10 common replies to asking your wife to have sex with another man and what she MIGHT secretly be thinking

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10 common replies to asking your wife to have sex with another man and what she MIGHT secretly be thinking

Unread post by firef503 » Sun Jun 15, 2025 9:53 am

This is for the all the Wannabe's out there stuck in that in between. You brought up cucking for the first time and got something other than an enthusiastic yes but instead a vague reply that isn't really yes or no. Then some thing she might be thinking under the surface....... Ok so this is some sattire mixed in with some truth. Plus there's no such thing as a hard set fast rules that applies to all women.

1) A vaugue reply, "I don't think I'd like that."
Secretly thinking, "It's good to know I have a free pass just in case it ever comes up."

2) "I don't want to be in that kind of marriage."
Secretly thinking, "I don't want to be labeled as a cheater so if I ever have an option then I will get divorced instead."

3) "I don't want a husband that fantasizes about me having sex with other men."
Secretly thinking, "sounds of appealing but years of society conditioning and religion tell me that is wrong!"

4) "well maybe but I'd just want things to happen naturally."
Secretly: "sure if a great option comes along i'm all for that!"

5) "are you just wanting to have sex with other women?"
secretly thinking: "he wants to fuck another woman." (pretty straight forward)

6) "You are sick! Who would ever want their wife to do something like this!"
Secretly thinking, "How did he find out I'm already cheating!"

7) "I'm worried the kids would find out."
Secretly thinking, "If we can do this safe without other people finding out I'm totally on board!"

8) "who did you have in mind?"
Secretly thinking, "I hope it's his hot friend _____ I'd fuck him in a heartbeat!"

9) "That's not part of god's plan."
Secretly thinking: "I'd love to be a bad girl for once!"

10) "I only love you there is no way I'd ever think about another man that way."
Secretly thinking: "I need to call the girls for a vegas trip because this pussy is open for business!!! But there's no way I'd ever tell him about it!"

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Re: 10 common replies to asking your wife to have sex with another man and what she MIGHT secretly be thinking

Unread post by nks » Mon Jun 16, 2025 7:11 am

Wow! A very hot list. I love it! For a wannabe who has to do with fantasy this is an exciting read. My wife is at this point probably number 2... ugh...

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Re: 10 common replies to asking your wife to have sex with another man and what she MIGHT secretly be thinking

Unread post by annsman » Mon Jun 16, 2025 12:28 pm

I can relate to a variation of a few on your list, but obviously all couples are different.

We were turned on reading the wife sharing letters in my magazines and fantasising about it so Ann knew it wasn’t because I wanted the excuse to fuck another girl.

When I suggested doing it for real she said she could with the right man in the right circumstances.

She didn’t want a sordid affair like her friend where she’d have to hide away and be ashamed of what she was doing. But she didn’t want people finding out and thinking she was “just another sad unfaithful housewife”

She wanted to meet someone naturally, she didn’t want to use contact magazines or sex clubs etc.

Our kids were young so that wasn’t an issue.

I think her bottom line was that I had to be comfortable about her being open about it, which led to a lot of sometimes heated, but erotic discussions.

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