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About 10+ years have gone into trying to persuade my wife into this lifestyle.
She enjoys talking about it and fantasizing while using toys. She gets very wet when we play and I describe sexy scenarios for her.
I probably scared her at first by how deep I got into describing things for her and learned to back off. Right now, all I ask of her is to go out on one date with a man. It doesn't have to include sex, but she knows I've given her the green light if she desires it. If it's just a typical first date with maybe some handholding and a good night kiss at the end, she knows it would drive my libido off the charts, especially if it progressed to a second date.
From the first she expressed interest, but she has always been very shy and just can't get over the hump.
I've recently been in contact with another hot wife from a different site who's graciously offered to "counsel" her and answer any questions she might have. She's offered to meet with her personally as she is local to us.
My wife trusts me completely, so it wasn't a difficult topic to bring up with her. At first she was reluctant, but I've talked to her about this and she's agreed for me to give her phone number so they can connect and arrange something.
I've always felt that if she had a wing woman to help her with her nerves that she would be more readily willing to put herself out there and get over step one.
Right now, I'm extremely excited by all this. It could go well, or it could be a mistake on my part.
We'll see?

It's progress!

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Sat Jul 12, 2025 11:30 am

She enjoys talking about it and fantasizing while using toys. She gets very wet when we play and I describe sexy scenarios for her.

Sounds really hot to me !

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Good Luck to you both; very much looking forward to hear how it goes.

It's been a long time since I posted this but no matter how I try I can't seem to get the two of them together.
The hot wife that proposed this has been very inconsistent. She has my wife's number, but she hasn't contacted her, yet?
Every time I exchange messages with her it seems I have to bring her up to speed on what the situation is and what's expected of her and my wife.
She's also been very flaky on responding to my attempts to contact her.
To be honest, things have changed in our lifestyle recently that make it harder for my wife to accommodate this.
I have to think that she may be misrepresenting who she is. Maybe she's a guy or maybe she's a vanilla wife with a big imagination.
I'll keep trying but it's very frustrating

It sounds like it's time to remember one of the old rules. "If it sounds to good to be true, it is probably too good to be true"

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Agreed, sounds like a jerkoff with a keyboard in mommies cellar. Arrange a call with "her", if it doesn't happen then I'd call it it's ghosting time. If the clown can't string you on, then the thrill is gone.

Would she be open to starting her own account on here with the intent being she can learn from other hotwives on the women only portion?