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I have been silently interested in hotwifing and cuckolding for about 6 years. I have been with my fiancée since college, so for 11 years, and we are getting married soon. We’ve been very vanilla up to this point, although she has said she’d like to talk more about kinks.

I’ve tried to inform myself as much as I can about the lifestyle, but still nervous to begin the small steps of raising the conversation with her. Just wondering, has anyone gone to a lifestyle-friendly therapist, even on your own, to sort out your feelings prior to raising it with your significant other? What has your experience been?

The best way to find a therapist that can assist is to begin looking for sex positive therapist on platforms like Psychology Today or by doing a Google search for sex positive therapist in your area. You can then reach out to each one and se what their knowledge / expertise is for open marriage, ENM, Poly based relationships, swingers / lifestyle etc.