to fuck a guy with a huge dick and she said they're fun, but leave her sore and she doesn't want to fuck one full time. I asked if she would want to fuck a big dick on occasion and she said she would be. I think she was on the fence about it before the dildo.

[bbarnsworth]

For me it's not a larger cock for my wife that is exciting, per se. Let me explain...

My wife got to play with a guy who had an absolutely enormous cock. I got to see it too, as this was an MFM. She had fun, to be sure. She got to have sex with him on and off for an entire afternoon. She really enjoyed it. I still have memories of him fucking her. But, it's not among my favorite memories of times I've seen her have sex with other men.

My favorite memories of her fucking other men are her favorite memories. A few are at the top;

• There was the guy who was the third guy she had sex with after we opened our marriage. She just couldn't get enough sex with him. She absolutely loved him fucking her. They got to play together three times (once solo) and every time she was just over the moon happy about it. The first time convinced her that being a hotwife/swinger was worth it.

• There was another guy who she actually fell in love with. Their sex became very intimate, very close, very fulfilling sex. I got to participate in a couple of MFMs with this guy and my wife. It was a very different feeling than other MFMs. He's still the only guy she's done overnights with. They were more like a couple than other guys she's played with, by far. She had sex with him for years, before he unfortunately got a monogamous girlfriend.

• The third was a guy who my wife got to play with many times. One of the times was an MFM. She achieved an incredible level of hyper arousal that I've never seen her in before or since. Eventually, she was begging him to cum inside her.

None of these men had particularly large cocks. In fact, I'm larger than two of them and equal of the third. What made it special and what excites me so much is how much she enjoyed it. I feed off of her enjoyment, and the more she enjoys it the more I am aroused about it. I still fantasize about all three of these times. I don't really ever fantasize about the larger cock guy. Now that she's had such a cock, both for her and I it's kind of a 'check that off the bucket list' sort of thing. Fun, but been there done that now.

[Flint]

A lot of us share your addiction for a big cock in your wife. I guessing you are average or below like me? Using a big dildo is a good way to let her achieve a better orgasm and if you incorporate a vibe on her clit at the same time she will explode.

Maybe as you slide the big dildo in and out of her, ask if she likes the feeling and being stretched and see if she fantasizes about having a real cock that big in her. Even ask her about her past experiences and see if she ever had a big one and wants it again.

I'm of average girth, but a bit longer than average. It's what my wife calls a husband dick. It's a dick that doesn't leave you too sore while still being satisfying. She used to fuck a guy with a huge dick and she said they're fun, but leave her sore and she doesn't want to fuck one full time. I asked if she would want to fuck a big dick on occasion and she said she would be. I think she was on the fence about it before the dildo.

I love her description of a 'Husband Dick', must run that one by my wife; I suspect she would classify mine as the same

[KevKevKev]

None of these men had particularly large cocks. In fact, I'm larger than two of them and equal of the third. What made it special and what excites me so much is how much she enjoyed it. I feed off of her enjoyment, and the more she enjoys it the more I am aroused about it. I still fantasize about all three of these times. I don't really ever fantasize about the larger cock guy. Now that she's had such a cock, both for her and I it's kind of a 'check that off the bucket list' sort of thing. Fun, but been there done that now.

I think this is where the difference between fantasy and reality comes in. The fantasy is that the other man will have a huge cock and make the wife cum over and over, but the reality is what you said in that average dick fellas can fuck just as well and become your wife's favorite.

All of the porn that really stresses big cock has really got men messed up because they will begin to believe that they can't satisfy a woman if their cock is average or below, but that kind of porn sells, so it ends up being a vicious cycle. I have to wonder how much of my big cock desire comes from porn.

[nks]

Hi! I can relate too. I love the idea, but for me the cock in my wife does not have to be huge, just bigger than mine to feel exciting. Though if my wife wants a smaller cock or a very big cock, it is entirely up to her. Black cock instantly makes her wet, so... who knows. If it is bigger tha mine... so humiliating. And it is good to be humiliated.

I am average or slightly below average. My wife likes my cock. But it is a husband cock. And I feel like this: there are men with much thicker cocks. Would I want my wife to enjoy the thrill of really amazing sex? Yes. Would I love to know that she enjoys sex a lot? Yes. Would I want a strong man to fuck her with his huge cock? Yes.

She still being with me after that and still giving me attention is the ultimate feeling of love. I am not good in bed so humiliation is something I deserve. Also it is clear that sex will be better with the lover, so it is fine if she only wants to do it with him. But if she still wants me then that is something great.

I had an ex who was very conservative but got wild at parties and she loved to make me jealous to feel loved. I would get jealous, but then she would come to me and I had this renewed love for her. She was the first woman I wanted to cheat on me (not communicated open relationship, but cheating). That feeling of jealousy and then reassuring me of her love was pretty much like a roller coaster ride.

[King_Mr]

I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?

I do enjoy small penis humiliation, so I relate to it through that. For me, I think that it is related to fantasies I have of what I call "fantasies of inadequacy or insignificance."

I spent many many years, my entire twenties, on a large university campus, as a single guy, taking forever to finish my degrees. I've never had the kind of looks that would cause women to drop at my feet, and I had to work for all the girlfriends I got. I never had success picking up girls in college pickup bars. I found that I had my greatest success with the women I got to know more long-term, through work settings and college classes.

I had some wonderful long-term relationships with some wonderful young women, but I also got turned down a lot when asking girls out on the fly. Taking chances and asking out all different kinds of women, even at the risk of rejection, became kind of a fun challenge for me.

I went out to the college pick up bars or parties, and would brazenly go up to women who would be considered way out of my league, and asked them out. I found out that I started to get aroused by the rejection. I would go home later and masturbate, imagining various fantasies with the women who turned me down that evening.

I had been in so many situations, where I got rejected, when I asked some girl if I could buy her a drink or get her phone number, only to see her later walk out with some guy who would be considered much better looking than me. I would later go home and weave some fantasy around her, and that rejection.

I developed some fantasies about the various reasons why I might be rejected over these other guys. The thought of being rejected because a guy appears more manly, or maybe has a larger cock, are things that are beyond my control. I cannot be taller or bigger than I am, and I cannot have a bigger cock than the one I have.

I developed some fantasies about having to compete with guys who had attributes I did not have.

But, I enjoy it when my wife teases me with small penis humiliation, and tells me that her other lovers are bigger and can please her in ways that I can't. You have already indicated that you do not have any small penis humiliation fantasies, so we may be motivated by different things.

This is fascinating. Do you think you were actively seeking rejection in order to feel some control over it? Did you get more of a high from a rejection or an acceptance?

[flexxxdee]

I love my wife and want to see her have great experiences. One of those experiences would be to get regularly bred by a well hung guy who can fuck her all night and make her cum through intercourse alone. She’s only ever had my 6” and I want more for her.