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As a wannabe I had the chance the other week to make such an introduction but on this occasion kept it as a passing hello. I did wonder if next time I should start a conversation going and maybe a drink.
thoughts?

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Thanks for your reply SlimScott. Nothing ventured nothing gained. I like that

I did this not so long, as you may have read. I was incredibly nervous to take this gamble but once the dice was thrown, the players did everything else on their own faster and more easily than I ever expected.

QuietHope wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 17, 2025 2:11 pm

I did this not so long, as you may have read. I was incredibly nervous to take this gamble but once the dice was thrown, the players did everything else on their own faster and more easily than I ever expected.

Thanks. Is that reigniting the flame story? I will have to dig into it

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DanielBlues wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 15, 2025 2:54 pm

As a wannabe I had the chance the other week to make such an introduction but on this occasion kept it as a passing hello. I did wonder if next time I should start a conversation going and maybe a drink.
thoughts?

I have done this. In fact my wife always makes it clear that she is in control of choosing her boyfriends and playmates. I am not allowed to dictate her choices.

Whenever a guy approaches her anywhere, she will tell me to go to the car to find her sunglasses or hair clip she left there. This signals to the guy that she is in charge and calls the shots. It occupies me so that guys feel free to respond to her flirtations, and move in on her.

If they decide to hook up, she will voice text to me so he understands the deal. She will voice text to me saying, "You can go on home. I either won't be home tonight, or I can take an Uber home."

MartasBoy wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 18, 2025 1:44 pm

DanielBlues wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 15, 2025 2:54 pm

As a wannabe I had the chance the other week to make such an introduction but on this occasion kept it as a passing hello. I did wonder if next time I should start a conversation going and maybe a drink.
thoughts?

I have done this. In fact my wife always makes it clear that she is in control of choosing her boyfriends and playmates. I am not allowed to dictate her choices.

Whenever a guy approaches her anywhere, she will tell me to go to the car to find her sunglasses or hair clip she left there. This signals to the guy that she is in charge and calls the shots. It occupies me so that guys feel free to respond to her flirtations, and move in on her.

If they decide to hook up, she will voice text to me so he understands the deal. She will voice text to me saying, "You can go on home. I either won't be home tonight, or I can take an Uber home."

definitely my wife, if she ever went for this would totally want to chooser her own men. My tastes and choices in gifts absolutely suck., She always wants a receipt for her money back. Finding those places locally would be good for us
Fascinating, where in general social settings. do you find guys that are looking to hook up? We thought the whole scene had moved online?

If I knew a Bull whom my wife would feel attracted to I would not hesitate to introduce her and hope for the best!

Flint wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 18, 2025 4:48 pm

If I knew a Bull whom my wife would feel attracted to I would not hesitate to introduce her and hope for the best!

Nice one!

Interesting post as this was a recent discussion at home almost turned into reality.

There is a guy I come across in my line of work it turns out he was hooking up with a couple of my wife’s friends over a period of time as a known bull. In a chat these ladies actually shared a DP he sent one of them needless to say dude was like a foot lol. My wife shared the intel with me no I didn’t ask to see the pic lol.

A few months later after a convo from that ladies chat we realized the guy was the same person I knew. After weeks of me playing this up and her saying things like “lucky girl” and maybe I’ll stop by the Starbucks near his work I thought maybe she’s into him.

Again weeks go by and I play around with this and finally I say I’m meeting the guy for local dinner Friday night do you want to come? She says stop teasing lol I say I’m serious just low key social and others will be there just to see if you like him in person or would even consider. She then says “oh shit you’re serious?” to which I say sure. She then loses her shit on me about pimping her out and tells me I have a weird kink lol. So here I sit playing the long game .

CuriousB, but the question is did she or is she still going to go with you to meet him?

Lmao much to my dismay she did not go. So here I sit with you fine folks in the wannabe forum lol.

For sure would make an introduction and I would support her decision as this would be for her and not myself.

If by “socially introduce” you mean a situation that you arranged with a prospective bull without her knowledge, I’d say no. Something about that seems ethically wrong and violates my fundamental rule about communication and transparency.

For wannabes, I can see the temptation of that idea. But even if it worked out and she took the bait, I could easily see an angry wife when she discovers later you were concealing a set-up.

Now if you’re referring to a situation where you propose meeting a guy and she agrees knowing the intention, that’s a different matter. In fact, that’s how many of our ‘new friend’ situations came about.