On The Bench

[Imascamp]

I've been a casual lurker on this site for a long time. Like many of you, I've also loved the idea of my wife taking a lover for a long time. I was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer and subsequently had it removed. (Zero stars and do not recommend on that whole experience.) Now I have a couple of months of incontinence issues to deal with as I learn to use my muscles a bit differently. Also, and most critically, I'm looking at 12-18 months before I start having an erection again. I'm three weeks post op and have discovered that while my dick is dead and leaking occasionally, my libido is alive and well.

This strikes me as the perfect opportunity to bring in a stunt dick to fuck my wife and satisfy her needs while I recover. I'm not sure how to start that conversation with her. She had a fling while we were separated years back and once we reunited she has been loath to discuss that event and has been uncomfortable talking about sex at all. We have had great sex together, just no real talking about it.

I'd love to hear from anyone in a similar circumstance or any suggestions in general.

Until my dick comes back to life, I remain on the bench.

[AZguy425]

A year to 18 months is plenty of time to build her desire to need to desperation. Being especially sexual with her when you can't fulfill the need right now is great way to push her towards it. This is a great opportunity and a great story I hope to continue to read about!

[BallSpanking]

Interesting introduction, realistic and seemingly devoid of self-pity. I think perhaps that is the clarity that results from the 'gift of life'.
You deal with the essentials, the minor things, fall away. The way you presented your situation is reasonable and practical. You could probably use the exact same words when you do take it up with your wife ... Perhaps using a more alluring term for 'stunt dick'.