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Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2025 3:50 am
by Wanttobeil
Hi everyone,
I'm just starting to explore this world and I'm curious how to gently introduce it to my wife. I don’t want to suggest right away that she sleep with other men I'd prefer for the idea to come from her, if it ever does.
What’s a good way to slowly open the conversation and let her discover this world at her own pace?
Thanks in advance for your advice

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2025 10:19 am
by bbarnsworth
Welcome!

You've just taken a step towards this dream :)

I recently made post elsewhere on the forum that I think is appropriate to your question.

viewtopic.php?f=48&t=76299&p=1564035#p1564035

Each situation is different though; if you have more questions, please ask! We're happy to help!

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2025 7:12 pm
by Wantsomefunto
What is she like? Does she go out for drinks any? Does she like toys? Those two things can help break the ice

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2025 9:19 am
by Cuckcuckgoose1
Do you guys watch porn together? If so....adjust your viewing preferences to hotwife or cuckold porn and watch her reaction.

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2025 5:31 pm
by Dream Weaver
Wanttobeil wrote:
Sat Jul 05, 2025 3:50 am
Hi everyone,
I'm just starting to explore this world and I'm curious how to gently introduce it to my wife. I don’t want to suggest right away that she sleep with other men I'd prefer for the idea to come from her, if it ever does.
What’s a good way to slowly open the conversation and let her discover this world at her own pace?
Thanks in advance for your advice
Around here I’ve seen the “I had this wild dream” tactic used with some success.

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2025 6:07 pm
by bbarnsworth
Dream Weaver wrote:
Mon Jul 07, 2025 5:31 pm
Around here I’ve seen the “I had this wild dream” tactic used with some success.
Meh. Transparent has hell!

Re: Introducing My Wife to the Lifestyle Gently

Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2025 10:26 pm
by Dream Weaver
bbarnsworth wrote:
Mon Jul 07, 2025 6:07 pm
Dream Weaver wrote:
Mon Jul 07, 2025 5:31 pm
Around here I’ve seen the “I had this wild dream” tactic used with some success.
Meh. Transparent has hell!
Isn't that the point?

People who play ESP games go nowhere.