She's Ready!

[Stag78]

Thanks for the insight and advice. Ill keep on it. I let her know how sexy she is. We went to a nude beach this summer and I took a pic of her, shes beautiful and I let her know...her response was..look at my belly..nope, I don't see it and neither did any of the guys there. She is very cutes, has athletic body and great tits. I let her know all the time, but she thinks I need to say that because I'm her husband.

she has said, right time, guy and place, she's do it...so I'm hopeful...please continue on with your adventure, Thanks for posting

Dude, you are closer than you may realize! Right time, right guy, right place is very encouraging! That shows that she has thought about doing it, and is open to fulfilling your fantasy if a situation she is comfortable with presents itself. And going to a nude beach together is also very encouraging. Even though she expresses insecurities about her appearance, she is still willing to show her body off because she knows you like it, and she enjoys it herself.

My wife is also insecure about her belly and her perceived imperfections, but that doesn't stop her from wearing the tiniest bikinis ever on the beach. Like you, I tell her no guy watching her notices her flaws, they just see how sexy she is. Keep it up, she WANTS to hear you tell her it's OK. Tell her she's the sexiest woman those boys have ever seen! Continue to encourage and support her and I promise it will bear dividends.

[Stag78]

This information is priceless. It helps me understand where I have gone wrong, in the past, and how to make a couple adjustments in my approach, as well. Thanks brother

Being a cuck is a vulnerable position to be in. You are giving her the power to crush you if she wants to. But you are also giving her the power to make your dreams come true. Best of luck to you, my friend.

[sharedfantasy]

Wise words…

As she slowly eases toward becoming a hotwife—what all of us hopeful wannabes want—she’ll get to feel out the reality of the journey and all the emotions and dynamics that come with it. At the same time, I’ll discover whether I truly have what it takes to be the supportive cuck/stag she deserves.

I still catch myself wondering if, when the actual first time arrives, I’ll be able to follow through… or if I’ll freeze up and get cold feet. I’m convinced the slow, gradual path is the only healthy way for a married couple to do this. Ten years ago when I reintroduced the idea, I came on too strong and too direct—she shut it down instantly. In hindsight, there is no way I would have been able to handle it if we just jumped into it blindly. This time around, taking it step by step gives both of us the space to process, to warm up emotionally, and to let the fantasy gently become reality. No matter how intense the desire has been over the years, reshaping the foundation of a marriage can’t be rushed if the lifestyle is going to last.

Naturally there will be stretches where things move faster and others where everything pauses again, but as long as it stays fully mutual, honest, and communicative, we’ll be okay.
It is incredible how much I hav relearned from this forum and I am forever grateful to all who have helped me, whether directly or indirectly.
Wishing you both the very best on your own journey too!

[CuriousOne36]

Looking forward to hearing about your progress.